How can you tell if a person is genuine? Isn t that a pursuit?

Like you for sure, but it's hard to say whether it's love, I think he needs someone to accompany him when he is in need, he can't think of you when he's busy or he won't come to you when he's energetic, in my experience he has little chance of loving you. Because if he loves you, you're so obviously asking, how could it not be you.

Did he have a lot of previous relationship experiences?

Fewer words show that he likes you, but he is not attentive and considerate enough.

More words show that he treats you as a good friend to talk to.

From your question, it can be seen that you have a good impression of him, the emotion lies in daring to love and pursue, the result is important, but the process of giving is also an important experience and good memory in life.

According to your inner feelings, boldly try to try, don't let the so-called reserved, leave regrets.

Feelings are cultivated slowly, and if he doesn't say anything, he may feel that the time is not right.

Why do you think so much now, just treat him as a good friend and confidant who can chat happily together, and let the relationship develop naturally, isn't it better?

Believe that if he belongs to you, sooner or later it will be yours.

Hope it helps.

Is he sincere to you, does he have any other girlfriends in a relationship now, you try to deliberately say that there is something when he calls you in the future, or half-means that you have other boyfriends to invite you to dinner, look at his reaction and basically know, he wants to be good with you, is it just you, or ,,, of course, as long as you like him, you can also pursue him, but this 8 percent will not be good, because you like him, but he has not yet revealed, what kind of character he has.

It is an ambiguous performance, and there is still a long way to go from the pursuit.

Regardless of whether LZ wants this colleague to be serious or not, cold treatment is the best way to go.

Look at the difference between him and others, this is not necessarily a pursuit.

Maybe you can only bring him comfort! It could also be like you ==

You're thinking too much. Now I often eat among my friends. He may also have a crush on you.

I can see that you feel very special about him. His current performance is not proof that he likes you. But girls don't have to be reserved.

What's the big deal about taking the initiative to text him. If you don't take the initiative, he will feel cold, and maybe he will really think about the relationship between the two of you if you send it!!

It's not easy.

True love is not something that can be expressed in words.

It comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love and be fascinated by him or her.

Concern for him or her.

I wish I could see him or her every minute

When I can't see him, I think about him (her) all the time

When you see each other, you get excited, your heart beats faster, and when you are together, you feel warm and safe.

True! Positive love.

One will be willing.

Take care of him (her) and give him (her) everything he (she) wants.

Watching the people you love happy will make you happy.

When you see him or her troubled, you will follow suit.

But you will do everything you can to make your loved one happy and happy.

True love one.

Personally. I want to grow old with him or her.

With him or her, you will look forward to bringing him or her the greatest happiness with all your love.

And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and I am happy, and I mind him (her) very much

I care a lot about him (her), without him (

She seems to have lost something, and with him (she) she has happiness.

Feel it with your heart.

See for yourself!

In fact, there are three kinds of sincerity in treating people, there are friendship, family affection and love, and the sincerity of the three feelings is different, and we can analyze the three feelings specifically:

1 love: the sincerity of love is a long process, we must face it realistically, because love is the most loyal, but also the most unreliable, when there is sincerity, it will also end for the sake of sincerity, how can we see that it is treated sincerely? This is not necessarily to stare at every little thing, but it takes a long time to come to know, only to come over to understand what is the sincerity of love, this is multi-dimensional, you can ask yourself, with him are you cared for, understood, respected?

2 friendship: I personally think that in fact, friendship and love are at the same level, but friendship involves a wider range of aspects, can say more to each other, and love may not be able to reach this point, the sincerity of friendship, we can see it very simply, in fact, the impact of the first side can be absolutely sincere or not, because friendship is an unintentional care, is to bring strangers closer to each other. After a long time, it is not for anything to continue to communicate, but because both parties feel happy, and both parties feel that they can go on forever, so that the friendship will not be broken.

3 family affection: I think I don't have to say anything about this kind of sincerity, the simplest example is our parents, I can identify, determine, and affirm that in no special circumstances, they pull us up with hard work, this kind of performance is sincerity, friendship and love in the end is to sit family affection as a crystallization.

It's very simple, now there are a lot of people who just say how much they love you and care about you, and they are dumb when it comes to things.

How to test depends on your specific situation.

I'll make an analogy here.

For example, if he is at work now, for example, he said that he is going to rest tomorrow and wants you to accompany him, you can make up some reasons why you can't accompany him, 2 days late, to see if he will rest with you for a few days later.

Or, you try him, for example, when he is at work, something happens to you, or when you need him very much, or there is nothing, but you feel very uncomfortable, so you cry and call him and say that you miss him by your side, to see if he will put his work aside for a while to accompany you.

You don't mean it's because you're delaying him to work or something, just this once, it won't delay him anything. And you can see the weight of your heart in him.

One or two temptations can be determined.

And what is his attitude when he sees others bullying you? Will he be as angry as if he was being bullied.

This is to see if he has a desire to protect you and whether he knows how to take care of you.

There is also money, although money is very vulgar, but sometimes it can also be reflected, if a person is also very generous to his friends, it can only be said that he is a generous person, but you have to learn to look at the details, for example, if you value a piece of clothing, full of expensive, will he ask you to buy it.

Men want their girlfriends to be pretty, they really care, and he'd rather not buy them for you. These must be seen in detail and vary from person to person.

When you are outside, for example, if you accidentally show your shoulders while dressing, will he make a noise for you, ask you to get your clothes done or he will get you right, and care if you don't allow others to look at you.

Anyway, I mean it's the little things that you can see.

And not to say it.

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, real love for a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, Seeing the person you love happy you will also be happy, seeing him (her) troubles you will also follow the troubles, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, true love a person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) foam, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness.