My husband is often drunk, will you be afraid?

My husband is very fond of drinking, and he also has a group of friends who love to drink, some of whom can drink and some of whom can't, and he belongs to the type that loves to be strong. I especially like the feeling of self-aggrandizement after drinking. Listening to you say that your husband is not good at words, I want to say that in fact, drinking may be a way for him to express his emotions, just like we sing and chat, and Manchu people are born with a lot of alcohol, and the ability to decompose enzymes in the body is stronger than that of ordinary people.

So when he drinks too much, he shows a different side of himself, and you don't have to care about how he can be like this after drinking. Some people live to be old and drink to old age. Generally, drinking more and drinking less is within your means.

As a wife, I feel the need to remind him to cherish life and be responsible for you and your children. Be patient. Hopefully, you can find a balance where communication is the most important thing.

Try to communicate with him as a friend. Don't pray for him. Drunk men are like children to coax.

He was often sobered up at home, and when he woke up, he told him that he had done something embarrassing yesterday. Men are all about face. My husband was beaten up for drinking the day before yesterday, and all the friends he was drinking with were hospitalized, and he regretted it very much the next day.

Wine is really hard work and money, and people are tireless.

I think if your husband is often drunk, then there must be a feeling of fear, after all, people usually break up when they are drunk, and then they don't know what will happen to them.

If your husband can get drunk, it means that his life is under pressure and his work is more stressful. Be considerate, and then make him hangover tea when you come back. Don't get into too much verbal conflict with him.

Change into washed clothes, cover the quilt and go to bed. People are heart-to-heart, considerate of each other, and understand each other. Live every day of your life well, and that's enough.

If my husband gets drunk a lot in the future, then he won't be my husband, he's an out-and-out drunkard.

I can accept my husband drinking, but I can't accept him, and he often gets drunk.

If you ask me if I'm not scared when I encounter such a situation, then I must be scared! Who met a husband like this? Will you worry about your future life and your future? But other than being afraid, I feel like I'm more determined about him.

Because there used to be a person in our place who was very fond of drinking. And when he came home after drinking, he went crazy, quarreled with his wife, and beat his wife. But every time he sobered up, he would apologize to his wife and beg for his wife's forgiveness.

At first, his wife believed him, but then slowly it was like this every time. The worst I remember was when both of them faced each other with kitchen knives. If it hadn't been for the rest of the village to stop it in time, maybe there would have been a lot of death.

Later, his wife couldn't stand it anymore and divorced him. <>

I think it's better to meet someone who is flawed and can't stand it, and it's better to leave as soon as possible. Otherwise, the longer you stay, the more you will hurt yourself.

Also, I think it's particularly disgusting to take care of a drunk. It's to clean up their vomit, anyway, whatever? I'm not going to pick up my husband's vomit.

Because after drinking, it is not only very smelly but also very disgusting. It's possible that I'll throw it up when I smell it myself. By that time, let alone clean up for others, there will be no one to collect my body.

So, it's better to meet a husband who is often drunk and leave early.

Your husband scolds you every time he gets drunk, then maybe he doesn't know what he is doing when he is drunk, and people who drink too much are sometimes unconscious, so the things he does are also very hurtful.

In this case, you usually have to persuade him to drink less, because when he gets drunk, he will scold you indiscriminately, and the scolding makes you feel very uncomfortable, and you have to tell him how you feel in your heart.

A man who is generally used to drinking alcohol, if he wants to quit drinking, it is very difficult, and he can only persuade him to control himself to drink less, if he can quit drinking, it is better.

In short, drinking alcohol is not a good thing, it hurts the brain, damages memory, some people get drunk, and they will beat people indiscriminately, and there are all kinds of situations after getting drunk.

Your husband likes to scold you when he's drunk, so you just ignore him and stay away from him. Don't scold him, because most drunk people are delirious, and he just needs to stop scolding you when he is sober.

Of course, this is not the solution to the problem, the most important thing is to persuade your husband to control himself from drinking less and not to get himself drunk.

How old are you drinking alone?

When it comes to the topic of husbands who love to drink, some female compatriots will immediately grit their teeth with hatred, and it is really never peaceful to have an alcoholic husband at home. Around me, there are people who drink and go to the police station, fight, jump into the river, and even have vicious incidents. My husband loves to drink, he is always drunk, he comes home very late, and he goes to bed immediately after he goes back, and he makes a lot of noise when he behaves badly, and his wife is often very helpless when he encounters this kind of thing.

What should I do? Doing these seven things well will help you::

1. Figure out why your husband loves to drink. Men love to drink, some need to socialize, and some use alcohol to kill their sorrows, only by understanding the reason why their husband drinks can they help him slowly get rid of the habit of drinking. A man needs to play an important role in his career and family, if the burden is too heavy and there is nowhere to complain, he will use drinking and smoking to vent, as a wife, he can let him say the uncomfortable things in his heart, and deal with him positively, he will not fall in love with drinking.

2. Don't argue with your husband when he comes home from drinking. After drinking, people will be in a state of excitement if they drink less, and they will be in a state of unconsciousness if they drink too much, and they must not reason with him at this time, and they should be in a state of contention, and they should echo his statement and let him calm down as soon as possible, so as not to cause a catastrophe when the two of them quarrel.

3. Covertly record his ugly state after being drunk. Take advantage of the time when he is not paying attention, record his drunken gibberish, and when he is sober, let him see how immature he is, people often change under the influence of self-esteem.

Fourth, take him to the hospital for a physical examination. A person who loves to drink usually does not respond to persuasion unless the doctor tells him not to drink anymore. When he drinks and has some physical problems, such as beer belly or stomach discomfort, he should go to the hospital for a check-up in time to let him understand that he can't spoil his body all the time.

5. Maintain a good family atmosphere. If a man feels that his family is not happy, he will choose to drink to vent, which will make him forget the unhappiness in his heart for a while and escape from reality. As a wife, he needs to maintain a good family atmosphere, so that he will feel happy and will not use alcohol to kill his sorrows.

6. Cultivate your husband's other hobbies. If a person does not have such a hobby, he will have that hobby, and a person who loves to drink can only change unless he gets into trouble because of drinking or has other hobbies. Therefore, if you want to cultivate your husband's other hobbies, he will focus on doing other things, and his drinking will be reduced.

7. There is only divorce for those who refuse to change their ways. Some people are addicted to drinking, ruining their future, drinking their bodies, destroying the relationship between husband and wife, or not correcting, this time to consider leaving, can not waste their lives because of meeting an alcoholic, such people will not bring you happiness.

Moderate drinking is good for physical and mental health, can relieve stress, enliven the atmosphere, and expand social interaction, but excessive drinking is very harmful, easy to cause fatty liver, gastric ulcer, chronic gastritis, gastric bleeding, etc., paralyzing nerves, will make people slow to react, and will affect careers, resulting in family breakdown, so I hope that the male compatriots who read this article must have self-control, put an end to becoming alcoholics, and female compatriots should have more understanding of their husbands, enter his heart, and help him quit alcohol addiction, so as to have a happy family.

What should you do when you meet a husband who loves to drink and is often drunk? If you want to know, take a look at this guide.

01 Understand your husband. Men are involuntary in the workplace and often need to drink for socials, and as a wife, you should try to understand your husband's hardships.

02 Communicate with your husband. You can communicate well with your husband, tell your husband that you don't want him to be like this, and tell him about the harm of drinking alcohol.

03 Learn some hangover cures. If your husband often drinks and gets drunk, you can learn some ways to relieve hangover, such as lemon juice can be sobered, and when your husband is drunk, you can squeeze a glass of lemon juice for your husband to sober up.

04 Divorce. If the husband is a serious alcoholic, and he does not listen to any persuasion, which seriously affects the relationship between the husband and wife and the harmony of the family, then he can only choose to divorce and go his own way.