How to keep your marriage fresh,,

I think the first thing to do is to keep the long-term freshness of the marriage, first of all, to maintain a sense of mystery, and to have your own independent space. Human beings are exploratory creatures, so if everything is open in the lives of two people, it will quickly lose its novelty. If you want space for yourself, you have to give him space.

It is also important to develop such a habit and not to dig into the bottom of the matter because of your curiosity or doubt. Fully believe in the love that the other person gives you. In addition, in daily life, there are some big list of habits to change, don't think that it doesn't matter if you are a husband and wife.

For example, details such as not closing the door when going to the toilet, not shying away from changing clothes, picking your nose and farting in front of each other, or sitting very indiscriminately, will affect your sense of mystery with each other. Think about it, are you so shy away from all this when you're in love?

Why doesn't it matter if you're married? Over time, your him (she) gradually loses its charm in front of you--- a mysterious attraction. This kind of life will become more and more dull.

I hope that through the joint efforts and maintenance of the two of you, you can create an enviable "The Most Romantic Thing" Wish: Love each other forever, and wait for a lifetime!

In fact, after entering the marriage, both people will have less romantic mood when they are in love, basically take family life as the core, occasionally recall the sweetness of love, arrange a vacation once a year, suddenly give each other a small surprise during the festival, come on a romantic date, as long as two people have this mood, the freshness of love will still appear in married life, and married life will have a different kind of romance!

Here's how to keep your marriage fresh:

1. To maintain the long-term freshness of the marriage, the first thing we should do is to communicate more with each other, talk more, don't say nothing, don't do anything, just be silent or sulking, we must communicate more, there is nothing that cannot be communicated.

2. To maintain the long-term freshness of marriage, we must be more tolerant of each other, more considerate, and more tolerant, don't start quarreling because of a little thing, blame each other, complain to each other, and be more tolerant of others, others will be more tolerant of you.

3. You can try to do more things for each other, don't wait for others to speak, you can take the initiative to do some things yourself, and rush to do some housework.

4. Be sure to keep a record of some important festivals or anniversaries in the family, and it is best to do some commemorative activities or surprises on every important festival or anniversary. You can choose to buy some commemorative gifts or household items.

5. We must sit down and discuss or talk about some important or important issues involving the family or family members, and do not make decisions by yourself, even if you can make a decision yourself, you must also listen to other ideas or expressions of family members, which is the most basic respect or support and understanding for other family members.

It is often said that marriage is oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, three meals a day without talking, seven years of itching, ten years of pain, but in fact, if a marriage wants to last for a long time, freshness is quite important. So how to keep it fresh at all times in marriage, let's find out together.

1. Life needs a sense of ritual.

Life requires a sense of ritual, and I'm sure everyone has heard of it, but it's hard for most couples to do it. Often after having a child, two people have hardly ever lived in the world of two people, and all their energy is put on the child every day, so two people will feel very tired when they run around for the child every day.

The sense of ritual does not mean that expensive gifts are needed, I believe that everyone cares about each other's heart, and life needs spices, only in this way will the love between each other be increased, and the relationship will last for a long time.

2. Through continuous learning, bring changes to your marriage.

If the state of marriage is 10 years like a day, it will be terrible to think about, two people do the same thing every day, it is meaningless and fun, then two people who love each other will feel bored.

If you add some benefits and innovations to the same thing, it will be two completely different endings. In marriage, it is through the continuous learning of two people that the relationship can be better, rather than both parties standing still.

It's really not an easy thing for two people to be together, so you must cherish each other and walk through the hurried years hand in hand.

3. In-depth communication.

Many couples end up with a failed marriage because they have nothing to say to each other, and the formation of a relationship belongs to communication, and only by communicating with each other will they understand each other's minds.

When two people are in love, they can talk about everything, but why do they become too lazy to communicate after getting married? However, all couples who have broken down their relationship are the result of little communication.

Marriages are also being destroyed in this silence, so why not pick a time to calm down with each other and communicate? Any relationship needs two people to manage it together, and only in this way can love be kept fresh.

4. Learn to make yourself an excellent person.

I believe that we all like to be around wonderful people, because they have a sense of mystery in everything they do.

Therefore, in life, both women and men can appropriately change their dressing style, so that there will be a new feeling in front of the other half. Only in this way can you become a better person and get rid of the eternal and unchanging habits of life. Only in this way can a fresh charm be introduced to the relationship.

The most effective way for both sides to go longer is to have a common goal for each other. In this way, the feelings can drive each other to the end.

In the marriage continue to change themselves, make themselves better, but also for the other party to make appropriate changes and compromises, in order to make each other's love more long, not long after marriage to conceive a baby, due to malnutrition, but also because I don't know how to cook, my husband has no time to take care of me, so I can only go to my mother-in-law for a while to go to my mother's house, at that time I feel that I and my husband slowly began to appear estranged, I told him many times, his mother is not my mother, It is impossible to treat me like my mother, but he doesn't listen, he always says that his parents are very good, how is it, but when I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law played mahjong every day, and the cooking was not on time, and my father-in-law smoked at home every day, and it was useless to say, and at this time he always said that I was not sensible and so on, and slowly found that I was unwilling to call him ** to say these things.

Second, later I went back to my parents' house, and my mother took care of me, she had a lot of things to do, but she was also taking care of me wholeheartedly, because I was too pregnant and vomited, my appetite was really not good, and I was very picky, so I could feel the distress of my parents, and then after giving birth, my in-laws did not say to help take care of the confinement, nor did they say to help take care of the child, in short, my confinement was taken care of by my mother, and he felt that his mother's waist was not good, and I had to understand if he couldn't come.

Third, then we couldn't take the baby alone, and it was true that a person would not take care of it, so I took the baby back to my parents' house, and his parents didn't hit one, at first I and he would be a day **, and then slowly I didn't want to pick him up, and I didn't want to talk to him too much, we separated for about ten months After I went back, I felt that the two of them could not be like the feeling when they were in love, at that time we had just been married for three years, and the feeling at that time was that I wanted to return to a person's life.

The most important thing is to do a good job of psychological adjustment, and pay attention to the image after the manuscript. Think about it before you get married, this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Home is a harbor for the soul, can you accept this person wholeheartedly?

Can you give most of your money for him? Are you ready to expose your good and bad sides to him? No hard thorns in him and a soft heart?

Only when you are ready can you adjust your mentality and prepare for marriage. Two people who can enter the marriage hall must have a place that can attract each other. But often girls will consciously and unconsciously take on most of the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in their lives after marriage, and ignore themselves in the process of building their own small family.

Slowly become a quasi-aunt who snaps up bargains in the supermarket. Slowly became a woman who refused to go out for a romantic dinner and wanted to go home and make her own fireworks. It's not that thrift is bad, but don't become the kind of person who is mediocre at heart.

I used to be complacent about how much money I saved today. And once when I was staring at the cheap dragon shirt in the supermarket and was about to squeeze in, I accidentally saw my husband's eyes so helpless, and I was stunned. Realize how inconsistent such an image is with the lover in his heart.

Later, I paid attention to dressing up and paying attention to my image in front of my husband and children. At least don't make them feel embarrassed to go out with you, or even be proud of your image. After marriage, do your best and make yourself better and better, and more and more deep.

It's not about revolving around her husband and children, but with her own interests and hobbies, and her own life circle. After I got married, I tossed around the balcony to grow vegetables, cross-stitch, patchwork, learn guzheng, belly dance, etc., basically every month there will be new tricks, and I am very busy. My husband often talks to colleagues and friends in a complaining tone, but in fact, his heart is beautiful.

Let him bring the small crafts he made to send to his colleagues and friends, it will be even more face-saving. It feels good to come back and take the initiative to do all kinds of housework and all kinds of sycophants.

In normal times, both parties should give each other some gifts, and then they can also take each other on a trip. There is also Shen Xian, which is that we can also wait for each other during the usual festivals, give each other some sense of ceremony, and can also create some small surprises and romances. Of course, you have to talk to each other about love, so that you can keep the freshness of your marriage.