In your mind, how can you be considered a person who can stand on your own?

Begin to question or deny the concept of "relying on your parents at home and relying on your friends when you go out", and walk on the road of "relying on yourself" without relying on others and not feeling lonely.

By "taste", I mean doing things in a positive sense; Outstanding technical ability, not relying on others can still achieve things independently; The necessary ability to resist pressure or psychological endurance, and still be able to do things positively in the face of difficulties.

Accept your own external and internal strengths and weaknesses. Because accepting oneself is the beginning of understanding oneself and understanding oneself. Otherwise, you either feel invincible in the world, or you feel humble as dust.

Personally, I think that the good thing is that under the existing perfect process and system, step by step, complete a day's work or finish a busy day, it is normal to want to be recognized and recognized by the leadership, but the work of this program is actually good, needless to say, if it is bad, it will definitely say you, don't think too much, the problems are different for different positions, and you must understand; On the bad side, as the saying goes, "a crying child has milk to eat", there is no harm without comparison, you don't compare with colleagues, compare yourself, can you do it faster, don't let yourself be so busy? Is there anything unreasonable about the same thing and link, you know it yourself, after a long time, you know it, you need a process...Personal ability is improved in a short time, most people, most of them are things, unless they are "open", they still need a process, that is, they practice on things!

You can control your emotions well and know how to excrete your emotions. This is very important, and it is not a plastic bag, so you have to carry it at all times.

If you know what you want to do and what you can do, you will stick to it! Know what level your ability is about, and if you can solve it, you can do what you can't solve, and you know how to avoid or ask for help.

Take it all your own. "Alone"When one side is independent-minded, he has three views of independence, maturity and perfection. Financially independent, able to afford a moderate quality of life on their own. In my opinion, he is already a person who can be independent.

It is not an easy thing to be on your own, but with continuous hard work and practice, everyone can become a person who can be on their own. Have self-confidence and strong beliefs. Only by believing that you have this ability can you excel in the face of various challenges.

Be good at learning and upgrading your skills. Through continuous learning and practice, you can continue to accumulate experience and improve your abilities in various fields. Be good at communication and cooperation.

Whether in personal life or work, it is very important to maintain good communication and cooperation with others. Be responsible and courageous to take responsibility and solve problems. Only by forging ahead in the face of difficulties and being willing to take responsibility can we truly take charge of ourselves.

Be positive. No matter what difficulties and challenges you encounter, you should maintain a positive attitude and believe that you can overcome them and succeed. Through the efforts and practice of the above points, I believe that everyone can become a person who can be independent.

I feel that people who can take charge on their own, in addition to having a sense of responsibility, also have responsibility, and can be calm and calm in case of danger. In the process of getting along with him, he will never lose his temper with you, and he feels that he has a particularly good personality.

In my mind, a person who is in charge of himself should have a certain economic foundation, and he should speak more authoritatively among the people around him, as long as a major thing happens in the village, he will come up with ideas, and he can solve the matter satisfactorily, and this kind of person can be regarded as a person who is in charge of himself.

In fact, the person who is in charge of my heart is very independent and assertive when encountering things, and he is not chaotic in the face of danger, no matter how difficult things seem to be insignificant in front of him, his psychology is particularly strong, and his ability to bear it is also very strong.

Like my father, no matter what happens in the family's life, I feel that my father is a backbone, and he can deal with problems well, which is simply our strong backing.

When you don't panic and can deal with things calmly, you can be regarded as a person who can stand alone. Being in charge is a person with leadership qualities, and if you panic when something happens, then your subordinates will be even more flustered. So, when you can stay calm in the face of trouble, then you already have the ability to take charge of yourself.

When you encounter something, you don't choose to complain, but find a way to solve it, whether it is for family or work, you have a strong sense of responsibility, be a good husband at home, make your wife feel dependent, and feel very down-to-earth with you. At work, the leader is willing to give you some important work, and I think this is the person who can stand alone.

People who can take care of themselves in life, don't rely on anyone financially, and can decide their own emotional matters are people who are in charge of themselves. When he encounters difficulties, his first reaction is how to solve them, not thinking about who to ask for help.

In fact, I think that people's potential is unlimited, and only after experiencing a lot can they have enough ability to face everything, so that people who are devastated by life are often more mature, and only such people can be independent.

I think that a person who can be independent first of all is independent in thinking, and has three views of independence, maturity and perfection. Financially independent, able to afford a moderate quality of life on their own.

1. Be able to control your emotions and control what you do!

2. Know when to say and when not to say.

3. Know how to think about the interests of the whole collective, know how to let everyone get benefits, sometimes it doesn't matter if you are wronged!

4. Affection, affection, if you meet people and friends you are interested in, you are willing to let go of hypocrisy and talk to them sincerely! Show your truest side of yourself!

5. Do things and consider the consequences! Always think about reducing the impact on others, even if you don't know each other. Think about how you can achieve the most results with the least cost, and be able to calm down and think about what you and others are doing.

6. Always thoughtful when you go out, you can adapt to the situation!

7. Make your own decisions about your own affairs, and you can listen to the opinions of others.

Shameless, people are invincible if they are cheap.