I want to leave him and I can t give up, what should I do?

There is a well-written lyric in Faye Wong's song: "Love is harder to forgive than hate".

It's true, we love very much. Happiness and pain go hand in hand, just as life and death are inseparable. We smiled as we wiped our wounds until we finally forgot to shed tears.

And then look back at the past, we didn't get anything, but we have left ourselves in a lot of holes. Fate is always unexpected but reasonable. And life is a gamble that you can't afford to lose but don't dare to win too much, how can you be sure that he won't leave you?

Since he can not get divorced, it shows that he still values his family. At least as a man, he wants to save his face. This kind of man, in fact, is very embarrassing, they want to have both fish and bear's paws, or find an elixir for themselves, and look for a feeling that they have never had before in freshness.

The word "love" can be pronounced upside down - "love". Human love is limited, but desire is unlimited. Human desires are always strong and surging.

In China, the so-called "third party" is often seen differently, and I think you understand what I mean, right? If a man, he is a real man, then he will be responsible for you, and for the sake of love, you can give up that family. Everyone has the right to strive for happiness, but he has not given up on his family, which means that he has not decided to stay with you for a long time.

You don't want to play just a "lover" role, do you?

I think you should be able to understand a little bit by saying this. The opinion of any bystander is really just your reference, and it is you who can liberate yourself. Remember that "the bell must be tied to the bell"! Finally, let's end with a few lyrics.

The ebb of love is like a scar.

Hurt to give a statement.

You can be happy when you let it go.

Give your mind a good rest.

You can be happy when you let it go.

Give your mind a good rest.

If you can't hold the sand, you can put it down.

If he can't hold it, he can put it down."

Hope it helps.

It is harder to hate someone than to love someone. Since it is fruitless. Then give up!~

Otherwise, you will fall deeper and deeper!~

To be tolerant of others is to be tolerant of yourself!~1

Knowingly choose to make a decisive decision Why did he deceive you Fool Don't base your happiness on the pain of others Good people will be rewarded.

Hello, your kind of wisdom is very understandable, the current location of lead Shen may be a place that I have long been familiar with, and I have a deep affection for everything in this place, so I don't want to leave it, but I want to go to the place and I haven't go, I may feel unwilling, I think this situation is difficult to choose, we can go to the place we want to go to play for a few days at the right time to travel for a few days, to see if we can give up the familiar place for this place, If not, we'll go back to the place we know well, mainly because I have concerns and I'll go if I don't.

If you really want to go, I recommend putting aside your worries for a while and staying where you want to go for a few days.

The main thing is that I have concerns on both sides, which makes it difficult for me to decide.

Then listen to your inner thoughts, and see which side is more important, which side you want to go to.

Both sides are important.

Is it all the same?

Yes. Do you have a bias in your heart, or have the people around you suggested which side is better?

No. <>

<> then do you want to choose to live on both sides?

Then see what you want to be more in**.

Uh-huh, okay, thanks.