It s annoying, everyone enlightens me, I m very annoyed in my heart, can anyone enlighten me

That knows that there is no result and don't rekindle the old feelings because of a moment of sympathy, it's not good for each other, if she cries, you comfort and enlighten, after all, you have been together, and you know each other better than others, if she is okay and call you, you just find a reason to hang up, she will feel it, and slowly it will not always evoke your memories, what about you, it is normal to think about it, people have feelings, it is impossible to forget it.

Women are fickle, but women are also pitiful, and for them love is already dragging a serious burden in life. They have no sense of security, and they are safely tied to their husbands, maybe she will feel that you have no sense of security before, and the breakup may not be unloving for women, "once the sea was difficult to water, except that Wushan is not a cloud" A man's good will only be known after the breakup, and the woman will not be too demanding of her, and she should not be too demanding of herself, and she should do what she thinks in her heart! May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married.

Forcing yourself to love someone is the most helpless way to do it. It's better to do what you want. Since you still have feelings that you can't let go, don't leave regrets for yourself, maybe you can see this relationship clearly after getting along for a while.

But I think what she needs at her age is marriage, and if you can't give her marriage, whether you're together or not, you'll break up again. So, how to do it, it looks like the result is about the same, so just respect your feelings and don't get too tangled.

Calm, 25 years old, ** age, pay more attention to your career, fall in love, don't force it, let it be.

I know that it won't work out together, so let's make it clear to her

Love breaks through all obstacles, and if you don't love, you can cut off your feelings happily.

Procrastination is not good for both parties.

Since we all know that there is no result, don't be unclear and don't contact us.

It's easy to know that there is no result, learn from her, and you can go to another place.

It's really not good to take the time to read it.

Bai easy.

Girl, you don't know what you are blessed.

Zhi is blessed, in our mountain village, a pair of your shoes is one of us.

I ate for a month.

In fact, we have similar problems in our family.

In the past, Dad always helped his brother-in-law pay off his debts, but now they are also well-off, but we are not literate, they don't know how to be grateful, and they sneer at us, so Dad borrowed money from Mom's brothers and sisters, and Mom and Dad often quarreled about it, and Mom always complained about why Dad helped them back then.

The previous generation is a thing, I don't think much about it, because I don't know enough, so I can't evaluate who is right and wrong, but their stories, I will definitely learn from them, learn to show grace without trying to repay, learn to drip the grace of water, spring reciprocation, etc.

Their people and things are not something that I can change now, but I can change myself, and over time, they will change because of my changes.

So, you don't have to worry too much about the affairs of your elders, you just need to be yourself, live your life well, and do your duty, then you have it, this is what you have to do, and this is what your parents want you to do.

I think you should be considerate of your parents! Or I'm too young and want too much, I just went to college.

It's the same as you when you come back.

I sigh deeply for your family's difficulties, my parents also faced a financial crisis, but fortunately the relatives were fine and did not destroy them to pay back. But in the end they got divorced (does it matter?). ）。

If you have any troubles, welcome @ me, I really hope it can help you

You're such a kid... I'm also a father, and my daughter is two years old this year. As a man, he will not let his daughter be disappointed in himself.

This is why your dad will agree to buy you shoes, for your dad, if you like these shoes for more than 500 yuan, he would rather smoke a few packs of cigarettes and eat a few fewer meals will buy you them. This is your father's love for you, cherish it. Your parents' combined monthly salary is more than 5,000, which is really not much, and very little.

I hope you as a daughter can understand. You use more than 1,000 to buy clothes, and more than 500 to buy shoes, if you add your usual food, clothing and daily necessities, you will spend more than 2,000 yuan a month, which is half of the family's monthly income. The remaining half of your income is what your parents need to eat, wear, live, travel, and live.

But don't forget, your parents still have to provide for you to go to college, give you living expenses in college, save a sum of money for you to start a business after graduation, and save a sum of money to marry you off in a beautiful way when you get married. All this can only be saved from this 2,500 yuan per month. Now know the reason why your mom didn't agree to buy you shoes?

Don't blame them, you have to believe that all parents do everything for the sake of their children. In fact, I know that your mother is more sad than you in her heart, because she can't fulfill her daughter's small wish, and she will feel that she is useless. Child, you should be sensible, if you want something, you must study hard, earn it with your own hands, and earn more money to repay your parents after graduation, because they all love you.

The decisions they make are painful.

As for the elders, let it pass, you must remember that everything must be on your own, good luck...

Don't always think that God is very unfair, although the family conditions are not as good as theirs, but there is a filial daughter, other people's family conditions are good, but others may not be able to do what you do.

It's not your family's fault that you meet these relatives, but since you have already met them, you can't escape them, eat a long version of a wisdom, and then they have the right to ask for help in the future, and your family can have a bottom, and you have to think twice about helping or not.

For your family's economic situation, I think it's not easy for parents, 500 yuan is not particularly difficult for college students to buy clothes, but college students should consider their own family's economic situation, after all, this money is not earned by themselves, and the parents are old, and it is time to use the money, we young people still have a lot of opportunities to enjoy, not to leave more money for their parents to provide for the elderly, or to make their lives better. When I was in college, I also wanted something very expensive and very good, but the excitement after buying it lasted for a short time, and the next time I met a better one, I still wanted to buy, so I controlled my desire to buy and found some suitable and cheap things through online shopping or some other channels.

You don't care whether the world is fair or not, if you want to fight, just study knowledge and skills during college, find a good job, and let your parents live a worry-free life, and others don't care. Best wishes

I can only tell you that the source of social development is here, and they are all people who look at "money", don't think about others helping you, you have to work hard yourself.

Go to school hard, come out and settle accounts with them, now you don't have that ability, you still live under the wings of your parents, learn more things, and you have the capital to come out to find them.

That's all there is to it.

If you want to open up everything, everything will not be smooth sailing in this life, this is life, there are ups and downs.

But it is best for a family to be able to be harmonious and beautiful. You're happy.

Don't complain about your life, you lack a counselor, you should see a psychologist.

In fact, every family has a difficult scripture, each has a different attitude towards life, if the family is not good, there is the usual money, don't spend it indiscriminately, try not to buy unnecessary things, not someone else has me. One day they will find that this is not a good thing to do, and they will find that they will be grateful and unforgettable.

This may be the trouble that every girl will have, I think whether there is money or not is secondary, as long as he is willing to be motivated, willing to work hard, the bread house will have, the important thing is to be good to you.

Regardless of whether you are rich or poor, you must first be suitable. First of all, look at yourself, whether the spiritual is stronger than the material happiness, or the material is better than the spirit. Sanmao said,"If I don't love him, he's a millionaire I won't marry, and if I love him, he's a multimillionaire I'll marry too"。

But in the face of Jose, she said so"I only need three meals a day, and I can eat a little less if I want"。You can think about these words, nothing is absolute, what you are like and what determines your choice is what it looks like. Don't fret.

I think you are very similar to me, I think you do a good job first, only by improving yourself, it is possible to find your ideal other half, sometimes the requirements for each other can not be too high, no one is perfect, it is enough to find your own suit! You have to be confident, everyone has the right to fall in love, don't think like that.

First of all, confirm your own conditions, appearance, temperament, economic status, family status, my education, physical condition... Find a match, good character, self-motivated, willing to use brains, willing to endure hardships, willing to be good to you, looks are not important (for men).