I like it when I m not together, and I feel tired after not long together, what about you?

I'm like that too. <>

I always seemed to be in love like this before. Take a boy I used to like when I was in junior high school.

At that time, I felt that everyone was still very young, and their skins were very thin, especially for girls, and no one would say which boy they liked. At that time, I was ignorant, but I just felt like him very much. We were classmates in the same class and served as table mates.

At first, it was quite unfamiliar rather than familiar. However, after all, there are not many people in the class, and we soon became familiar with each other, and often played between classes. It was in this kind of play that I slowly fell in love with him.

At the beginning, I just thought that he was so handsome, it was good, maybe this is what comes out of the eyes of a lover. And as long as I see him talking and laughing with other girls, I get angry, and I don't want to pay attention to him, but what is useless is that as soon as he talks to me, my anger seems to disappear immediately. I guess that's what I like.

At that time, I secretly thought that it would be nice if he liked me to be my boyfriend and we could be together. Later, somehow, we ended up together. For a while, I felt so happy.

When I was in class, I looked at him secretly, and I felt sweet in my heart. But the good times didn't last long, and it didn't take long for us to separate, or the breakup I mentioned first. <>

The initial liking was real, and the scorer was serious later. I liked it, but after a short time together, I felt a little tired and annoyed. Every day, whenever I see him talking to other girls, I get angry and worried.

I'm a very insecure person, and I'm scared that sometimes it's just that I'm just self-inflicted, and he may not like me that much. On the one hand, I feel that young likes can't see results. That's it, tired and tired, and they break up.

In fact, every relationship will have a time when you feel tired. In those times, what is more needed is persistence. And I'm probably not a persistent person at all, so I was the first to let go of the few relationships I talked about later.

Later, I regretted it too. But it's really ridiculous, when I insisted on breaking up, I was the one who regretted it sadly. If I could do it all over again, I wouldn't give up.

But what's the use, time can't be turned back, and the past can't be repeated. My boy may have taken someone's hand. <>

So, if you really like someone, either don't start at all, or try to stay the course. When you feel tired and tired and want to give up, think about how much you liked him at the beginning, you can find a little motivation to persevere, and through that exhaustion period, what awaits you will definitely be greater happiness. Don't be like me when I look back on it and regret how easily I let go.

This is the legendary tiredness of the heart, and I think many couples who have been together for a long time will feel this way.

First of all, love is far from being as simple as we imagined, and marriage is far from being as simple as imagined in love, in short, imagination is one thing, experience is another, and things that have not been experienced will never be able to experience the feeling of listening to others. When you are not together, what you see is the good of each other, because if the other party also happens to like you, of course, they will show the best side to you, of course, you will imagine how beautiful the two are together, and when the real two are together, you will slowly find that the other party's temper and character are not as good as you imagined, and this gap will inevitably make you feel a little disappointed. In particular, everyone is an independent individual, and in the past, they were all in charge of their own lives, so when two people are together, there is always one party accommodating the other, and you will feel tired after a long time.

In addition, when you first fall in love, you are okay, and you are immersed in sweetness with each other, but when you have been in contact for a long time and this feeling of love disappears, you will become more and more rational and more and more able to feel each other's shortcomings.

I think that when I am tired in love, girls mainly care about each other too much, and always like to suffer from gains and losses because of some of the other party's behaviors, and there is also to wronged themselves in order to please each other, and lose some of their own things and time; And the boy's tiredness is mainly because he can't guess the girl's mind: he doesn't understand why he suddenly gets angry, suddenly he is happy, he suddenly ignores himself, he doesn't know how to coax, and he will be complained about if he doesn't coax. In order to avoid this from happening, there should be plenty of personal space:

Have your own circle of friends and hobbies, so that you don't put all your thoughts on each other.

<>Me too, when I chose to break up, I felt that the two of us couldn't see each other at ordinary times, and they only relied on ** to communicate, and they were playing ** every day, I felt so tired. And I distinctly remember that when I agreed to his pursuit, it was because the two of us didn't see each other often, or didn't see each other once a year, and then we didn't have to stick together every day and take care of each other's feelings.

But after a period of time, I feel that the two of them are more tired to communicate with each other, and I can't see or touch it. The mood and meaning are completely guessed by the tone, and it's too tiring to go out and play ** every night. After a long time, there will be no topic to talk about, and I think the other party is completely different from what I imagined, a little cheesy boy, and even thought about going to the Internet to find a couple's screen name, I was dizzy at the time.

What is this, you shouldn't have chosen your own name. And he always makes jokes, and I know it's normal for couples to make jokes about that, but I'm still a little uncomfortable.

Later, I felt very tired of talking to him every day, a boy who didn't play games or smoke, and couldn't handle his relationship with his roommate every day, and had to talk to me. And it didn't mean at all, since the two of them came together, I felt that this relationship was too tired, and the two of them guessed like hiding and seeking, because they didn't see each other often, and neither of them was willing to pay a little more.

So I resolutely said that I had broken up, I felt too tired.

In fact, I like it when I fall in love and don't get together again, and I feel very tired after being together for a long time, just because I am too young and still very mature, I can only bear the beauty of love, but I can't bear the sadness and difficulties. So most couples don't end up married. Now I won't easily get into a new relationship, and I won't be tired easily.

I also have this situation, and I still haven't recognized the personality between two people in advance, and there are a lot of conflicts after being together.

You should understand love, don't blindly interact with each other, and have your own ideas.

This is a complex question because every person and relationship is unique, so there is no easy answer. However, here are some things you can consider:

Consider why you're feeling tired. Is it because of the problems you have, such as communication difficulties, trust issues, discordant personalities, etc., or is it because of your personal emotions, life conditions, or other factors that affect your perception of the relationship?

Think about whether your values are aligned. Do you have the same or similar aspirations for life, life, and the future? If you disagree on these areas, it can have a very negative impact on your relationship.

Ask yourself, do you really want to continue the relationship? If you really love this person, are you willing to put more effort into the relationship? If you feel like you've done your best and you're still tired, then maybe this relationship isn't for you.

Most importantly, don't sacrifice your happiness to maintain a relationship. If you feel that the relationship is making you unhappy, unsatisfied, or unhealthy, then perhaps letting go is a better option.

In short, this is a question of reflex that needs serious consideration. You need to consider the issues between you, your feelings, your expectations for the future, and so on, and finally make a decision that is right for you.

Summary. My dear, when we do anything with people we like, we are happier and more motivated, and we feel full of motivation to do everything at this time, so that we will not feel tired. In fact, the body does get tired, it's just overshadowed by the excitement.

After separation, both of them have calmed down. At this time, physical exertion will naturally show itself. ☺️

Why don't you feel tired when you are with someone you like, you will feel it after separation.

Hello dear, good morning. You don't feel tired with the person you like, you will feel tired after separation, this is because with the person you like, your excitement is relatively high, so at this time you are full of energy to do anything, and you will naturally not feel tired. ☺️

My dear, when we do anything with people we like, we are happier and more motivated, and we feel full of motivation to do everything at this time, so that we will not feel tired. In fact, the body does get tired, it's just overshadowed by the excitement. After separation, both of them have calmed down.

At this time, physical exertion will naturally show itself. ☺️

That's all for me. Do you have any more questions? Feel free to consult me and wish you a happy life

After a long time, the feelings have faded, although they will be boring in the future, but it will be a lifetime to persevere.

Distance produces beauty, and there is no distance, so it is fatigue aesthetics.

1. Two people explore the unknown world together.

If we are inherently uninteresting people, then being in love will not make us interesting either. Only by exploring the unknown world together and discovering the unknown fun can we feel the joy of love and life become colorful.

2. Keep a grateful heart.

As mentioned above, it is natural that love is the most taboo. When we are in love, we should always remember each other's contributions, know what sacrifices the other person has made for themselves, and how we should express our love.

But we can't constantly remind each other of what I've done for you, and we can't just say thank you without actually thinking about anything for each other.