Confused, how should I choose? Sincerely ask for help from everyone!

In today's society, at least you will have to graduate from a university to make a difference, especially for foreign companies, which is the basic threshold!

Put it in the self-examination after you said, it's really difficult:1Time 2Energy 3After leaving school for a long time, if you forget to learn, it will be more difficult to take the self-exam.

I'm just taking a self-exam right now, and it's hard to be honest! But I can read every day at work, and I have no problem with the first and second points, but the third point is difficult, so I am struggling now! It is highly recommended that you continue your studies and borrow money to continue.

Don't be like me now, I hope you can listen to my brother's advice

Actually, I don't think it's too necessary to borrow money in the middle of the job, if you plan to do business, it's better to step into that field as soon as possible, the things you learn don't use much, and all fields are starting from 0, I support you not to read.

I think you should talk to the boss first, it's the same anyway, and when you practice it well, you can also reduce the burden.

You should find a direction, then make a plan for it, and implement it according to the plan. Or find a hobby and use it to get through this awkward time. In fact, confusion is very common, and most of the time in life is confused.

But don't rest on your laurels and see what's better for your overall development, if it's just because your work isn't going well but you can't change it, then I think you need to relax and then add some fun to your life.

In fact, whether she has money or not, she will be confused for a period of time in life, why is she confused? Because people are emotional animals, they have a lot of ideas, to do one thing, or to think about a person, or to like a person, they will encounter difficulties, and this difficulty cannot be solved, it is a kind of confusion. And how do we unravel this confusion, first, simple things are complicated, and complex things are simplified.

Second, talk to some people, your own friends, talk about your thoughts, how you are going, and your own situation, and listen to their opinions.

I think when you are confused and confused, there must be some unsatisfactory in life, resulting in the frustration of confusion and confusion, so I think first listen to what you like ** (positive), watch movies, go out for a walk to regulate your emotions, and then gradually analyze the current situation, what is your ideal state of life, whether your current career is what you love and can fight for, and then make changes, the best time to plant a tree is ten years ago, followed by now, come on!

Don't do anything, calm down, determine the next goal, stick to your original intention, and go on unswervingly, even if you are wrong, it is meaningful, failure is the mother of success, if you go right, then congratulations!

When life is confused and helpless, you should have a clear mind, and the so-called sobriety is to let yourself calm down and take a break and slowly think about the cause and effect relationship before and after. Only in this way can you change yourself, study hard, get in touch with the outside world quickly, adapt to the outside world, learn from the experience of the accomplished group, and get effective guidance and help. Otherwise, you will stand still and stay on the road of confusion and helplessness forever.

When you are confused, people are bored in life, you should, read, walk, run, don't think nonsense, find a confidant to talk to your heart, why you are troubled, they will enlighten you and help you get out of confusion.

Believe in yourself. When we experience confusion, we must first calm down, start from our own heart, seriously think about what we want to do, organize reasonable plans and goals, and then put them into action. For example, when you graduate, you don't make much money, you are forced to lose your job, and you haven't worked for a year, as time goes by, your money is more and more exhausted, without the support of money, a person is very helpless outside, and looking for a job is not satisfactory, I think most people will be impetuous and frustrated, panicked, overwhelmed, don't know what to do, especially when you live alone in a city, at this time you will feel more and more lost and helpless, Others don't understand you, only to carry everything yourself, at this time, you have to put into action to make your own plan or goal, everything from reality, seek truth from facts, assuming that you are studying finance, you can apply for a training course while looking for a job, or self-study to improve yourself, because you complain all day long about nothing, but affect the mood, waste energy, if you leave time to improve yourself, one day there will be quantitative changes, so that qualitative changes will be achieved, I believe that everything is coming.

Let's say you're a computer and you can study the deeper meaning, and this time is the time when you can see yourself clearly after you stop, so why not work harder? Come on! No matter when you feel lost and helpless, don't be pessimistic, believe in yourself, you are not useless, and you will definitely find your own way if you think seriously.

To tell the landlord the truth, any words of anyone are not as good as the landlord himself!

Let me give you two examples (first, both of these things are facts that happened to me!). ): I was a repeater when I was in junior high school, so I've seen all kinds of students repeating for different reasons!

One of them is my good friend who has played since I was a child, and the other is my junior high school classmate, and the relationship is okay.

The first one, he is purely a case of failure in the high school entrance examination! Xiang self-trusted, he couldn't stand the blow of failure and decided not to go to school to find a job! But who wants to recruit such a small junior high school student?

So the jobs I found were very tiring jobs! After less than half a year, I came back to continue my studies! As a result, due to his hard work, he was first admitted to the provincial key middle school, and then admitted to Shandong University!

After graduating, I went to graduate school at our university, and then stayed on to teach! Now he still says that it is the cruel reality that makes him self-motivated!

The second is that he was unwilling to study since he was a child and was forced to repeat it. However, after half a year, I couldn't stand it and wanted to go out to "start a business". As a result, I looked for a job in Qingdao in the first year, but I didn't find a suitable one!

In the second year, I changed places and went to Shanghai, but the competition pressure there was greater, and I came back after nothing! In the third year, he decided to go to the south, but he was deceived by a pyramid scheme! There has been no news for two years!

In the end, the family spent more than 30,000 yuan to find him! By this time he was as thin as wood! Then the family asked someone to let him go to a technical school, and now that he has graduated, the family spent some money to find him a job that is not too tiring and the income is okay.

Two real examples, what does it mean, I'm afraid that only the landlord himself can achieve the effect, and anyone who points it out has no effect!

I hope the landlord thinks about it himself, you are only more than half a year away from the high school entrance examination!

Simply ending or running away from something is not courage. After the end of the old drag, how to afford the new establishment is complete. This can be extended to all behaviors, including truancy, resignation, and ...... emotional changeIf you just want to be free easily, but you don't have the strength to take responsibility at all, then this freedom will only become a deep and painful torment.

Just wishful thinking and indiscretion. This responsibility includes personnel training and hard work. These are fundamental.

So you can see that some people are complaining all the time and complaining that they can't move an inch. Some people do things quietly and improve day by day.

Society is cruel, you go to you is equivalent to going in vain, no knowledge, you only have one way, to be the boss, but the boss is really so easy to be? It is easy to learn technology with knowledge, and large enterprises rely on knowledge to determine people.

In fact, reading is also a kind of exercise, you may not be bad to step into the society early, it mainly depends on your own self-discipline, not necessarily 10 years later you will be your classmates poor, choose by yourself, but you have to have your own conscience!

To find motivation, reading more books can enrich yourself, in fact, don't think of reading as something bad, you can read it slowly, the main thing is to feel at ease.

Children study, first bitter and then sweet, society is becoming more and more complex, it's not easy to mix, it's not like you can make money by selling labor in the past, then you have to have a college diploma, support learning....

Who said you can't make a profit if you don't study. You're still young, and as long as you're down-to-earth and hardworking, I think you're better than those college students.

Persuade parents to take a year off from school to go to society, and if they succeed after a year, they will make up for their diploma later.

If it doesn't work, go back to school.

In fact, you don't have to be too pessimistic now, although you don't even have three books now, but you have to believe that the college entrance examination will also produce a lot of dark horses, even if you really can't pass the exam, it doesn't mean that your life is a gray, if you want to learn technology, there are now many jobs in the society that will provide the position of apprentice, you can also work while studying to improve yourself. The most important point is that you are afraid that after finishing the junior college, there will be a situation where you want to raise your children and do not treat your relatives, which also shows that you are very filial, but have you ever thought about it, you go out to mix, but you don't have a skill, every month with that little salary, your parents will still worry, and they will also worry about how you don't have a skill in society, how to live in the future, how to support your family. So I still suggest that you finish these 25 days first, prepare for the college entrance examination without distractions, and have a clear conscience after working hard.

First of all, I understand your feelings, but if you go against their wishes, it will increase their psychological burden, and the only thing you have to do is to learn the real skills and find a good job to repay them. It's not easy to mix outside if you don't have the ability. Don't let him down, you guys, you can do it.

There are still 25 days to take the college entrance examination. You don't have to think about anything now, review your homework well, and don't put such a heavy burden on your own mind. Let's talk about it after the exam!