Are there any benefits to living together before marriage? As the title suggests, thank you

Unmarried cohabitation, if from the perspective of our country's traditional morality, is not good, but now that society is developing, the social rhythm has become faster, and there are more and more unmarried cohabitants! I feel that the advantage of cohabitation is: after the development of a certain program, if the relationship between two people wants to further elevate, or further enhance their feelings, the best way is to live together, so that two people will become close lovers after all the time, and they will talk about everything, and they dare not talk about topics that they dare not say, which will help you to understand each other and lay a good foundation for a better life after marriage in the future!

What I feel is bad about living together: all your strengths and weaknesses will be exposed one by one, and after a long time, you will quarrel because of some small things, and you will also be awkward because of some things in life, so two people need to be creative in their lives together, otherwise they will be irritable after a long time of boring life. So there are good and bad things about living together, the most important thing to be together is to rely on each other, help each other, take care of each other, don't care too much about your own pay, follow back, if you really love each other, you can withstand the test in the setbacks, I believe there will be complete love!

The advantage is that the breakup is simple, not as complicated as divorce, and it is more troublesome to have children and separate assets. If it's not good, just go. There wasn't much to worry about. Don't think about what other people think.

Cohabitation and marriage lie in a piece of paper, and cohabitation before marriage has many benefits, you can get to know each other in depth, and it is also a guarantee before marriage.

Look at what angle you can at least see if his living habits are not suitable for marriage before marriage, and you may pay for the first time.

There's nothing good about living together before marriage.

Cohabitation before marriage is not good and can do more harm than good.

Benefits of premarital cohabitation:

First, premarital cohabitation can better understand the real other party, when men and women are just in love, they will answer each other and show their most beautiful and best side, and in the early stage of love, both parties will not care, always feel that the other party is the person who should be with him for a lifetime, there is no one more suitable for himself than him, and whether it is suitable for him needs to live together to know, because two people will live together every day for a lifetime, If there is something in the other party's living habits that you can't bear, it may lead to the breakdown of the relationship because of the trivial matter of living habits, so living together before marriage is equivalent to testing the waters, and then considering whether to continue to be together after learning about the real other party, so that there will be no divorce after finding a little problem after marriage.

Second, the two parties can divide the housework they do before marriage, generally in the case of love, the other half is very happy to help you share the housework, and it will become a habit after a long time, otherwise the other half of the marriage will not want to help you share the housework, you have no way, you can only do it yourself, so the premarital cohabitation is also to make plans for the future married life, assign tasks, and the married life will not quarrel because of the trivial things such as housework.

Disadvantages of premarital cohabitation:

1. Cohabitation before marriage will affect marriage, because the man will feel that he has lived together, and marriage is just a formality, so he will not be too scumbag, which will make women who live together for the purpose of marriage feel uncomfortable, and it is likely to break up unhappily in the end, which is a heavy blow to the woman.

Second, premarital cohabitation will affect the freshness after marriage, premarital cohabitation is different from those couples who can only see each other once or twice a week, they can see each other every day after marriage, and they don't have to wait for the weekly meeting time as before, this situation will accelerate the warming of their feelings, and for people who live together before marriage, marriage has no impact on their lives, except for a wedding, their lives are still exactly the same as before marriage.

After all, marriage is a major event in life, especially girls should be more cautious, there are advantages and disadvantages to living together before marriage, but girls still have to observe the other half of the person, and carefully think about whether he is the person you should be waiting for.

Many people talk about their partners, and they will have a question, that is, should they live with their partners before marriage? In response to this problem, I think there are pros and cons to living together before marriage.

Let's talk about the disadvantages first, I think there are three bad effects of living together before marriage:

1. During the period of cohabitation, unplanned pregnancy may occur, and the harm of unplanned pregnancy to girls is self-evident, because she originally did not plan to have children during this time period, it is possible that her current career is just in its infancy, and it is possible that her current work is very stressful, and she has no ability and no plan to have a baby.

2. If you break up in the future, your future partner may care about your "cohabitation history", which will make you passive when choosing a mate, and you will bear some psychological pressure. At the moment of free love, many people still have a narrow psychology to look at the fact that girls have lived with other boys, and I myself am very opposed. Why is it that a man can cohabit with a girl before marriage, and a girl cannot cohabit with another boy before marriage?

Falling in love itself is something you want to do.

3. Getting along frequently will wear down the intimacy of love, which is not conducive to the construction of the emotional foundation, and getting along intensively will produce a lot of contradictions, if two people don't know how to deal with it, it will accelerate the breakdown of the relationship.

But there are also pros to cohabitation, and overall, I think the pros outweigh the cons.

The necessity of cohabitation lies in the fact that during a relationship, two people often look at each other with a filter, deliberately ignoring each other's shortcomings, and only seeing the shining side of their partner. You can't see the real person.

And living together, you can't hide each other's shortcomings, you can see his life pattern, and know if he is like in ordinary life; When there is a conflict, you will be able to see how he handles the problem and can make an objective judgment.

You can see both his good and bad, and they can run in with each other, although they may break up, it is better than two people who can't get along and divorce after marriage.

I think the real meaning of cohabitation is to test each other's ability to get through the run-in period, too many feelings can't survive the run-in period, and after one or two years of marriage, there will be contradictions in the relationship, and it can't go on.

If you want to get through the run-in period, you need two people to establish a good mode of getting along, accept each other's shortcomings, understand that as a partner, there is not a good side, he is a real person, it is normal for you to have conflicts, you must see the reasons for the contradictions, and build a good contradiction handling mechanism.

When each other can use scientific solutions to deal with contradictions and solve the problems of the relationship itself, they will have the opportunity to get through the run-in period of the relationship, form a good mode of getting along with each other, and get stable happiness in the relationship.