Only when you lose the pain you understand, do you know how important you are?

Yes. Sometimes it's often overlooked that what matters most to you. The moment you lose it, you feel the pain in your heart. You regret that you didn't cherish it in the first place.

It's true that many people don't know how to cherish when they have it, and they will enjoy the empty loneliness when they don't have it. Wait until you lose it to understand the pain, maybe it will be irreparable, or make the right judgment before. You succeed if you get back to the ignorance in time.

I know I'm important, at least I'm important to my family.

I don't know how to cherish it when I'm around, and the more I think about it, the more I regret it.

It seems that this is the case for most people, but a loss is a loss, and your pain is irreparable.

So you have to choose to let go, and letting go of others is actually letting go of yourself.

Time can take away my youth, it can take away my beautiful face, and it can take away the person I love deeply, but it can't take away the good memories that that person left in my heart. Although the twelve o'clock person is not around, it has always been in my heart, in my dreams, in my memories, and when I miss it, I have been circulating ** the little points that I am with you.

Yes, no matter what happens, or what you have in your heart, you will know its importance after repeated self-examination.

It may be irretrievable to understand the pain until it is lost, but it is still necessary to make the right judgment before, and it is success to be able to recover it in time without losing it.

This only knows how to hurt when you know that you have lost, which means that you didn't cherish it when you were together, and you didn't separate if you didn't wait, and you felt that you couldn't accept it.

Many times I exhort everyone to cherish the people in front of them, and once they miss it, they will be gone.

When you really lose the other person, you don't know the pain, in fact, it's too late.

If one person is important to another, when you lose it, the pain in your heart is really something that others can't feel.

I browsed it in the morning, and I was deeply impressed by the hungry argument about the title. A very incisive golden sentence: Losing is not important, I know what is important.

01 Loss is not important.

I think there are two meanings implied in this half sentence:

1.What can be lost means that it is not important What can be lost means that we have not paid enough attention to it, and if we do not pay attention to it, we do not take it very seriously. Therefore, lost = unimportant.

Just like our current WeChat, a large amount of information hits: group information, personal messages, circle of friends information, *** push, etc., every day we lose unlimited information because of limited time. Then, in our limited time, the information we choose to read, the people we choose to chat, and the circle of friends we choose to like must be the most important people and things we think are at the moment.

Maybe you're doing it subconsciously, but it's your truest choice right now. All that is not chosen is in the present, what you think is unimportant, since it is not important, then loss is inevitable.

2.It doesn't matter if you lose something that is not important.

Loss, it doesn't matter. Because loss only represents our stage, the loss of people and things that we don't value. Since you didn't pay attention to it, you don't have to feel sorry for it.

02 I know what is important.

If you think of this person, this thing, this item is especially important to us. Then, we must know how to be proactive and strive for it.

The so-called direction of attention produces results. For example, if you have a good impression of a girl, and you feel that she is very important to you, you will unconsciously look at her circle of friends, like and interact with her every day, which is the action you think is important to people and things. That's one way you go for it.

But some people, who keep saying that they are interested in making money and want to increase their side income, are indifferent when the opportunity comes. There are also those who know they don't know, but they don't know how to ask for it. Maybe I didn't find a way, maybe I didn't find a teacher who was right for the round limbs, which caused me to be anxious and hesitant all the time.

So, it's important to know how important it is.

Losing is not important, I know what is important! Don't cry over the cheese you spilled, because the past can't be repeated!

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We always think that the future will be long, and every time we part, we always swear that we will see each other again.

I never thought that some people said "goodbye", but they really won't see each other again.

Is it until we lose it that we can learn to cherish it? Do you regret it so that you can grow?

A person's life is a process of losing and changing his old age.

When I was a child, the most was time, and the least cherished was time.

It was a time when we had a lot of time to squander, and we were able to stay at home every day and see our loved ones every day.

Every time I will be condemned by my family for being naughty, every time I will think that I must grow up quickly, leave home quickly, and I can't wait to go to the outside world to see.

But now going home has become our biggest thought, and it is really difficult to go home once.

We are always busy, we always feel that we don't have time, and we always put off going home.

We always say again, another day, and then before we know it, day after day, there is always no time.

When I was a child, I was a little wronged, and I would always go home and cry, but now I don't dare to let my family know even if I have a big grievance.

Even if we wanted them to know, we knew we wouldn't be able to go home for a while.

Things that we didn't care about before, and even thought were cheap, don't belong to us anymore.

I know that I don't cherish it, I don't care, and I always lose the precious things in my original life.

Until one day, looking back, his side was already empty.

In fact, we are also very annoyed, if only life had ifs, everything could be repeated.

In fact, we also regret that if we had known how to cherish it earlier, we would have missed less things and grasped everything we had.

After all, life is life, it is not a myth, and it is not too late to regret anything.

Every time we separate in the future, we must say goodbye, after all, our fate with some people may really not be long, seriously separated, serious growth ......end

The meaning of this sentence is twofold:

This quote expresses the common belief that only by experiencing pain and loss can one truly appreciate the pain and heaviness that comes with loss. However, this is not the case that everyone has to experience pain and loss or oak to understand what they mean. Some people may experience the pain of loss from examples around them or through imagination.

2. At the same time, in some cases, some people may not have experienced a similar loss, but they can clearly appreciate the pain and meaning of loss through compassion, care, and understanding of the situation of others. So, while experiencing pain and loss may be a more profound experience, it doesn't have to be seen as a necessary condition for understanding and empathizing with the difficulties and losses suffered by others.

Yes, there are some things or some things, when people don't know how to cherish it when they have it, once they lose it, they feel the value of its existence and use, and it is irreparable to regret it.

The cup is lonely, someone poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I want Zhen Zhaohui Maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water has become cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured on the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again and completely, but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything is guessed can you know the previous happiness? The facts have already warned us, cherish what we have now, and don't regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

There is no greater pain than between gain and loss. People are always nostalgic, when they lose another him, when he leaves, you will find that you have already been accustomed to the habit of being with him, often in a daze, pondering alone, not why, just to find something about him in memory. After losing, I realized the importance of being together and the happiness of being together.

Maybe only when you have lost can you understand the cherishing in your feelings. If you force yourself to forget but can't stop, and if you get worse and worse, you will only fall into deep pain and remorse. That feeling lies in the dedication to love and the afterthought of love. Satisfied.

Losing is painful. But I know that sooner or later the pain will lessen. At the same time, it is also a reminder that you grow in pain and learn to cherish.

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, let him (she) smile and devote his energy to the struggle for his ideal career, and urge him (her) to make full use of the time that belongs to him, to help each other in the short space with each other, to support each other, to share weal and woe, to contribute to each other's ideal cause, and to have a better future together!

You may not think it will be like when you have Sun Bei, but when you lose it, you will know what heartache is. Most people get used to doing something or accepting someone's feelings for a few days, but one day when you stop what you have done and accept from people, you feel as if something is missing. Actually, nothing is missing, it's just that you're starting to get used to that life, that feeling.

Therefore, when you lose him (her), you will think that he (she) is valuable, if you cherish him (her) at the beginning, he (her) will not leave you now. Cherish what you have now, and don't wait until everything is gone from you, leaving you with only regret and self-blame.