What do you think of men raising their families and women taking care of their children at home ?

It seems that it is reasonable for men to farm and weave women, and women are pregnant and nursed, which must be experienced, human reproduction cannot be changed, and it is a great thing for a mother to take care of a child at home, but: it would be nice if all men could understand women in this way, but there are still some men who are paranoid that they have the greatest credit, and he is alone in raising the whole family, and his wife is just sitting back and enjoying his success, machismo at home, and the child is healthy and excellent, otherwise women are accused of being useless, If the child grows up and leaves home, the woman will face the need to go back to work, and there will be a situation of disconnection from society, and there are very few people who can find something suitable for them to do at once, and the salary is average, so in the long run, their payment is really a big price, I hope that men can understand the wife who pays silently for you to have children, respect and express their care and love for them.

I don't think there's anything wrong with that, if a family wants to live a harmonious and happy life, someone must always take responsibility for daily living expenses, and someone must be able to take care of the family, no matter what the division of labor between men and women is, as long as two people understand each other and support each other's work.

Today's society attaches great importance to equality between men and women, and women can also hold up half the sky, and they can "kill all sides" in the workplace, no matter what industry, there are always men and women, so women may not only be able to watch their children at home and do housework after marriage. The well-known female star Qi Wei.

She is mainly working outside to serve insight, making money to support the family, and her husband Lee Seung-hyun.

is to take care of the children at home, and their relationship is very good, life is very happy, and the daughter they have educated is also very good. Qi Wei expressed her gratitude to her husband for his efforts at home, and Lee Seung-hyun also felt very sorry for Qi Wei's hard work outside, this division of labor was the result of their careful consideration, and they understood each other, so they were very happy.

Life is your own, and everything in the family is also handled by the husband and wife, so don't care what others think, as long as you can do a good job of working to support the family and taking care of the children, then the family relationship.

It won't be bad either. If the woman in a family has a very strong ability to work and a high salary, but she is not good at taking care of the children, and the man has a low salary and is very patient with the baby, then this situation has to be the male protagonist and the female protagonist, which will bring endless quarrels, the wife dislikes her husband for making less money, and the husband complains that his wife does not take good care of the family, and eventually this relationship no longer exists.

The division of labour between men and women does not have to be based on a stereotype.

In the context of the new era, we are more selective, we can both go to work to support the family, and then hire a nanny, or the man can make money to support the family, the woman can take care of the children, and the woman can make money to support the family, and the man can take care of the children, as long as the two people agree on the same opinion, and have a deep understanding of the efforts and efforts made by each other, and tolerate each other, then I think this family will be a happy family.

I think this is beneficial, it can let both parties understand each other's difficulties, let men experience taking care of children at home, teaching children, picking up housework in the morning, cooking and laundry, and can also let women feel the difficulty of making money, the sinister in society.

This is not good, because if a man is at home with children, the mold will also make the child very insecure, and Huaiyin is not conducive to maintaining a marriage.

I don't think this is particularly good, because such a model may lead to a lack of ambition in men, and it will also lead to a lack of maternal love in children.

I don't agree with this sentence of filial piety, because in the marriage and cautious marriage, two people need to maintain it together, plus the man is stronger, so the man should go out to earn money, and the woman's negotiation personality is more delicate, so that the woman can take care of the child at home.

I don't agree with this sentence, because Liang Liang thinks that such a situation may make the child lack maternal love, and the most reasonable way is for both men and women to go out to work, and they can also choose to agree to accompany the child for a period of time.

Agree, as long as the husband and wife agree, it is okay, and this can also be a good way to maintain the family.

Do you spend all your time at work and ignore your partner?

I wouldn't do that, the partner is a little more important. Marriage is more important, but both parties are also closely related. For single people, without marriage, work can be the whole of their lives.

But for married people, if they are fully engaged in their work, their marriage can break down. The education of children and the emotional communication between husband and wife are swallowed up by work, which seriously affects family happiness. It can be seen that although work is important, once you have a family, you must not only focus on work, but also spend the necessary time with the people around you.

As far as marriage is concerned, if the man develops well outside the home, the financial pressure on the woman will be greatly reduced. But that doesn't mean men can stay away from their families or marriages. In the workplace, there are many examples of neglecting marriage and family due to being busy with work, which eventually leads to the breakdown of family relationships.

Some of them have a bad marital relationship, which affects their career development. Marriage is still important to most men. After all, the purpose of marriage is not divorce.

The key to this question is how to balance work and marriage. On the one hand, there is the balance of time, men cannot spend all their time at work and make their other half feel neglected. On the other hand, there is the communication gap, when there is too little communication between husband and wife, there will be problems in the marriage.

For a man, I don't think it's an attitude of giving up on work. A happy marriage requires material things.

Especially in today's society, housing and car loans will be a heavy stress. If the job does not pay well, it is difficult for a man to make his other half feel safe. The State also encourages the birth of second and third children.

Although many families want to have more children, men don't have the courage to have children decisively if they don't work well and don't earn much. If the work goes well, the man's mindset will improve and become more attractive to the woman, which will have a positive effect on the long-term maintenance of the marriage.

Whether a woman wants to take care of children full-time depends on the conditions of her family and her personal ability, and nothing is absolute.

One: Expectations turn into disappointment.

When a woman stays at home for three years, she will be completely derailed from society. Times are changing, and if you can't keep up with the rhythm, you will be eliminated by society. When a woman first gets married, she has a job and money**, so she will naturally dress up beautifully and be intellectually generous.

But after staying in marriage for a long time, the only thing that can be discussed between a woman and a man is housework and money. From the previous dream, falling into the abyss of reality, men will turn from expectation to disappointment, and more and more disgusted with women's chatter. In the end, the in-laws were satisfied, but the husband was bored.

Two: I hope someone will share the burden.

Marriage is not about marrying a "little ancestor" and going home, and no man really wants his wife to stay at home and only spend his own money. The in-laws want their daughter-in-law to stay, because they are afraid that the daughter-in-law's ambition is too big and she has made achievements in her career, and her heart will deviate from the family. But the husband wants to have a wife who can share the burden of the family with him, instead of a person who revolves around his parents all day long, but has no financial ** and increases his own burden.

Therefore, when the wife does not go out to work and asks her husband for money, she will gradually get bored.

Three: How to solve the problem of going to work?

1: Deal with each case on a case-by-case basis. Women inevitably get married and have children, and if they are three years before giving birth, they can indeed consider not going to work.

The child is still young and needs the company of adults, and it is the enlightenment period, so it will be better for the parents to take it with them. At this time, the mother-in-law is not allowed to go to work, which is understandable, and she communicates with her husband in time to make him understand the importance.

2: Communicate with your in-laws to let the elderly understand that her husband is under pressure if he doesn't go to work. The in-laws feel very sorry for their son, especially after marrying their daughter-in-law, they will be more partial to their son.

Because one person raises a family, this tiredness is not only the body, but also the heart. In this regard, the daughter-in-law can start from this aspect and tell the stakes. Let the elderly understand that their daughter-in-law goes to work for the better of the family and reduce the pressure on his son.

The in-laws are reasonable, the husband has expectations, and this is the difficulty of women in the middle. How to resolve it, it is necessary to open a "new road" from the place where both sides attach the most importance to it. The hope of the in-laws, the daughter-in-law will be obedient first, and then slowly maneuver, so as not to make the relationship too stiff at once.

As long as there is a quarrel, it will be detrimental to the relationship at home. Therefore, it is best for the in-laws and daughters-in-law to take a step back, the elderly help take care of the family, and the daughter-in-law goes out to work to subsidize the family, which can not only share the pressure of the husband, but also be independent.

I support the family if it is needed, but I do not support all the families. After all, every family structure is different. We can accept the support of different family economic structures.

Whether it is a man with a child or a woman with a child, it is for the family. The amount of money earned is not equal to that of a man or a woman, and the distribution of positions in one's own family can be negotiated by oneself. Although the traditional structure is that men work hard to make money, women take care of children at home.

But it is not possible to generalize, there is always a special existence.

The needs of family conditions determine the family structure, if it is a woman who makes money to dominate the family needs, then I support the female protagonist and the male protagonist. I used to have a classmate, her mother is a human resources director of a company, and his income is very large, so she said that her mother is responsible for the main support of a family, and her father is mainly responsible for the three children in the family, and then he also has a small career.

Although it is said that the main structure of society is male and female, there are many conditions that do not allow it, and many families will choose to let the female protagonist and the male dominate. This is also understandable, after all, everyone's situation is different. Just like the example I gave above, my classmate's mom earns more money, and his dad is better at taking care of things at home.

Then for their family, the female protagonist and the male protagonist are more suitable for their family. After all, the right fit is the best.

But I don't support many people to emulate some of these behaviors, because an active labor force in society is still a male worker。Although we women also have their own foothold in many industries, they have gradually become one of the leaders of the work. But many times it is still necessary to take into account the development of the family, so it is still necessary for the two of them to have a plan.

There is a person whose focus is still on the family.

If you don't agree, according to normal morality, men still have the responsibility to support their families.

In modern society, women's opinions should be respected.

I don't agree with this approach, men should take responsibility for the family.

It's nothing, whoever has the ability to go, there is no absolute, we have to broaden our vision.