I have a relationship disorder, I can t fall in love like a normal person.

If you have a disorder, you shouldn't be with him in the first place just to be like a normal woman. You should first learn how to get along with the opposite sex, for the emotional wound is to take time to heal, don't rush to take your time, if you don't know how to know the opposite sex, you can go on a blind date.

You can't say that you should stay away from feelings or anything, you must face it positively and give yourself a new start with confidence! The most important thing is to remember to be happy, happiness changes everything!

In a word, you still can't get out of the original pain!! Your own heart knot has not been opened, how can you accept others. It is recommended to consult a psychiatrist!!

Relax your mind. To know. Not all men are the same, and I have time to read more books on psychology.

Don't be like this, it's normal, look at the point.

I used to be depressed, and now I'm okay, and it's really thanks to the dialectical wisdom of psychological counseling.

Depression? I will too, but I am forced by the current life and no money, I don't know what you are for? /

What is it always for? Just like there is no love for no reason in the world, and there is no hate for no reason, you must have a certain reason, please think about it yourself.

1: What am I doing now? You must ask yourself this question, and you must ask it clearly!

2: Why am I like this? This may be a difficult question, but please think about it and try to think, why am I doing this? Is it because I'm missing something?

3: Have I made any efforts to get out of this situation, and what should I do? Even if you make a little effort to do it, think about it.

If you want to get better, take care of the above questions, and I think you'll definitely get the answer!

Good luck.

People are terrible now, and one day humanity will destroy the planet

High levels of anxiety, high levels of avoidance, gains and losses when entering a relationship, or very enthusiastic and proactive. Once a relationship is stable or an unexpected event triggers a security alarm, they will retreat and run away, pretending not to care, and hiding their inner loss or anger. Feeling unworthy of love, longing to be loved, and expecting high from each other.

I am very serious about my work and other external aspects, and I want to be recognized by others, especially those who are close to each other through external expression, so that others will love me.

When you get along with your lover, you often feel conflicted, knowing that some things are not good for your intimacy, but you often do it. Deep down, I don't want to be close to others. When your partner is around, you may get bored and not be gentle with your partner.

However, when the lover leaves, because of the fear in his heart, he wants to catch him. Fear of abandonment is the main reason for escaping TA.

Sometimes I doubt myself and worry that I am not good enough. Anxiety and restlessness rarely manifest themselves directly, and they often try to discover how much they love themselves by rejecting each other. Once you find out that your relationship is threatened, you pretend that you never need to be attached, bury your feelings, suppress them, and sometimes even feel them.

Sensitive, you can only praise them, once you say hurtful things intentionally or unintentionally or don't pay attention to good words, the defense mechanism will be triggered, and they will run away, which makes it more difficult to communicate and solve emotional problems. It is equivalent to the shame in the attached personality theory book, which makes them weak and dare not face each other. The greater the guilt, the more visible the shame becomes, which makes them especially easy to avoid.

At this time, the fearful type may not give support, but will be sensitive to defense, or feel that it does not match their high expectations, or even feel that the other person is not loved, so they should abandon it, and then avoid their own world, so that their partner will suffer the emotional pain of not being loved.

With more safe friends, it's easier for us to feel safe and trustworthy around safe people, which can greatly reduce anxiety, learn how they approach relationships, adjust their mindset, and avoid avoidance. Study psychology knowledge and books on your own, try your own skills, or seek help and guidance from a psychologist. I hope that everyone who is attached to fear can find their other half and use love to ** themselves.

You should be patient, and you should not lose your temper, and you should try to enlighten the other person, and you should not attack the other person's weaknesses, and also give the other person enough security, so that you can fall in love with someone with a psychological disorder.

I think we must actively guide each other, and we should also resolve each other's psychological barriers, and we should also communicate with each other more, and we should also tolerate each other with love, so that each other can feel love.

At this time, you must learn to tolerate each other, and you must try to solve the problems in each other's hearts, and you must go into each other's hearts, and then you must care and take care of each other, and never quarrel because of this matter.

Encourage each other. Encourage the other party to be honest with their emotional needs, and encourage the other party to open their hearts and accept themselves.

You should try to get into his heart, learn to empathize, think about what is going on in his heart.