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I feel that both are needed, if you want to be happy in a relationship, two people need both the foundation of the relationship and the reality of money, both of which have to be taken into account, love can not be said to rely on one side alone, it is impossible to rely on feelings alone, of course it is impossible to rely on money alone, if you say that you rely on feelings alone, you two are estimated to not even be able to eat, love will eventually shine into reality, when you walk into reality you will know how cruel money is, that is, how cruel reality is, even if you two are Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, then you have to eat, right, Do you two industries become butterflies fluttering, and butterflies don't have to become specimens if they don't eat, so when it comes to feelings, money is also very important, so don't mention money and say that people are cheesy, they will look at money, and you don't spend money if you have the ability.
There is also a right thing to look at just looking at money, if two people fall in love, if you just look at money, then Ma Yun, Wang Jianlin, Bill Gates, it is estimated that girls all over the world should revolve around them, there is nothing wrong with you wanting a good living environment, but if you blindly look at money, then you have to live, you must not be happy, no feelings, your heart must be empty and not really happy, the two extremes of love are one is, feelings are supreme, and the other is money first, neither of which is good.
Therefore, in love, feelings are very important, but you can't blindly pursue feelings, regardless of reality, you don't want to drink the northwest wind, wear a plastic bag and say I love you. Of course, the blind pursuit of money is not obtainable, you have to find an emotional sustenance, so that you will not feel empty in your heart. May everyone be able to marry affection, and at the same time have a lot of money.
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For most women, either give her a lot of money or give her a lot of love, otherwise why would she follow you for the rest of her life? I think since you have been in love with each other for a long time, at the beginning, your woman should also have expectations for you, hoping that you will make a difference in the future, so she doesn't care about the poverty for a while, I didn't expect you to be willing to be ordinary, not enterprising, people are looking forward to the heights, not a vanity comparison, that is, for the sake of being willing to think about your women and children, you should also actively work hard to earn money, because there are too many places to use money, poor couples mourn, there is still a certain reason.
Feelings, because feelings are the greatest in the world, people live for money, then the meaning of life is short, a happy life is built by a little bit of emotion, money is not omnipotent, you can't buy happiness, the feeling of happiness is reflected in the feelings, a lot of money, but rarely experience the feeling of happiness, he will feel that life lacks something.
And although some people are not rich, but they live very happily, he is very content, because he has a happy family, a happy home is not something that money can measure, happiness is accumulated by feelings, money can buy material things, but spiritual things can't be bought, feelings are the most important thing in life, don't give up happiness for money.
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