How should we face our true selves?

We must learn to accept ourselves and reconcile with our past selves, and our imperfections, see our imperfections, accept our shortcomings, and even accept our jealousy and disgust with some negative emotions, so that we can truly tolerate ourselves. <>

As the saying goes"The authorities are obsessed with bystanders"If we want to truly understand ourselves, we must not only rely on ourselves, but also ask others what they think of ourselves, correctly see our own shortcomings and advantages, and constantly improve ourselves. <>

We should accept that we are true to ourselves, everyone is not a saint, they have their own strengths and weaknesses, we should carry forward the strengths, and we should tolerate the shortcomings, so that we can become more confident.

You are unique, it is a different fireworks, first of all, you must correctly understand yourself, give yourself a standard positioning, you have any bad shortcomings to constantly correct, you should not avoid making excuses for yourself, if you want to meet a better self, you must continue to reflect.

In the face of our true selves, we must have the courage to face those challenges and setbacks in life, not to be hit by a huge blow because of simple things, we must dare to be the warriors in our lives.

Reflect on your past self, let go of some regrets and unforgettable things you have done, and slowly strengthen your knowledge reserves, slowly accept yourself, and first of all, you must be a person who likes yourself.

We should constantly dissect ourselves, know the characteristics of no human being, and know the nature of human beings. At the same time, you must also know where your strengths are, so that you can face up to your shortcomings and look directly at your true self.

1 This is your journey, not your experience, 2Choose the work you like and be willing to put in, and bear the price that this choice should accept, 3There is no balance, only choice, 5 follow the choice of the heart, do not go against the heart.

If we want to grow and transform, we have to be our true self! Don't tell a white lie. Sincerity in the past, faith in people, and knowledge in things. Reading aloud in the morning to answer Ouyang Chong's book, it turns out that a white lie is also a lie. But all lies, good and evil, pollute our hearts!

It's a hard thing for me to do about how to face my true self. In the past, I had never lived, as the counselor said, and I had been living in fantasies. I can't face my bad self, and I can't tolerate others.

If a person lives in the real world, all illusions will be shattered, but in this way, he can better face death and make his life richer, this is what I heard yesterday.

Only those who have truly lived dare to face death, and how uncomfortable it is to truly live in reality. You will see the bad self, the bad of others, that is a kind of sobriety, a kind of shedding the true face of "beauty".

What a blow this will take for me, who always demands a perfect image of myself. I don't want to face the stupid things I've done, I don't want to face my aggressive side, and I'm afraid to show it in front of people.

I agreed that my dad was like a "good old man" to please others, why was it so difficult for me.

Well, I'll try it and see if I can be a little more realistic, even if it's dangerous.

The energy of life is consumed in these black holes. ”

In fact, liars are very tired, and on the road to healing, only by having the courage to face the true feeling can the door to healing be opened.

So find a safe environment and face yourself, each of us is not flawless, and the state scum needs a tree hole to put their secrets.

Put those secrets that can't be said in the "tree hole", and you will be relieved of the burden of gold in your heart.

So why face your true self?

Teacher Ma Ranran's words are a very powerful answer:

It hurts to face your own truth and say it and write it yes, but isn't it painful not to face the numbness and dull pain caused by it? Isn't it painful to live a life of trembling and suffocating grievances?

If you don't even go to see that self, who else can replace you and love him back? Loving yourself, after all, is your only mission in this life.

And, dare I say, after passing through that pain, you will find the true confidence of life. ”

So, my dear, face yourself again, go through those inner stuck points, and from now on you are still you, but you are no longer the same you used to be.

1.We need to accept ourselves unconditionally and recognize the value of our existence. A philosopher once said, "To exist is to be reasonable," and the same is true for people.

Both advantages and disadvantages are part of our existence, and they all have the value of their own existence. True self-confidence comes from the unconditional love of the self in the heart, and only in this way can it be regarded as true self-acceptance.

2.We need to rebuild our relationship with ourselves. As a social person, we attach great importance to our relationships with those around us from birth, and we "habitually" "please" others, building a sense of security in our relationships with others, and at the same time forming a sense of dependence.

This sense of dependence makes us lose our independence and become "who we think we are", and thus we are far away from our true selves. But as we grow older, we are fully capable of no longer relying on others, we can be our own "parents", "friends", etc., to take over these roles that originally affected us, to support "ourselves" to be our true selves. A person who knows how to respect himself can gain the respect of others and truly know how to respect others.

3.More often than not, we need to give ourselves a chance. In life, we sometimes deny ourselves because of a failed experience or a worry about "I can't do it", which not only weakens our own existential value, but also makes us more and more disgusted with our true selves.

To change this, we just need to give ourselves one more chance. Give yourself a chance and do it seriously, and you will find that "I can too". Don't underestimate this simple phrase, it has an important and extraordinary significance for building self-confidence and rediscovering yourself and those around you.

The maple leaves at the door are red, the autumn leaves are scattered, and Zheng Wei is coming in autumn, will winter be far away?

There are less than three months left until the end of the year. Time flies inexplicably, the days pass in a daze, and 2020 is coming to an end if you are not careful.

It's not been a good year, and when you think about it, you don't seem to have done anything special, and every day is like copy-pasting the day before.

A year is not 365 days, but the same day is repeated 365 times".

I don't like to live the same life, so I like to toss when I'm younger. I wanted to be stable when I was running around for life, but now my life is dull, as if I am trapped in place again and lost my way.

In the past, I always thought that when I achieved a certain goal, it was like living a happy life in a fairy tale, but the reality is not like this, and there are still all kinds of troubles that are cut and tied.

I envy people who have dreams, passions, and work hard to chase them, because I don't know what I want.

People tend to think that it is the external world that determines their inner feelings, and that people's feelings are feelings that arise after experiencing certain things outside.

So when you encounter something wrong, your first reaction is to change your external environment, work is not going well, change companies, your relationship is not going well, you change your partner, you are bored here, and you can change the next location.

After that, it will create an illusion, where you go is not smooth, people find the wrong root from the beginning, what makes you unhappy is never the external factor, but your internal unhappiness, you take this unpleasant feeling, no matter how you go, you will only feel uncomfortable.

The root of the problem lies in oneself.

It is not the external environment that determines your inner world, but your inner world that determines your outer experience.

The real change is not to change the job or the object, but to change the way you think.

Deal with the relationship between yourself and yourself, yourself and others, and yourself and the world from different perspectives.

All the "life issues" or "karma" are hidden in these three relationships.

And the relationship between "yourself and yourself" is the core part, and others and the world are just your mirrors.

Reflecting every aspect of you from every angle, the mirror just presents every side of you as it is, whether you like it or not, it has nothing to do with the mirror. The presence of mirrors is to help you know your true self.

Don't you like yourself. Are you going to smash the mirror? Change the mirror? Save effort, be brave to face your true self, and learn to be responsible for yourself.

There are people who go through ups and downs but always stay in place.

There are people who stay at home but are always on the road.

The so-called heroism.

It may not be the years of overcoming thorns and thorns.

It may also be a simple life to choose what you love and live your whole life.

In life, we will have such and such troubles, inextricable interests, countless entanglements, and all kinds of desires that we can't give up.

We always say that people scatter when they walk, and the tea fades when they drink it, knowing that there is a banquet in the world, but they can't accept the loneliness of people walking and drinking tea. Along the way, we have lost a lot, but we have also experienced a lot, in our quiet inner world, there are no distractions, and what a happy thing it is to concentrate on doing what we like.

Many people, when educating their children, will always be persuaded to be how they must be, this is to let you take less detours, less hardship, this is my experience, as everyone knows, life only experience, only to know how to make their own choices, their own experience will let him understand the most true self.

In order to live, many people hide their truest side, and in order to adapt to this society, they let themselves become sleek and sophisticated, forgetting their true selves.

When you're upset, go outside to get some fresh air, take in the colorful scenery outside, and tear open your mask, and you'll open up and find your true self.

Personally, I think facing the real self is a particularly cool thing, because facing the real self is a kind of courage to face yourself, and it is also an attitude that has always dared to face your good side and bad side, after all, sometimes people dare not face themselves truthfully, because they will be afraid, they will be afraid that they will let themselves down.

1. "Facing yourself truthfully" in my eyes

In fact, we can find a phenomenon, most of us sometimes know our weaknesses, strengths, and personality and temperament, and also know how we behave and how we work, but sometimes we are unwilling, or dare not face the real self, because we are afraid that once the real face, there will be some gap in our hearts, everyone has a certain personal attributes, sometimes standing in our personal position and perspective to the problem, may always have our own attitude, But if you really have the same self and see what you do and behave, you will have a slightly different opinion.

2. It's a very cool thing to be honest with yourself.

I dare to face my true self, I think this is also a kind of fearless performance, because some people still like self-deception, I don't like self-deception, I like to be honest with myself to face myself, so that I am more aware of my inner world, the thoughts in my mind, the opinions and views on people and things, this is a very soothing thing thing for me, I think this kind of operation is conducive to me to change myself, because the real face of myself will see a lot of shortcomings in myself, the insufficient side, You can also get rid of these bad problems from the heart.

3. While facing myself truthfully, I will also talk to myself.

It is a very good thing to talk to yourself, when you are happy, you should be happy, when you are uncomfortable, you will tell yourself to cry in pain, I will reconcile with myself and myself, be a person who is open in my heart, does not mess up, and still yearns for a better life, the above is my true feelings and views on facing myself.

I really feel that I am very unmotivated, very content with the status quo, in Mandarin is a very big heart, think less, and always make my life easier.

I hate being who I am. Because I'm not happy with my life, I always have negative emotions, and I don't like myself.

In the face of my true self, I want to say why I didn't work hard enough at the beginning, if I tried a little harder, it might be better than my current life, and I had to change my temper.

When we were children, we imagined our future selves countless times, imagining a glorious future. However, when we look back, do we feel that we have let down our childhood selves?

In the journey of life, we continue to grow and gradually form ourselves at different stages. In this process, we should learn to respect our past selves and not need to look at the present with past thinking. You also need to learn to respect who you are now and appreciate every stage of your growth.

In those years, we had dreams, curiosity and enthusiasm. As children, we often fantasize about what the future will look like and aspire to achieve something. However, as the years go by, we gradually realize the heaviness of reality, and we also leave joys, sorrows and sorrows on the road of growth.

Standing at the crossroads of life, we should understand that each stage of our self has its own unique values and experiences. We must learn to cherish these experiences and face our past, present and future selves with a heart of tolerance and respect. Only in this way can we know ourselves better.

Let's move forward bravely with our childhood selves and pursue our dreams with determination. We have to tell ourselves: despite all the twists and turns in life, we never give up and we keep trying.

We would like to thank our childhood selves for giving us the courage and strength to go further and further on the road ahead.

Life will not be smooth sailing, but we must learn to learn from setbacks and continue to grow. Let's embrace our past selves and our present selves, and let each other work together to face the challenges of the future. When we learn to respect and appreciate our own growth, we can truly feel the beauty of life.

Looking back, we will find that the former dreamer still shines in our hearts. We should cherish the original intention in our hearts and let it become the driving force for us to move forward.

Looking forward to the future, we must have firm faith and perseverance to move forward bravely. Let us use our childhood dreams to illuminate the road to the future, and down-to-earth to realize those visions that once made our hearts surge. In this way, together with our childhood selves, we will become a better and more complete version of ourselves.

Conclusion: Let's respect our past selves, live in the present, and look forward to a better future. Face every stage we go through with a heart of gratitude, respect, and tolerance. Be brave enough to pursue your dreams and never stop.