What is it like to force yourself to like something?

It's very uncomfortable, but I have to do it, for example, for my job, I feel very tired and hard, but I have to suppress myself from liking him.

There are some things that you can not do if you don't want to do them. And there are some things that you don't want to do, but you have to do them. That's pretty upsetting.

Growing up, there were many things I didn't like to do. If you experience it, you are troubled, your heart is very blocked, and you don't know how to vent if you want to vent. There is still some truth in the saying that everything is difficult at the beginning, and when it begins, it is natural to follow, and it is not so resistant.

If a person lives in this world, he can do whatever he wants, and he doesn't do everything he doesn't want to do, then I admire him very much, and I think it's not easy.

It's going to be very uncomfortable, even if it's something you don't like, you have to force yourself to like it, it's really powerless, but what to do, you still have to accept it.

It's something you have to do, no matter how much you don't like it, you still have to do it, and you will feel particularly wronged at this time.

It's like doing something you don't like, and it's really embarrassing to do something you don't like.

The cruel reality forces us to do things we don't like, and we can only think about our family and friends, so that we can no longer resist this thing we don't like, and even turn it into something we like to do. In this way, the efficiency of doing things will also be improved, and people will be energetic, so I am afraid that I will not be able to do well. Doing things with a positive attitude will produce twice the result with half the effort, and vice versa. ‍‍

I don't think we should force ourselves to do things we don't like, if we force ourselves to do it, the efficiency will be very low, the whole person has no positive attitude, and it seems that there is no energy, so that when we do this thing we don't like, it is easy to have some accidents.

It's hard to force yourself to like something, and it's so painful to pretend to be happy even if you don't like it.

We always have a lot of things that we can't help ourselves, things that we have to do, just like me, obviously I don't like my current job the most, but we still have to continue to do it for the sake of life, sometimes we can't do what we like according to our own ideas, we have too many things that we can't do ourselves, and we have to do it.

Many people are forced to do things they don't like, and many are forced by the needs of their families and the needs of their loved ones. But as long as you have a motivated heart, it is just a springboard to success. ‍‍

I feel very forced to force myself, I won't force myself, like is like, dislike is not like.

For example, I don't like him in my current college major, but I want to force me to like him.

Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you."

This sentence comes from the twelfth chapter of the Analects of Yan Yuan by Confucius of the pre-Qin period, which means that if you don't like it, don't impose it on the other party. On the contrary, there are many people in life who like to impose what they like on others, both of which force others to accept their own ideas, which is a manifestation of "disrespect" to others.

At noon, the mother and daughter came to the store, looking at the daughter who should be out of town to bring the old mother to buy shoes, the girl looked a little down on our small place of the store, I talked to her and she ignored it, the girl chose a few shoes with a little high heels, the style is more fashionable. I asked her mother about her preferences, her approximate age, and the shoes she was wearing.

During the mother's fitting process, the girl's mouth kept giving instructions.

Girl: Wear this, stand up, it's not good-looking.

Among them, there is a pair of black boat shoes that the mother Mo Xiaoqin particularly likes, and the mother says: Well, this shoe is the most comfortable and good-looking.

The girl said: "It's ugly, old-fashioned, and it's still good-looking."

I couldn't stand it anymore and added: You choose everything that looks good, but my mother feels that the one that is comfortable and suitable is the best.

Now that she was in trouble, the girl was not happy at once, and she repeated loudly: ugly to death.

The mother was also a little angry when she heard the girl say this, and said: I don't buy noisy and stupid.

Seeing that her mother was angry, the girl was silent for a while and smiled and said: If you like this, then buy this!

The ending of today's incident is quite satisfying, sometimes, she will meet someone who is particularly authoritarian, if others don't choose what she likes, she will decisively turn her face and leave, and the ending is unhappy.

There are countless such things, and I will see such a scene almost every three or five times, and every time I will feel uncomfortable for a long time, and I will always be alert to my behavior in life.

We get the wrong way of conveying "love", always thinking that others who we like will also like it, without taking into account the feelings of others and not respecting the feelings of others.

This can be seen anytime and anywhere in life, for example, the common phenomenon nowadays, parents shoehorn the things they think are good into their children, and never ask the children if they need it, resulting in children and parents working against each other.

In fact, if you think about this problem from another perspective, we are all willing to accept things and things that we don't like.

We need to learn to respect others, empathize with them, and do what they like.

Generally speaking, Gao Xiqing said that it is a very bad and uncomfortable mood to be forced by people who like relatives. Normally, being forced by someone you like is often more uncomfortable than being forced by someone you don't like.