How to have a confidant

Sometimes you need to have it in life, and don't force it when you don't have it

Hello, I am Sister Emotional Fairy, reply to your questions immediately, and wait patiently for me.

The people who accompany you will not set a standard for you, because you will have your own rules, and you will definitely have your own principles for the people you like, so you don't need to make rules and regulations for yourself.

Questions. How to be a confidant.

Schoolboy. Then let yourself be a confidant, that is, how others define you, you can still be free.

Questions. How to talk to him.

How to reply to him.

For example, I feel very lucky that you define confidante like this, and I hope that our future interactions can always have the best of both worlds.

If you want to be a confidant, you have to do it first.

Tell the difference between Hongyan and your girlfriend, you are.

His female friend and not his girlfriend!

Don't get me wrong, really treat him as a friend.

Friends, and don't think anything wrong, just like you do with your friends, but after all.

There are differences between men and women, and sometimes they cannot be the same.

Discuss. Anyway, just treat him as your best friend.

Friends are it.

To be a good confidant, you must grasp the scale between men and women, as long as you do this, you can be a good confidant.

Do what you should do and don't cross the line.

Those who love you but never embarrass you are called confidantes, those who understand that you are reluctant to hurt you are called confidantes, and those who give but do not ask for you are called confidants. In fact, confidante is a kind of wordless tenderness, an invisible companion, and a person who understands. Like a relative, he can always pay for you silently without asking for anything in return.

The so-called confidante means that maybe both parties have their own families, their own lifestyles, their own social circles, their own fixed lovers, etc., and their own ways of life. But because of the tacit understanding of thoughts, because of the communication and integration of souls, because of this state of the heart, there is a kind of interdependence, a kind of mutual admiration, a kind of love, such a kind of respect, such a like, such a hazy, such a secret love, such a joy, such multiple factors in it, and it becomes very mysterious and sweet, making people feel that it is a real existence.

The so-called confidante is another kind of opposite sex who is not a wife or lover by the side of a man or woman. This kind of confidant is generally difficult to meet. When you are sick, waiting by his bedside, the one who wants to be sick for him and pain for him is his wife.

The real red face is: you and I appreciate each other and are willing to pour out our hearts, but due to reality, we both know that it is impossible to be together, and both parties are also very smart to maintain this relationship, but your and my emotions are real. But this kind of confidante generally does not last too long, and over time, due to the distance of reality, the relationship will gradually fade.

Knowing is a person who can put his heart in the hinterland, undefended, with a similar level of thought, close to the three views, and can be convinced, etc., adding a red face in front of him is a man's opposite sex knower. People often say that you can't find it, but I don't believe it. I am determined to train my wife to be a confidant, and after fifteen years of training, running-in, and adjustment, I have basically succeeded.

We often talk about life all night, plan the direction of life together, encourage each other, appreciate each other, understand each other, and work together to move the family in the direction of the sunny mentality, as long as the material is passable, and the spirit and soul should be healthy and happy!

Higher than the lover, lower than the husband and wife, the crowd in the middle, as long as the other party has something, they will help each other unreservedly, nothing to do with Fengyue, just care, like the little sister next door, clear eyes, no distractions, just wish her good, just hope that he is good, do not hurt the family, do not attack the city, will not attack the city from outside the city, just do watch and help each other.

There is a saying that "women are the ones who please themselves", which really contains this kind of woman who understands the most amorous style, knows the most knowledge, and understands the man's heart best. is often born delicate and beautiful, affectionate and icy, looking forward to life, being able to treat men who are pleasing to themselves sincerely, and the assistance of death.

The confidante is probably the one who eventually turns into a cinnabar mole or white moonlight, because he has no chance to spend his life with a man, so his regrets become incomplete beauty. So, what do men's confidantes look like? If a woman wants to be eternal in a man's life, she must either be his mother or a confidante that he will never get.

At the end of the day, confidantes encompass a lot of things. Love is too short, marriage is too boring, only confidantes can last long. Therefore, women who can be content to be a man's confidante are usually very open-minded and intelligent.

It is such a very pleasant, very unscrupulous and unrestrained existence, which can tell the troubles and pains of life together, such a kind of laughter and scolding, and such a kind of freewheeling, without distinguishing between each other. It is such a feeling that is really above family, love, and friendship! He is the most real part of your heart, he will make you feel that your life is not lonely, not lonely, and let the flower of your life be filled with such abundance.

He makes you feel a real love in this world, let you know that your life is so sunny, and there is another person in this world who is so real to you, who pays so much attention to you, and knows that there is still such a person in this world.

I think the confidante is the lover of your dreams, the soul mate, and the person who knows you best, she is not demanding, only adds fragrance but not chaos, only paints and does not graffiti. It is enough to have a confidant in life, which enriches life, enriches emotions, enriches spirit, and sunshines vision.

Confidante, generally refers to a woman between a wife and a lover, who understands how to listen to a man's heart and lungs when he is frustrated, understands the complex when a man is in pain, and can share the joyful atmosphere when a man is successful, especially to encourage a man's motivation to move forward.

Two sentences can explain it, and at the end of the meeting, his face turned red first, and after a while, his mouth was as red as oil.

I miss you, miss you, and wait for you to ......It is enough to have a confidant in life.

Life has to know everything, it's enough!

than a good friend and then copy.

DAO worried.

You'll go to his blog from time to time to see if there's an update; And you'll notice between the lines if he hints at you.

There are feelings, however, that are not enough for you to actually develop a formal relationship.

Understand that there are too many helplessness in life, and there are too many limitations in reality. You know it's impossible, but you're reluctant to let go.

He is not your lover, but it seems that he cares about you and understands you better than your lover.

Although he is not your lover, he will say to you: You are very important to me.

When you have a cold, there is an ordinary friend who will call ** at night, specially remind you to take medicine, and tell you to cover the quilt and go to bed early.

When you can't find your boyfriend or girlfriend when you can't solve a problem, he is the first thing you think of.

Every day, everyone will chat QQ, send mobile phone text messages to each other, and go on occasional dates irregularly.

Except for Valentine's Day, everyone exchanges gifts on other holidays, and you want to go the extra mile, but you are afraid that you will scare him. You'll be careful about showing your feelings.

I guess so! Just good friends!

Those who love you but never embarrass you are called confidantes, and those who understand that you are reluctant to hurt you are called confidantes, and they pay but do not return to you.

The person who asks for it is called Hongyan.

Bosom friend. Answer: In fact, confidante is a kind of wordless tenderness, an invisible companion, and a person who understands. Like a relative, he can always pay for you silently without asking for anything in return.

A confidante is what you can't say to your wife, talk to him, and talk to him when you're unhappy with your lover, and someone listens to you in everything, listens to your nagging, and shares the burden for you.

A Bai Ren Du who wants to find a red face must want to make his own life.

Zhi lives in a relaxed and fulfilling waySo what kind of talent can find to achieve such an effect, the first of all, this person does not have to be beautiful, but must look pleasing to the eye, you must appear in front of him when he is most troubled and painful, be good to him, but will never ask him to marry you, can not let him because you are stressed, you can only be a pistachio when he is troubled, a charger when he is lonely. A fog when you're happy.

You have to be like one of his pets, beckoning and going.

Summary. A confidante means that she understands you but does not tie you down. Sometimes love is a bond, because love is selfish, but confidantes don't, because you are not the only one for each other, you can have other friends besides each other, she will be there when you need it, but she will not blame you for not being here all the time.

It seems that you can only get the tenderness of a woman, but you don't have to pay for the single-mindedness of a man to a woman.

What does it mean to be a confidante?

A confidante means that she understands you but does not tie you down. Sometimes love is a bond, because love is selfish, but confidantes don't, because you are not the only one for each other, you can have other friends besides each other, she will be there when you need it, but she will not blame you for not being here all the time. It seems that you can only get the tenderness of a woman, but you don't have to pay for the single-mindedness of a man to a woman.

Not suitable, once it happens it will affect your family relationships.

Then how should I get along with him in the future, throw it away and be reluctant, be together, and can't give, everyone is reluctant, do you say I'm in love with him, how can I do it.

I suggest that you still socialize less, otherwise it will destroy your family and be an ordinary friend.

Okay, I understand a little, it's just that I can't let go of the emotions that I have built up with great difficulty for a while, and it takes time to let go**, but if he doesn't give up, he won't destroy my family, as long as he can be with me, not necessarily all the time, as long as anything can be good, how do you say I should be good, good no direction, please explain more, thank you.

But if your wife finds out and you plan to explain like this, your wife will definitely not let you do this. It's just a matter of time, and one day it will be put down. You can tell her you can't be together, just be friends.