I m in a bad mood, talk about it, give some points, and comfort me with someone who is considerate

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The same is the end of the world, why should we have known each other, Miss, I may be able to understand some of your troubles, my heart is like hemp now, let's bless each other.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're probably upset because you like him and care about him.

    When a person guesses the other person's mind, it is easiest to misunderstand and be the most upset.

    Good luck!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Dizzy, sorry, it can be that I am not highly educated, so I feel a little dizzy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    After watching it for a long time, I don't understand what you say. I don't think you're very good at writing.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't feel inferior, I was born to be useful.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Well, I don't understand either, I don't know who's who.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You have to enlighten his heart, let him open his heart, and learn to let go of the resentment and obsession in his heart, so that he can live a breezy life.

    If we add fuel to the fire, I am afraid that the other party will only be disappointed, and proper guidance and guidance can make him get out of the trough and embrace a new self.

    Every time a friend complains to me about life's misfortunes, I listen attentively and then comfort him with my own example to get him back on his feet. When comforting friends, we should also pay attention to methods, and learn to regulate the other person's emotions and make him sunny and cheerful, which is the most important purpose.

    First, think more about the problem from the other person's point of view, and then find a solution for him.

    If you want to comfort others, you must first empathize with him, understand his hardships and difficulties, and then sacrifice yourself for the other person's sake, and help him find a way out of depression and sadness. Let the other party understand that he is not the most unfortunate person in the world, and then learn to think against the **, discover the beauty of life more, and don't be in his own dead end.

    Second, have a good time with him and let him forget his worries and worries.

    If a person has been imprisoned in the cage of sorrow, he will not be able to embrace the whole world, you might as well play with your friends for a day, let him embrace the breeze and the moon, and feel the beauty of nature. In this way, he can forget the troubles in his heart, live a breezy life, and find his true self more easily.

    Thirdly, you have to make him sunny and cheerful, and try not to get into the horns.

    If you are in a bad mood, you must learn to self-regulate, it is useless to be sad and depressed, as a friend, you have to use your positive energy to influence him, and convey some positive and sunny thoughts to him. Everyone has times of sadness and depression, but we have to learn to bounce back, because life will go on, the storm will still come back, the only thing we can do is to be strong and then face life with confidence.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In this case, you should first calm your friend's emotions and help your friend properly vent the negative energy in your heart.

    When a friend is in a bad mood, he must be depressed and sad in his heart, so don't let his friend always fall into this sad mood, to distract his friend, you can talk to your friend more about things that can make him happy, and shift his attention from sad emotions to happy things, so as to dilute his troubles.

    In addition, after understanding why your friend is sad, you can also help your friend find a way to solve the problem, tell your friend that everything has two aspects, good and bad, don't always stare at the bad side, but also see the good side.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When a friend is in a bad mood and confides in you, you can. You chat with her or go shopping with her. In short, it is to divert his attention. In this way, his mood will gradually improve.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If I am in a bad mood, then when I confide in myself, I will comfort him with my heart, then calm his mood, and then let him think more about happy things.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You have to believe that luck in this world is conserved, and the suffering you are suffering now will eventually become the sweetness you like, and you have the right to be still in a long vacation, have a good rest, and wait until the time comes, life has just begun.

    No matter how bad things happen today, you shouldn't be sad. Because today is your youngest day in the days to come.

    Don't affect your mood because of a few words, a few expressions, and a few mannerisms from others, I hope that every day you wake up, your mood is full of sunshine, live well, work hard, and meet beautiful things.

    There are already many people and things in this world that will disappoint you, and the last thing you should do is to disappoint yourself. Remember, society is cruel and you have to live with warmth!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Be sure to tell a friend that he has family and friends around him who have always supported him and hope that he can be strong.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Everyone has a bad mood, a bad mood, there are many solutions, and it is also according to their own habits to choose, and confiding in friends is the most cost-effective and fastest way.

    So when a friend is in a bad mood and confides in us, how do we comfort him?

    I think we need to be a loyal listener, let him vent his inner grievances, pour out his sorrows, and then pull her to say something about the friendship between friends, change the subject, let him forget about this trouble, experience the joy that your friend brings him as a friend, so that he can regain his strength and face life happily ().

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If a friend confides in him, I will definitely do my best to criticize some people who make my friend sad. This kind of riposte made her friend feel a thousand times better, and it comforted her.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can give a friend a hug, listen to him, and of course, you can go shopping with your friend, so that the mood will be better.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Tell a friend that no matter what, he will have his own company by his side, and hope that his friend can come out as soon as possible.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Listen to the other person's distress.

    Due to differences in life experience, family background, education, etc., each person has a different understanding of distress. Therefore, when trying to comfort a person, it is important to first understand his distress.

    To comfort people, listening is more important than speaking. A depressed heart needs a gentle listening ear, not a logical, well-organized head. Listening is to listen to the other person's voice with our ears and hearts, not to ask about the cause and effect of things, and not to rush to judgment, but to give the other person space so that he can freely express his feelings.

    When listening, empathize with the other person and perceive the fluctuations in our hearts. If we can "grieve his sorrow and rejoice in his happiness" for what happened to him, this is the best help for the comforted person.

    Be accepting of each other's world.

    The biggest obstacle to comforting people is often the inability of comforters to understand, experience, and agree with the distress that the person perceives. It is easy for people to limit the definition of distress to the scope of their own understanding, and once they exceed this range, it is "suffering" that makes no sense. Because they do not take the "suffering" of others seriously, the comforter is prone to resist in the process of listening and is eager to put forward his own opinions.

    Therefore, the comforter needs to let go of his own deep-seated beliefs, admit his own biases, and truly put himself in the other person's shoes to see the problems he is facing.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Tell your friends that these things will pass, and people must look forward in order to be able to walk out of the bright road.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Be sure to tell your friends that all bad things will pass, and that your future still has a long way to go, and you must go on with confidence.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    How do you comfort someone when they confide in you? First of all, he can use you as the person he confides in, which shows that he trusts you. When a person is troubled and wronged, the first time you want to find a very good friend or relative to talk to, vent your emotions that are almost broken, you are very honored, because he did not look at you.

    At this time, you need to calm down and listen to him and be a faithful listener......Pay attention to the reasons for his grievances, and the crux of the ......

    After he has finished venting, speaking, and is emotionally stable, according to what you know, put yourself in his shoes to help him analyze the reasons and find a reasonable solution, until he dispels his doubts and eliminates his difficulties......

    There are some things that happen for a reason, and helping others solve difficulties and doubts is not only to help others but also to help oneself ......

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No one's life is smooth sailing.

    As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

    Be optimistic about anything.

    Keep a normal heart.

    Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

    Be brave enough to look up.

    The sun is always after the storm!

    I'll give you advice, can you see it?

    1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

    2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

    3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The reason for the bad mood, anyway, I'm complaining, what are you going to do to comfort this kind of thing, is it very difficult to do, what do you think, I don't know.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The best way to comfort is to find someone worse than yourself and find balance.

    I was very sad to fall out of love before, but I had a friend around me who not only lost his love but also lost his job, and I suddenly felt balanced.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Life is full of troubles in the world, there is no straight road in life, and there are ups and downs in life. Time can't stand still, so there's no need to be sad. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less.

    The road of life is very long, and there are many troubles. Adjust your mindset. A good mood is heaven, and anger is hell, and if you want to be happy, forget the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past.

    Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back. Go climb the mountain, see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance. Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed.

    After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear. As long as you adjust your mentality, everything will be fine.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The best, I mean the best, go to your mother and talk to your heart.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    What's the matter, everything looks at the point, there are as many praises as there are denigrations.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In these years, how many people are in a good mood every day, eat delicious food, and have fun to play Learn to self-regulate.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Tell yourself that anything bad will fade over time. I must be happy, because if you are happy, it will be a day, and if you don't open it, it will be a day. Why make yourself so unhappy!

    With the sky above his head and his feet on the ground, life is all in one breath; Remember that there are three marks on the anger: anger and gambling, temper tantrums; Anger can only be angry with oneself, and gambling is more opposed to each other; slapping the table and stool to lose his temper, reasonable to become unreasonable; Life is not easy in the world, and it is a pity to practice yourself; Anger is born for one minute, and sixty seconds are not blessed; Angry for an hour, stupid for 60 minutes; I was angry for a week, and I hurt my liver and spleen;

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's yourself who is sad, others can't replace it, why can't you be happy every day, think about what you're happy about.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If it's because of people, then don't pay attention to him in the future, if it's because of things, deal with it and let it go, if it's because of yourself, then go out and relax, there is no hurdle that can't be passed, there is no road that can't be passed.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I'll be a beautiful man quietly... I don't have any money to be so willful.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Five words floated in the sky, it was not a thing, it was a matter and it would be annoying for a while, and it would be over after a while.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Being happy is also a day, being unhappy is also a day, time is precious, time can not be saved, and then taken out when needed, so cherishing time is true love life. Having money or not having money is also a black and white day,

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's very important to yourself, don't make yourself feel bad because of some complicated things, live happily, I believe you can also live happily.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you are in a bad mood, nothing can be said by An Wei, so you can only slowly dissipate your anger.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Blessings and misfortunes depend on each other.

    Do your best, obey the destiny of heaven.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Dear, I really understand you and understand your mood at the moment.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Where is your address? Christmas is coming, an apple for you!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's a day to be happy or not, so why not live a happy day.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you are in a bad mood, you go to the supermarket to make instant noodles.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Laugh at it, it's not a big deal.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Just thinking that you can live healthy and happy today.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    People are at the top of the food chain, and there is nothing else that cannot be overcome.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Everyone will encounter a bad mood, and when they are in a bad mood, they can take the method of hiding in the hall to be relieved

    1. To maintain a good sense of self, no matter what happens, you feel that you are actually very good in your heart, so that you can be confident, so that the bad mood will gradually disappear.

    2. Talk to others, holding it in your heart will make you more painful, talk to friends or family members, open your heart and pour out your pain, so maybe you will feel better.

    3. Find a place where no one is, yell or cry loudly for a while, and vent your bad emotions to feel better.

    4. Distract yourself. If you are really sad in your heart, you will find something to do, such as playing games, or working hard, and then you will find that slowly, you are not so in such a bad mood.

    5. Time will always dilute everything, grit your teeth and push through, and everything will be fine.

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