Why do people always ignore the happiness around them?

People are always like this, they don't know how to cherish when they have it, and they don't want to cherish it until they lose it, but it's too late. Cherish what you have now.

What is happiness? In fact, there is no absolute answer to happiness, the key lies in your attitude towards life. Only those who are good at grasping happiness know what happiness is.

I always thought that it was very difficult to feel happiness, and that was a state of light. After the passage of time, I realized that happiness is actually very simple, as long as the soul is satisfied and comforted, it is happiness. A healthy life is a great happiness!

What is happiness? It's actually quite simple. A cup of fresh water and a cup of tea can taste the taste of happiness; A flower, a green leaf, can often bring a breath of happiness; A humble room, a book, you can enjoy the scenery of happiness.

Happiness is not only in material abundance, happiness is also in the pursuit of spirit and spiritual enrichment, happiness is a feeling, a consciousness, is the comfort of the soft breeze, is the fragrance of roses blooming, is the serenade from the lake from afar. To experience happiness, we must have a pure heart, we must know how to appreciate nature, we must be willing to be indifferent, we must have the grace of not being frightened, and we must have the bearing of not being shocked, and we will always bring fame and flowers to famous people, but material happiness is often valued by others, more than spiritual happiness. In this world, some people drink Moutai and are excellent, but some people drink boiled water and are happy.

Poor couples are often able to get along with each other, but couples from rich and noble families often complain about their spouses. Happiness is often inseparable from good health and good mood, and happiness is often inseparable from the necessary material life guarantees, but limited to material happiness is never happiness in the real sense. Happiness is the song of the exile, and only a bosom friend can understand the meaning.

Happiness is the fulfillment of the spirit, the tranquility of the soul, the openness of the soul, and secondly, the comfort of the material life

It is easy to see the happiness of others; It's that you don't understand the efforts and pursuits that others put into this so-called happiness, and you just watch others live happily in silence. But they forget that they are already living in happiness, but they just don't know how to enjoy and cherish it.

There are some things or some things, when people don't know how to cherish it when they have it, once they lose it, they feel the value of its existence and use, and they regret it irretrievably. People are like this, what you can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving them. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it.

At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

Happiness is a feeling, it does not depend on people's living conditions, but on people's state of mind, the characteristic of happiness is the peace of mind, the so-called contented people are always happy.

Happiness is the feeling that people's desires feel when they are satisfied or partially satisfied, and it is a spiritual pleasure. The happiness that people get is temporary, just like misfortune, and with the passage of time, the sense of happiness and unhappiness will gradually fade, so if we want to continue to have happiness and live a happy life, we must continue to satisfy more desires. After people get a happiness, then people's desire for the same or the same type of happiness will decrease, when people get this or this kind of happiness again, the happiness will gradually decrease, and when they reach enough n times, the desire will become zero, and the happiness will become zero.

When you fulfill a wish, achieve a goal, love someone, be loved, be in a momentary mood, be happy, and so on, all belong to happiness. Happiness has no distance, no standard, happiness.

After lunch, on his way back to the office, Gess met a blind street beggar, who, instead of pretending to be pitiful like the other beggars, won the sympathy of others, but stood upright and sang loudly.

Geith stopped and put some change in his hand. The blind man said in a hoarse voice, "Thank you! I wish you good health. Then he continued to sing.

Gess thought to himself, "What reason does he have to sing, I am more qualified than him to sing, but I don't." What is the reason for this? ”

Gaisce listened attentively to the blind man's singing, his rough singing voice clearly out of step with the noise of the commercial district.

Geith saw some passers-by passing by the blind man with curiosity "admiring" his "beautiful" singing voice; Some people felt very uncomfortable and bowed their heads and took a detour. Fortunately, he was blind and could not see the expressions of others.

After a while, Geth walked up to him again and asked, "Have you had lunch?" He stopped singing, turned his face to the direction in which Gess was speaking, and said, "Not yet." ”

So, Gaisce bought him a lunch. The blind man introduces himself to Gaisce while eating. He is 26 years old, single, and lives with his older brother, younger brother, and parents.

Geith silently looked at the blind man's happy expression and thought: Although we are the same age, the environment in which we live is very different!I had a delicious meal and he might be hungry;I'm wearing a name brand, and his shoes have a big hole;I have a gentle and virtuous wife, and he doesn't.

He was a very poor wanderer, but he sang happily.

Seeing the blind man's expression of satisfaction, Gaiss suddenly realized that he was singing because he was satisfied.

In the heart of the beggar who lost his eyes, there was always a candle called contentment, which provided light for him to compose a happy song of life.

Geith secretly thought: In fact, he is happier than him, why can't he find his own song of happy life?Doesn't it exist?

No, it's because I haven't found the beauty of life. Thinking of this: he suddenly became enlightened, and the depression that had been suppressed by work and life for a long time disappeared without a trace, and was replaced by happiness, and he decided to sing the song of happy life that existed in everyone's mind.

Modern society is like a rough sea, dominating everyone's ups and downs. People cling to the layers of waves, facing the turbulent sea is already difficult to find peace and calm, and it is difficult to realize the spectacular scene around them, at this time people are blocked by the pressure of survival, and have no time to sing the song of happiness.

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Life is full of happy songs, even if it's just a cup of iced tea, a bowl of hot soup, or a beautiful sunset, it can bring you a feeling of happiness. As long as you know how to appreciate, you can naturally taste the taste of happiness from the bits and pieces of life.