It s over, I ve lost my purpose and passion for life.

No one is perfect, and society is like that.

They always show that what is good in front of you.

The bad side of them has to go deep into it to see it.

This is the case for everyone who has just entered society.

Don't think too much about the social environment, and don't be naïve yourself, because after all, when you enter society, you have to make yourself smooth.

Be strong.

What the hell does your boss care about?

It's not your husband.

Remember that you're just a part-time worker.

As for your idol, it suddenly loses its weight in your heart.

This is also normal...

Let's change it.

It's just that you haven't experienced it, people grow up in the process of going through it, and if you haven't experienced it, you'll never understand! There is still a long way to go, and you may encounter things that disappoint you even more, so you must learn not to let others or things affect you You yourself feel that the people or things that have something to do with you are okay Actually, you don't feel it, this matter has nothing to do with you at all. No one else's own business will affect you.

If you insist on saying yes, you're too naïve. Talk to your husband. He can help you.

Your idol is also human! My idea is that no matter what, just be happy! Take a look at Buddhism! Meditation is the most important thing!

It's to use him as your role model, idol, if he's not happy, you will be unhappy.

There are no worries in life, there is no quarrel with the world, only being a monk, you have a variety of choices!

Time, physical strength, love, will restore our zest for life.

When you lose your enthusiasm for life, it may be when you are very depressed, and it is also a time when you are not doing things very well, at this time, it is better to do more things that interest you, so as to enhance your love for life.

There is also to read more positive books, and then make some positive friends, reading books can not only learn a lot of knowledge, but also enrich their brains, and make themselves more optimistic and cheerful, more love for life, and with some positive energy friends, you will become as optimistic as them, you will not lose enthusiasm for life.

Think about how happy you are, how well you can eat and dress warmly, and then think about your brothers and sisters in the disaster area, how can they have the time and experience to think about this, cheer up. Fill yourself up, time is tight, and you don't have time to think about these boring things. Then there are women who need to be strong, independent, and don't need to rely on anyone, otherwise they will be looked down upon by others.

Actually, I feel the same way, but I'm probably a little bit better than you in terms of people.

I think you can find hobbies to sit on, read books, watch movies, watch TV, cross-stitch, learn something you've always wanted to learn, or play games, have a little pet or something.

I have done all the above to introduce to you, now I have a cat and a dog at home, and I am learning Guzheng, although people are lazy, and I have learned all sorts of things, but I have a dream of my childhood.

Finally, I would like to introduce you to a good exercise, yoga! It's good for both body and mind! You can experience it with all your heart, and the mystery can only be understood, and it is difficult to convey at my level.

Change your life, change your lifestyle, and you'll make friends who share your interests!

At the same time, you will find that life is still so beautiful, it's good to be alive, and it's even better to be a woman!

You're much happier than I am. I feel that you are really much happier than me in this society. At least you can do what you like.

Go like the people you like. And me? I can't do what I want to do, and I don't dare to fall in love.

I don't want anything without capital. It's not that I don't want to, just don't da Alone, I just want to be alone forever.

You are much better and contented than I am. Those who are content are always happy.

Everyone has times when things don't go well, and the road of life can't be smooth.

Then regain your zest for life. Everyone has times when things don't go their way.

You're young, don't jump to conclusions.

The most boring thing is that there is really nothing to do, this is also a special stage experienced by many college graduates, don't feel panicked, in addition to playing with the computer, we can find something to do.

1. Do you want to try your hand at housework? Then buy this recipe, pick a few simple and practical ones first, buy your own ingredients, make your own, and send your parents to surprise them for a few days. Learn to steam rice, boil porridge, wash dishes, wipe tables, mop floors, wash and dry clothes, you will find that housework is also a science, and there are many skills in doing housework, you will feel busy, appreciate the fruits of your labor, feel the happy eyes of your parents, and you will feel as sweet as drinking honey in your heart.

2. Do you want to try to take the civil service career exam? That's a lot to do. You will find that the score of this written interview is not at all better than the score of your ideal university.

3. Did your parents and acquaintances also find some less than ideal jobs? Regardless of the salary and the environment, how about working for a while? How about experiencing life? Didn't many people deliberately exercise their physique and abilities in their youth?

4. Are other students also bored? Do you ask what they're doing? If a large number of students have nothing to do for the time being, how about organizing and designing an activity?

5. How about reading some celebrity biographies or current affairs books while you have enough time to be inspired and recharged?

Wishing you a full and happy life!

Personally, I don't think you should continue to stay at home, only when you go out can you know what you are going to do, what you will be interested in, try to do anything, and you will find life interesting.

You can find trouble.

Start with the simplest and try to help others for free (volunteering).

Have a good chat with friends and family. Sign up for a class, no matter what direction you are in, first contact people and things from the outside world!

If you never take the first step, how can you take the second step.