It s a headache, I don t know how to get along with my mother, she has such a strange personality!

I understand you very well, it is true that we and my mother are originally two generations, and we have many different views on things and people. But you have to believe that no matter how incorrect or contradictory her views are, in short, she is doing her best for you with good intentions because you are her child. But what's the problem?

It's how you communicate. I've had the same experience as you, and now that I'm older, I realize that I used to be really ignorant. In the future, when you encounter different concepts, remember to hold your mother's hand, hug her shoulder, lower your voice, slowly talk to her about your thoughts, and find proof that your ideas are correct.

Don't go to quarrels, isn't there a saying? When the voice is loud, the heart is far away. Try to let your thoughts infect hers.

I believe that everything will be okay with you, because it is a mother-son relationship, hehe.

It seems like my situation I often have this situation, and often she takes care of it herself, and doesn't ask me about my wishes. The most uncomfortable thing is that she thinks it is right, and she will definitely hold on. Especially my childhood, which is much better now.

There is no horror from my grandmother ...

I think in this case, first of all, do you have the right to quarrel with your mother? Can you feed yourself? Don't you have to rely on your mom for anything?

If not, just bear with it. I think it's useless to say anything to talk to her or something (saying this is probably going to be criticized by many people, but I'm just saying what I think, my experience) because, the moment you talk to her well, she seems to agree with you, but, after a while, even if it's so long that I forget about the previous things, but, as soon as there is any friction, she immediately brings out these old things and scolds, saying how I thought at the time. Still...

Why didn't you scold me so much when I spoke my thoughts gently and gently!! I often blame those of us who are children for not telling them the truth, in this case, can we say it?

Many times, parents are unreasonable. Of course, I know the hardships of my parents giving birth to me and raising me, but how can I take this as a panacea, quarrel with my parents, and tell my parents how you hurt us before. But they have long forgotten that there was such a thing, but what they remember is how hard they raised their children who hurt them, and finally hurt their parents by being children, which is really aggrieved...

So, landlord, you better endure it, and then you have to know how to relieve stress, listen to songs, exercise and the like. Maybe I'm a little evasive, but I think it's in the least hurtful way to my parents.

Talk more to your mother, maybe your mother is menopausal or in a bad mood during this time, just coax her more! Mother is always the greatest!!

For every mother, she loves her own daughter, but in a different way.

We should also have the obligation to honor our parents, and it is not easy for our parents to make me so big!

Be considerate of them, and I'm sure you'll do well!

I don't think your mother will hurt you, right? You have to learn to put yourself in their shoes. Find your own reason?

She is the mother who gave birth to you and raised you, and the person who cares about you the most in the world, can only tell you one sentence: home is not a place to be reasonable. (Whether it's getting along with your parents, or getting married and having children later, it's the same with your wife).

I think you're funny, and you say she doesn't care about you, and you say that your mom doesn't give you freedom. You're still tired, then your mother is not tired to death when you are so old. You still have three orders, what qualifications do you have, funny.

Be honest with each other and have a good chat.

She's angry with you, and you can change your temper for your mother