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In fact, this situation is very normal, from one state to another abruptly, it will definitely be very confused, at this time you can go to ask for help, to some colleagues who have already worked to ask for help, let them enlighten themselves. <>
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It can be very confusing to leave the university campus and start working, because you need to enter a new life and social environment, and you can give yourself a period of time to buffer, and then you need to find your purpose so that you don't stay lost. <>
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This is very normal, because suddenly from the university campus into the society, the living environment has changed dramatically, it is normal to find a little bit of direction, so don't be too anxious, as long as you devote yourself to your work, slowly you will find the direction of your life.
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You should adjust your mentality, don't be too anxious, you can set yourself some small goals every day, and stick to completing them, don't waste your time, you must understand what you should do, and you must have a dream.
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You can make some preparations in advance, understand what you want to do in this work, make a list, remind yourself what to do today, so that you don't know what to do, you can go to your seniors to ask for advice, or you can take the initiative to help them do something.
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You should adjust your mentality, just the first day into the work, there will definitely be a variety of discomfort, you must slowly adjust your mentality, to find your own goals, and then let yourself quickly enter the work state.
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It's good to concentrate on doing your job well, although the workplace is really complicated, and sometimes you will be wronged, but it's good to adjust your mentality. Thinking about the salary that I can get in a month, I will be over after a while.
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Start by setting yourself a small goal, if you haven't found a job yet, you can think about what you want to do in the job, and if you have found a job, then you can set yourself a few tasks to complete at work.
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People will definitely be very confused about things that are particularly unknown, like we have not been in contact with society, the first day of work will be very nervous and scared, this is very normal, time will make you slowly adapt.
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This cipher is also understandable, because I haven't experienced it myself after all, but I also have to find a goal, and continue to work hard along this goal, believing that one day I will succeed.
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This situation is normal, and most college students will encounter it.
I did the same two years ago. After experiencing the enthusiasm and novelty of applying for university, I began to feel lost. I don't know what I'm supposed to do.
I had no motivation to learn. I don't want to go to the library to read a book. I don't want to participate in the activities organized by the class and stay in the dormitory all day.
I feel that there is nothing to pursue in life.
When I was a sophomore, I suddenly realized that this state of confusion was wrong. I can't continue to think nonsense any longer. I have to find some purpose, a little bit to pursue, and I can't waste it all the time.
So I started to control myself to go to bed early at night, to get up early, to eat breakfast, and to go to the classroom in advance to preview what I was going to study. A lot of people say that college courses are good. In fact, I think that's the opposite, a university is a place where you have to be strict with yourself.
No one will force you to study. If you don't study all the lessons carefully, you really can't understand. Therefore, you should have a complete study plan for yourself, go to the classroom early to prepare, review in the evening, and try to go to the front row of class to listen carefully to the teacher's explanation.
This way, if you study hard every day, your learning will steadily improve. Life will be full.
In terms of life stage, it is indeed easy to get lost in college, but social life also requires us to improve ourselves in college, get a gold certificate, actively participate in class management, and comprehensively improve our abilities. These are all areas that we need to work on.
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Explain that the major you are admitted to is not enough to give you a sense of direction, and it may not be your ideal major. In fact, this situation is still relatively common among college freshmen, or they only want popular majors and strong majors in the school, or they are directly transferred to a certain major, in fact, it is normal to feel confused and feel disliked.
In fact, what the subject needs to do at this time is to study hard first, but at the same time, you can listen more or chat with some teachers and classmates. With the expansion of the circle, you can actually have an understanding of the general situation of each major, and it will be easier to transfer to the major you are really interested in if you study hard in the early stage.
In fact, the most important thing in choosing a major is fun, many majors are cyclical, and no one can say that this major will not be a popular major when you graduate from your bachelor's or master's degree. For example, the main direction of my undergraduate power machinery is automobile engine, and the car companies at that time did not want to make money, but at present, the world's major car companies have basically given up the research on new models of fuel vehicles, and the real sunset is professional. So, according to the fun to change majors, at least there is a happy guarantee, choose the others may be nothing.
In fact, I have taken a lot of detours in how to choose a major, otherwise I would not have gone back and forth across three or four fields, so here I recommend a book "University Evolution", which provides you with the real experience of all kinds of Zhihu bosses from six aspects, such as psychological cognition, study planning, examination skills, self-improvement, postgraduate entrance examination, and employment guidance, which can effectively help you avoid pits and demines, and avoid detours. I believe that the advice in the book will definitely be of great benefit to your study and life in the next four years, and help you open up a colorful and fulfilling future life at university.
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This situation is normal, and most college students will encounter it, so I started to control myself to go to bed early at night, get up early in the morning, eat breakfast, and go to the classroom in advance to preview and what I am going to study. A lot of people say that the courses in college are very good, but in fact, I think it's the opposite, college is a place where you have to be strict with yourself. No one will force you to study, and if you don't study hard, you really can't understand all the courses.
Therefore, you should have a complete study plan by yourself, go to the classroom early to prepare, review in the evening, and try to go to the front row in class to listen carefully to the teacher's explanation. In this way, as you work hard day by day, your learning will improve steadily. Life will also become full.
So if you're lost. I hope you will change yourself according to my experience and strive to become better, so that your future life will be more exciting.
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When you go to college, you suddenly feel confused and don't want to do anything. What should you do? We should get rid of this bad state of mind as soon as possible, calm down, study hard, actively participate in some community activities, and get rid of this chaotic state of mind as soon as possible.
In fact, what the questioner needs to do at this point is to study hard first, but in the meantime, you can listen more or chat with some teachers and students. As the circle expands, we can actually get an overview of each specialty. If you study hard early on, it will be more convenient to switch to a major that interests you.
In fact, the most important thing about choosing a major is fun. Many majors are cyclical. When you graduate from an undergraduate or master's degree, no one can say that this major is not a popular major.
For example, the main direction of my scientific power machinery is automobile engines. At the time, car companies didn't want to make money. However, at present, the world's major automobile companies have basically abandoned the research on new fuel vehicles and focused on the sunset.
Therefore, according to the pleasure of professionals, happiness has at least one guarantee and may not be otherwise. In fact, I took a lot of detours in how I chose my major. Otherwise, I wouldn't go back and forth between three or four fields.
Therefore, I recommend a book on the evolution of universities. This book provides you with the real experience of every big man from six aspects: psychological cognition, study planning, examination skills, self-improvement, postgraduate entrance examination, and career guidance, which can effectively help you avoid falling into a minefield and taking a detour. I believe that the advice in the book will be of great benefit to you in your study and life in the next four years, and help you create a colorful and successful university life in the future.
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Determine where you want to go in the future, what you want to do after graduation, and whether your current abilities are enough to get a satisfying job. If not, how to improve yourself. School classes may not help you much, so you should think about how you can learn more useful knowledge in class instead of being lost like most people.
Find a set of lessons and force yourself to observe and learn. At the end of the day, you'll always get something. This is normal.
First analyze your current situation to see if there are any inappropriate things to do, then see what you want to do in the next stage, analyze the pros and cons, and then consider whether to go to graduate school or enter the society from university after graduation. It would be much better if you thought about it. When I was in college, I suddenly got confused for a while.
What if you don't want to do anything? This means that you are stressed out too much. It's too much of a burden.
You have to persevere. You have to have faith in yourself. Adjust your thinking and your confusion will be solved.
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"Confusion" is a major problem that plagues many college students. I believe that there are not many students who feel this way, especially for students who have just entered their freshman year.
1.First of all, it's normal to have this sense of confusion, really, because we just entered a strange environment, without the heavy studies of high school, we are very free, and suddenly there is too much time that we need to arrange by ourselves, so report to some departments or associations that you are interested in, make more friends, participate in more group activities, don't nest in the dormitory, play games, chase Korean dramas, brush Weibo, etc.
2.Read more books.
If you feel "lost", most likely your heart is empty, and you only stay on the surface and lack depth when you look at and think about problems. The main reason for this problem is that there is too little reading and a lack of deep thinking. So, if you feel like you're lost, go read more.
You can read some books of general intelligence, in the early stage, you can read a lot of books, and in the process of reading, you must also learn to think. Below, I will recommend a book that is more suitable for college students.
3.Find what you're passionate about.
Why is college confused? To put it bluntly, there is no goal, this is the student's thinking is making trouble, the goal is the college entrance examination in high school, and the head teacher is around to encourage, so there is naturally motivation. As a result, when I arrived at university, I didn't have anyone to guide me, and I didn't know where to work hard, so I was confused.
Therefore, if you want to overcome confusion, you need to have a clear goal, this goal The author recommends choosing what you are interested in and what you love, you must know that interest is the teacher of learning, learning is very boring, but learning what you are interested in will not be so boring, and you can stick to it in the later stage.
Summary: In fact, the main reason for being confused in college is that I don't have a clear understanding of myself, I don't know my future development, and I don't know my goals, so I feel confused.
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Confusion is a normal manifestation, and if you plan your life in your freshman year, you won't feel lost.
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Arrange your study time reasonably, exercise more, go to the playground, walk in the library, and study.
Relax, and your worries will basically happen.
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