How to live happily and forget all the unpleasant

Updated on psychology 2024-05-07
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

    He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think from the moment you open your eyes every day, you have to say to yourself that today is a good day, no matter what happened yesterday, after all, yesterday is the past, it can't be changed, don't let yesterday's troubles affect today's good mood, everything starts now! When you are working, no matter how busy the task is and how stressful it is, don't complain about your work, like your work, don't start the day with resentment, and you will have a sense of accomplishment to complete your work step by step! Don't compare with others, so that you will live very easily, people's biggest enemy is yourself, I think you should have heard this sentence, so, it is not interesting to compare with others, only compare with yourself, you can always have a goal, don't measure yourself by other people's standards!

    When you encounter unfair comments from others, let others talk about them as long as they don't hurt your personal dignity. After all, no one is perfect, no one is perfect, and no gold is enough! What others say is serious to you, and what you say is wrong You just sing as him, don't take it to heart, there are so many boring people in this world, if you all worry about them, how can you have a good mood!

    The most important thing is that no matter how busy you are at work, you should take some time out of the day to do what you like to do, such as: listening to songs, doing sports, etc. Good mood every day!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Face him squarely, don't choose to escape and forget, in fact, there is no unhappy thing in the world, the thing that makes you happy, and the thing that makes you feel unhappy, are the stages that everyone must go through, so that you can have a complete life, and a person will grow up after experiencing these things, don't pay too much attention to this matter, remember carefully, look at him from a point of view, when you leak a smile, everything disappears.

    Hope you can be happy every day.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The more you want to forget, the more you will remember, and the past is a scar that has not healed, and the more you pull it, the more painful it becomes.

    When you encounter an unhappy event, don't think about forgetting it, only the quicksand of time can heal your scars. As long as you don't want to forget it, you can forget it soon, during which you can do something you like, exercise can be fun, it is recommended to do more when you have time. Eat some of your favorite foods.

    The best way to do this is to find someone you can trust to confide in your displeasure and say all your unhappiness out loud.

    No one is happy forever, and how happy people are also have their own sorrows. But the important thing is to learn to be strong after the pain, only you can save yourself, you are your own god, you must control your own happiness, and you must learn to live better.

    Face him squarely, don't choose to escape and forget, in fact, there is no unhappy thing in the world, the thing that makes you happy, and the thing that makes you feel unhappy, are the stages that everyone must go through, so that you can have a complete life, and a person will grow up after experiencing these things, don't pay too much attention to this matter, remember carefully, look at him from a point of view, when you leak a smile, everything disappears.

    Hope you can be happy every day.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Doesn't this feel easier said than done?

    Everyone is unhappy.

    But. It's your attitude towards him that matters.

    I think human life is full of happiness and unhappiness.

    Since it's too much to be unhappy.

    That means there is less happiness.

    Wanting to forget about your unhappiness.

    Try to record every moment of happiness.

    Start by your side.

    A little bit of life.

    With parents and classmates.

    Playing with friends.

    Talk and so on. Don't you believe that there is no joy?

    Right, no. Happiness is everywhere.

    Remember to be happy. I also forgot about the unhappiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The key to being happy or unhappy lies in our attitude, the same thing happens to two different people, there will be different results, in fact, each of us has it.

    A tolerant heart, as long as we treat all people and things with this tolerant heart, we will be very happy every day.

    Light is also a good way to live.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Every day of life is a little fuller, don't let yourself be idle, don't have empty time, after a long time, unhappy things will naturally be relieved, and naturally a lot of happiness will be returned. Happy to you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    We must not forget the unhappy things, but we must be kind to ourselves. Let those who have hurt you know that you are strong, and let those who love you know that you will be fine.

    A lot of things will slowly not care so much, unhappy things, should be buried in the soil of optimism, I know you will be fine! There is such a story:

    Gibbon asks: How can we forget unhappy things?

    My sister said, "Do more happy things!"

    Chestnut said: You can forget it, move it to a place in your heart, and then let time grind it down.

    Autumn said: Don't look at it so pessimistically, you can look at the bright side, unhappy things can always make you remember better, or become smarter and stronger.

    Donald Duck said, "Do more happy things!" However, if it's really unhappy, I'm afraid I'm not in the mood to do anything else! I don't know how to forget.

    Experts say: If you want to regulate your mood, you might as well go for a walk, relax, maybe it's good.

    Lily Zhang said: Eat, sleep, play, I don't remember.

    Jimmy said: The most painful place should be bandaged in the most beautiful way.

    Time makes people forget, and it is also the best antidote to the misery of the world.

    Many of the world's questions will never be answered ......

    I hope you can be happy every day!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Thinking more about happy things is the best way for you to forget about unhappy things. The time of people's life is fixed, and when there is more time to be happy, there is naturally less time to be unhappy. Finally, I wish you happiness and all the best every day!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's human nature to forget. Many things will be forgotten by us over time, and many people will be left out in the vicissitudes of change. Open the door of memory, I hope that what we forget is the unhappy things or people, and what we remember is the good and good of others, so that our lives may be better.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Take time to cleanse the past, and if you can't forget it, make it an experience in your life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I just remember and just want to be happy

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Think more about the happy things and think more about the good aspects of things.

    Listen, sing, exercise, dance.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't deliberately forget the unpleasant, as time goes by, they will naturally fade away, on the contrary, the more you want to forget them, the more you will add energy to the memory molecule carrier of the relevant unpleasant information, so that these unpleasant past events will be more active and disturbing.

    Besides, unpleasant memories are not completely without benefits, they can increase a person's psychological immunity. Just as every time you have a cold, you can increase the antibodies in your body.

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