I m giving up everything for my future wife, right?

The key question is does she love you? If you really love someone, you will think about the other person You gave up your parents for a woman who betrayed you Have you ever thought about how your parents feel? Raising you so hard to abandon your parents for a woman?

Besides, you and your family have turned their faces, and she is going to break up if she doesn't get along with you? Only parents in this world are selfless to their children, and I advise you not to leave your parents for this kind of woman

You will never be able to do without family affection, and your love will become family affection as time grows! Love is mutual, as a husband and wife are also to understand each other and support each other, now has not become a husband and wife just like this, your life will be more sad in the future, their family is so important whether it is upside down, and when you go to her house, maybe what will happen, now they are all equal, there is nothing inverted and the door is inserted, they are all to be filial to each other twice parents, she is a little too selfish, I think you have to think about your relationship, after all, the future days are not 3 years but decades, Can your love now be maintained until that time? No matter what you decide, your parents love you, even if they are angry for a while, they will never let go of you in their hearts, no matter what others say, things are up to you to measure and decide, I hope you can have a good future, bless you!

First of all, do you want to know that she really loves you? Betrayed you, can you guarantee that something like this won't happen again in the future? Are you sure you'll be happy and happy for her at all costs?

As long as you feel that these are not a problem, then you choose to continue your choice, don't give up, if it's not worth it after thinking, persuade you to give up, three years of relationship is not long or short, it is impossible for you to forget now, but everything is time to kill, there is no can't let go, there is no can't get over, if she really loves you, why can't she choose a choice that is acceptable to both parties for your sake, must make you embarrassed? Let's think about your love.

Since you have chosen, you must be loyal to this relationship and let the happiness of the future soothe the hearts of your family.

Give up your own business for the sake of your family.

I believe that many women, after getting married, will encounter a problem, marriage and career are difficult to achieve, and sometimes they really have to give up.

Career is very important, and money is the most reliable in your own hands".

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and in different families, there will be different problems. In most families nowadays, whoever makes money will have more confidence.

If you don't make money to take care of your children at home, new conflicts will still arise. And the family's economic situation will also drop a lot. Whether it's a man or a woman, money is what makes you more grounded.

Women are not financially independent and have no say in the family. Don't pin your hopes on a man, it's better to rely on yourself than on heaven and earth, no matter how much he loves you, you must work hard to make money.

A woman's career and deeds are also her capital in her relationship.

Family and work should be taken care of".

In fact, women are required to be both financially independent and take care of their families. Encourage mother-state breastfeeding, and advocate for a second child. It's really hard for a woman to keep her figure and look like at the same time. But who is not difficult in life?

Neither men nor women should give up on their careers. The best way to do this is to balance family and career together. Of course, men also have to take care of the family together.

Family responsibilities are not just the responsibility of the women, but also the men. When two people take care of the responsibilities of the family, the family will be more happy.

No, not for a moment, because I think that whether Liangcha starts from love or responsibility, the answer to this question should be like this.

The first is about love. In fact, if two people get married because of love, no matter how long time passes, there is no vigor in time, but that kind of feeling has always existed.

For example, I once heard a friend of mine talk about her parents, saying that although her parents are in their 50s, every time there is a holiday like Valentine's Day, my father will still carefully prepare a gift for his mother to create a surprise for my mother

If you think about it, in fact, such examples are not uncommon around you. It's like the old man will stand in front of the crane machine to catch the doll for his lover, and the cleaner old man will also prepare a bouquet of roses for his lover in the early morning.

Therefore, true love has nothing to do with the time spent together. No matter how long two people have been together, the person who loves you will always care about your mood, will hold you in the palm of their hand, and regard you as a treasure.

Therefore, I have never regretted marrying my current wife, and even think that it is rare for us to know each other.

And then there's about responsibility. I think that after two people get married, as a boy, they should cherish the girl and take on the responsibility of being the head of the family, instead of regretting marrying their wife because of a trivial matter.

If everybody thinks like that, then I don't think it's going to be able to get by. What's more, many times we feel that regret is only a matter of a short period of time, and after that time, there may not be any of these problems. So, be sure not to be impulsive.

The era of husband and child education at home no longer exists, equality between men and women is the same for everyone, giving up a career is absolutely unacceptable, people will change with the economic conditions, and changes in the surrounding environment, whether a woman is a family, or a child to give up their career, I think it is an excuse, in today's era, one hand children, one hand of the world is not a small number of women, in the era of a mobile phone can be successful in entrepreneurship, I think women should let their lives worthwhile.

<> from a man's point of view, if your husband's job is a civil servant or a regular employer, and you are not willing to sacrifice your time to take care of the children, I don't think it is realistic for him to quit his official job to take care of the children. If you don't have a job or your job is not a formal job, as a mother of a child, I think you should choose to take care of your child at home, after all, the healthy growth of the child is what husband and wife hope for.

Really enjoy life. But during the epidemic, I experienced this feeling and changed my previous perception. It doesn't matter if you feel comfortable at the beginning of returning to home, you don't have to worry about going to work, having less career, or the other way around.

In addition, if you have the conditions in the family, you should seek external assistance, such as your mother, an excellent man, and there will be many excellent women in his life.

Only if his wife is as good or even better than others, his eyes will be firmly grasped by his wife. A woman who is not in step with her husband so it depends on whether your other half can understand you, and if he understands you, he will know that in fact, you are not willing to take care of the children at home full-time, all for him, for the sake of the children, you have sacrificed a lot, this is marrying the right person, a good man will feel sorry for you! Not just gave up work, but gave up the opportunity to keep up with the times.

Moreover, in today's society, work is diverse, and it is not necessary to work from 9 to 5, and you can choose your time freely.

I think you should share your wife's worries more in the family, and don't trouble her, whether it is good to buy her a small gift and take her out to travel and relax.