Should love be compromised? About love, whether it should be compromised or not

My sister, who was five or six years apart, once asked me if she should find someone to marry. As an older unmarried, looking at the WeChat circle of friends, friends getting married, and showing babies, she herself is not only working, but also having fun. I don't know what I'll be like in the future, and I even think that in a few years, maybe my good friends will get married, so I want to look at good people and live together for the rest of my life.

In many cases, many older unmarried young men and young women will have varying degrees of trouble. Even if you are special when you are young, in the maverick, there are many people who like impossible people, and then there is no way to stick to it. Not paying attention to it actually means giving up a lot of things, since you want to pursue the best, you have given up a lot of things that can be made up for a long time, such as feelings and work, and it is true that it is plain, and it may be a relatively peaceful feeling for the future.

The choice will not be as difficult as choosing not to pay attention to, and it will not be so tiring. But in love, it's better not to compromise.

In the traditional Chinese concept of marriage and love, when a person is old, he can't be picky. Just like many older unmarried people who go home for the New Year, they are urged by their parents to go to dinner one by one and meet one blind date after another. I really hope that everyone who wants to pursue love can not surrender to themselves for the sake of life, talk about a makeshift relationship, and then really don't want to maintain such an embarrassing relationship and get married and have children.

This is inevitably too disappointing, I remember what He Yichen said in the TV series "Why Sheng Xiaomo", because he met the right person at the best age, and what appeared later was just a general, but he was unwilling to compromise.

Maybe you don't compromise now, don't compromise with people who force you to go on a blind date, fall in love, and get married, many people will think that you are paranoid, why don't you want to find someone to fall in love with, so stubborn, so paranoid. But if you resist and give in, in the end you will finally meet a satisfactory love, and people will see a person who is truly married to love.

Don't settle, just be willing to wait.

There are two reasons why a group of people who are still single in society are: first, after experiencing one or several relationships, they have been seriously injured and have not healed for a long time, so they decide not to touch their feelings again in order to protect themselves. Second:

has high requirements for the other half, is unwilling to start a relationship easily, and does not want to wronged himself, so he has been waiting for the right person to appear, even if he has to wait until the old Zhuhuang is willing.

Therefore, different people have different answers to whether love should be compromised or not.

Like the grandparents' generation, they are arranged marriages, and the marriage has been arranged by their parents clearly, and they can't decide who they want to spend their lives with.

But the love of their era was really much better than it is now, although their own personality incompatibility will also lead to many small frictions, and even say that they want to break up or divorce, but what makes me envious is that even if they quarrel many times, they will never quarrel.

It's not as fragile as the love of our generation, just quarrel casually, fight a few times, and you can't hold on, and you will break up.

This is also one of the reasons why many people are reluctant to find someone to fall in love and get married, and are unwilling to settle, after all, it is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along, and without getting along and understanding for a long time, it is not responsible for themselves or each other to be in a hurry. They're all adults, so I hope you're still sensible in this regard, and don't let yourself regret it.

Love you can be late, but I refuse to settle.

01 It's not hunger and thirst.

The older I grow, the more lonely and fearful I become, and I want love. A gentleman who treats me well with his heart, even if he doesn't appreciate my quirks, but who encompasses everything about me. He knows my selfishness and darkness, knows my willfulness and stubbornness, and loves the real me.

Every day he is together, I am happy in the mirror.

02 Love is not an ivory tower.

In the ivory tower, we have a fine canopy and chic makeup, perfect manners, and a deliberately practiced smile. But we can't understand love, and we always have too much to look forward to. Even if the risk is great, it is necessary to love and invest in love, but love is not the only thing in life.

One day, we will come out of the ivory tower and understand that the only one who can really walk with you is ourselves. We look for a sense of identity and belonging in an ivory tower, and we want to get love and model recognition, but there is no perfect lover in love. Out of the ivory tower, selfish, cautious, temperamental, and very demanding of the other half is the real me.

I need a gentleman who makes me smile sweetly and see love.

03 Love someone who makes you laugh.

To meet someone who is good to you, willing to always treat you as you first saw you. Give you enough love and a sense of belonging, and let your happy eyes be full of love. If you haven't met, come out, see the world, achieve a better self, meet your good husband, love will never be absent.

What we need is that we only have ourselves in our eyes, not in his eyes, I am just an ambiguous object, the one who is caught in the wide net.