What is it that can t let go?

When you like someone, you want to be with him because he will bring you joy; After leaving, you will miss, laugh at the thought of it, and then move on with your peaceful life and look forward to seeing him again. When you love someone and you want to be with him, it is a kind of reluctance to worry about him, afraid that he will be wronged, afraid that he will not be able to take good care of himself; After leaving. You'll miss too, thinking about it and sighing"I wonder how he's doing now?

Then you continue your peaceful life, hoping that he will return to you soon. The person you like is an angel in your eyes, omnipotent, and he will always satisfy your wayward requirements. The person you love is a child in your eyes, silly, and you don't expect anything from him"Good thing"come, just blindly condone his actions that make people laugh and cry.

You will want the person you like to be with you, but you may have the person you love in mind; You will want to be by your loved one's side, and you will smile and feel so happy when you see him sleeping so comfortably and sweetly in front of you. If someone you like hurts you, you will be angry, and you must let him coax you to make you laugh before you forgive him; The person you love hurts you, you will only be sad alone, because you are afraid that yelling at him will scare him, you smile sadly, look into his eyes, once you find that his eyes show apology and remorse, you will immediately feel distressed and hug him in your arms, at that moment, you are also happy. You can like many people at the same time, and you will want to be with many people, but maybe after many years you realize that there is only one person you love, just that one, and it will not change, and you think you have forgotten him, but in fact you are just busy and have no time to remember.

For the person you like, you focus on his merits; For the person you love, you focus on his shortcomings, and those shortcomings are lovely and unique to you, if they are not principled. Like and love is actually only a piece of paper, any love starts from liking, when one day you suddenly find that the person you like is no longer perfect in your eyes, and his flaws are like the laurel shadow in the moon makes you more reluctant, you will feel that compared with his radiant side, you are more willing to see his helpless expression in front of you, I don't know if you should congratulate you, in short, your feelings are sublimated -- admiration is not love, not even like, when you only have admiration for a person, When you are together, you lose your harmony. Some people say that it is tiring to love someone, and it is true that it is because you want to bear it for him, but the biggest charm of love compared to liking is that when you are with the person you love, you feel like you are home!

It's his people who can't let go.

When people can't let go of a relationship, what can't they let go? If you can't let go, that's a breakup, and there are thousands of reasons for breaking up, and the one who can't let go is often the one who is broken up. Since Tan Shou was broken up, then I think the person who has been saying that he can't let go, the idea in his heart should be unwilling, he paid so much but didn't get the corresponding return, and was given up, so the unwillingness in his heart is that he can't let go of it.

But feelings are really complicated, two people are in love, then they must both pay for each other, but after all, it is two people, there will always be one more and one less, because there is no way to define the emotional pay, which will lead to a person who is unwilling to love, and wants to reciprocate! This unwillingness is basically irreparable, so he can only let go of his unwillingness over time!

There is also a habit that can't be let go, feelings make a person adapt to the habit of another person together, so when they are together, many things are used to the existence of each other, and as soon as they break up, this habit of the two people will stop abruptly, making him very unaccustomed, and his head will involuntarily think of the picture of two people doing this thing together, and his heart will be turbulent, which is also a kind of can't let go! If the two of them can't let go of it because of habits, then there should be nothing to say, and it is very likely that the two of them will return to the original point after a walk outside! So in fact, there are really a lot of things that can't be let go, ever-changing, and no one can give a conclusive definition of what they can't let go, only the two sides of the relationship know what they are still thinking about each other.

I feel like I can't let go of my own efforts. In daily life, we basically say that if you give, you will gain, so in the emotional world, we are also easily influenced by such a concept. When we fall in love with someone, we will be very good to this person, we will pay a lot or even all of our feelings and have free time, when you pay to get the other party's reply, and there is something to gain, you will feel very happy and happy, pay more and more, but a certain stove waiter teases for a day, the other party suddenly proposes to break up, end the relationship, you will suddenly feel that your pay has not been reciprocated, you will be reluctant, will continue to think about redemption or stalking, You want to get a little bit of feedback from the other person that you want.

I think it's memories, they don't want to give up such good memories, they feel that letting go makes their hearts hurt, and they don't want to forget.

I think it may be that Yuan Xiaochun can't let go of the obsession of youth, he gave all his youth, but in the end he didn't get anything, and it took time for Lang Shengshen to waste his life, and he would feel very sad.

It's the sweet memories of two people before, no one can live without anyone, only memories can be forgotten.