My boyfriend cried for me because my family was against it and we had a hard time

Through what you say, I believe that your love is innocent and sincere.

I've had the same encounters, and I've also encountered worldly obstacles.

But I am not sad and not discouraged. Instead, I think I'm lucky.

You should also feel lucky. You have met each other in this life.

What can be done now is to change the status quo with a positive mindset and methods.

Touch your parents with sincerity, talk to them deeply, and make them feel that you are only happy with him.

I don't think there are any parents in the world who can bear to let their children be lost and frustrated.

If you really like it, you must stick to it, what a happy thing it is to be able to help the person you love until you are always He also cares about you, you will be happy, don't give up, come on, come on.

Cherish it!! It's so hard!! My girlfriend's house is also against it!! It's so hard for us ...

You are determined to be together, so let's be honest, when you meet a strong girl like you, you will use raw rice to cook cooked rice to persecute your parents, and your parents are really pitiful. With all due respect: first, marriage without parental consent is congenitally insufficient, marriage is a very complicated thing, love is a matter of two people, as long as both parties are like glue; And marriage is a matter of two families, involving a wide range of aspects, not just the two of you have a good relationship.

Your parents' position is entirely for your sake, considering that you will suffer less in the future. There was nothing wrong with their intentions. If you want to get their consent, you have to prescribe the right medicine, so that they at least feel that you can be happy with your boyfriend, even if this man is not very capable, but at least he has a reliable character and will not bully you, it would be better if they felt that your boyfriend was a person with potential.

And what you're doing now is really a bit of a threat to your parents. I feel that it is not desirable.

If you are together like this, you and he will feel that you have paid a heavy price for each other, so it will be more difficult for you to be peaceful in your mind when facing post-marital conflicts. Moreover, in addition to emotion, marriage also has a material foundation, and sometimes the material foundation cannot be made up by feelings. At that time, you are materially lacking and emotionally regretful, and you have become someone else's daughter-in-law, at the behest of your in-laws, ......How do you deal with yourself?!

Think about it.

Why did your parents disagree? If you really reach the right age, it's better to get married. Because the child is a small life, you can't give up on him easily, right?

Let's go to the parents to communicate first. The two of you should communicate openly and honestly, and tell your thoughts truthfully. Put your parents in your shoes.

Because, it's not easy to find someone you like to be together. It doesn't make sense, it's not like you're breaking you up.

I understand your feelings and want to communicate with me. Hope I can help you.

Why is there always such a thing, what era is it? If the landlord is a smart person, I feel that your boyfriend's character is okay and I believe in your love, then be strong and brave After all, who to marry and whether to have children or not is your business You are such a big person now, who are you with and your parents want you to choose for you? Do you have to decide whether to have a child or not?

Breaking up the two of you and beating the kids They don't have that right at all, and I think the key is that the landlord knows your boyfriend and that you two genuinely love each other, and that's more important than anything else

All external factors are not a problem! As long as you two are firm, no matter how big things are, it won't matter! I think you should tell your parents about your pregnancy and tell them what you mean!

I think these things are reasonable things, and you haven't done anything wrong! Just put it all on the table! Don't run away.

And don't lie to your parents, after all, they make the world the most loving person for you.

After all, my parents are from the past, and they value material things, which is very right, if your boyfriend broke up 3 years ago and is the same as now, a man has not had any ups and downs for 3 years, you will suffer with her for the rest of your life.

Everything else is easy to say, but the most annoying thing is that you are actually pregnant. It's better not to make your parents angry anymore, they sometimes have a poor tolerance. Be a good boy!! You'll understand later.

You should say marriage directly, so that the 2 elders can rest assured, you say engagement, they may catch you and go to the hospital to ask you to do **.

Just wait for the child to be born.

My husband and I are like the same, but I insist that I have a child, and they like it very much, hugging their grandchildren every day.

1.If the two of you are ready to get married, go home with him and talk to his parents.

2.It's a matter of the money, it's better to return the money to others and bring some good things to honor the elderly.

3.As for the issue of face, don't think about it too much, after all, it is related to the happiness of the back half of your body, so you should bear with it.

I like him, and I still have to face it.

Whether you confiscate his money, it's all in the past.

If you are still with him first, you should muster up the courage to face it bravely.

The two of you have to face this matter together, I guess you must be worried now, you must have received the breakup fee in the first place. So there is no confidence. My suggestion is that when you go to their house, you take out the breakup fee you gave at the beginning and give it to them, so that you will be more confident.

Then you have to prove to your future husband that you are determined to be together, and his parents will not ignore the happiness of their son.

"After all, you decided to follow him" You also said this sentence, then you have to face the reality, I'm afraid to go, there must be a solution to things.

Breakup fee: Money Big deal, calculate bank interest to repay the money to his family Fortunately, you don't think your boyfriend will look down on you, this is important When you see it, I think you will worry that your boyfriend will look down on you.

About age: You Ben three Then he is also twenty-six years old You are not small, he is not small to change your attitude, try it:

Maybe it's just that there's something wrong with your attitude, your attitude towards your relationship, if you think in your heart that it's normal for you to be in a relationship with him, and it's normal to be three years old, then you won't have so much melancholy, and you will lose the 'feeling' of 'sibling love'.

I'm two years older than my boyfriend, his family conditions are not as good as mine, and finally broke up under the opposition of my parents, but we are too reluctant to contact each other secretly, and now my parents know that we are still together, so my parents forced me, and finally I decided to break up, but now I regret it, if I insist, maybe we will be together, so don't think so much, since we have come to this point, we will face it bravely, no matter what the result is, at least I will not regret it in the future!

Not daring to go home is not an option, it can only make things worse and make his mother even more against you. You can comfort your boyfriend's relatives and friends, and your boyfriend's mother has no reason to object, of course, it is very easy to do.

Ignore him and go find the second one.

Needless to say? Your boyfriend is so infatuated! Love to the depths of love, tears can't be controlled!

My advice to you is to reciprocate his love for you once in a while, don't blindly get it, no matter how hot the fire touches too much, the frost will be extinguished, cherish it!

Of course I love you, who says that men can't cry, it only means that you don't understand him!

He certainly doesn't love you because he's vulnerable.

Eh! He loves you 100% This kind of man - rare!! You should cherish it.

He's 100% in love with you, this kind of man -- it's rare.

Are you showing off? Of course he cried because he loved you! Needless to say?

Because he's loving you, I don't understand yet!

How can a guy say such a thing, but it's as simple as being vulnerable?

If he doesn't love you, why be sad about such a small thing as a chat log.

It seems that the man still lacks assertiveness, it can be seen that he is usually a good man at home, everything depends on the face of his parents, although this is a filial piety approach, everything must be discussed with the elders, but so old, or so trembling, only promises, it is really inappropriate, marriage is two people, if only one party insists, then it is relatively tired, sit down with your boyfriend and talk, what is his idea, I wish you happiness.

If his family opposes it, it seems that the resistance is not ordinarily big, but if he is desperate to be with you, I think this kind of relationship will have trouble for you in the future, and if there is a problem, it can be solved now, if it can't be solved, just let it be.

Think about it in another position, men also have their own sufferings. But this is up to two people to fight, talk to your man well It's not a way to drag it I'm afraid of coming and going to delay my youth.

Be willing to give up! Learn to give up! Time is the best! Hold back the pain for a while! It's good to be in the past! You're not happy together!

From now on, she will be a fierce mother-in-law, so I advise you to escape from the sea of misery as soon as possible. Your boyfriend is also too weak, and if you really get married in the future, he will definitely help her mother bully you, because he doesn't dare to contradict his fucking will.

There must be an effect, the question is whether it will appear the effect you want! Why is your boyfriend faltered? Are you not good enough? Or something else.

The problem is your boyfriend, your boyfriend is a person who is not assertive or dedicated to feelings, he can't handle his parents, and he throws the problem to you, and I personally think that what your man told you, asking you to go to his parents, shows that you have changed your mind, and the motive is not pure, because he knows that you can't pass the level of his parents, for such a boyfriend who is not loyal to love, I personally think that you should not cherish it, because even if you are together, he cannot guarantee that he will give you a safe future in the future.

Falling out of love is painful, but the longer you are in it, the more you say you will suffer, but in fact, when you come out, you are also responsible for your own future.

The marriage of two people is actually the union of two families, and if one of the parents does not approve of it, it is better to choose another spouse.

The future relationship and happiness are your own, if you choose as your parents say, it means that you are not free at that time, and you do not have the right to make self-choice through self-freedom, and your parents let you make such a choice, you are very painful! If he loves you, he is not feeling good now, you are not self-chosen, this is a choice, it is never happiness to choose us, but we choose happiness, if you really love each other to the bones, then this is nothing, love is your own, happiness is also your own, if you don't want to regret it later, you have to seize happiness, I believe that your love can make you happy, come on, hope to adopt.

You talk to him first, let him try to bring you home once, always communicate with her parents, after meeting your parents strongly disagree, this relationship can only rely on you to persevere, the worst plan is to give up. Let's try it once, so there will be fewer regrets.

This....It's troublesome. However, if you can't give it up, don't give it up. Let's go to his house....I believe that I am very good and will be liked by his parents!

Cherish it....If you miss it, you will regret it for the rest of your life! If he promises you happiness, he will find a way to convince his family ... I just want to tell you that feelings are a matter of two people, and nothing can be smooth sailing, and find a way to overcome difficulties when encountered.

Don't try to ask someone to help you. Do not waver in what you have decided....

Let's go once! Life is very realistic, you may not succeed if you go, but you will regret it less later, at least you do your best! Whether it is successful or not depends on fate!

From the perspective of marriage, it is absolutely correct to be the right person, and to find a local one, a long-distance relationship may be emotionally fine, but it will be very inconvenient after marriage, it is not good for two people to run at both ends, and what about children? There are a lot of native leaves, don't you like them all?

Alas... You can work hard, but his family thinks that you are far away, and you can live alone when you get married, but now it's not all like this, so you don't have to live together. You just have to go to his house and do what you have to do later.

I don't think on your terms will say how much his family doesn't like you.

was forced by his parents to separate Hu's relationship, and he will regret it for the rest of his life. Believe in yourself and stick to it.

You move out.

Neither side of the house stayed.

Wouldn't it be nice to go out and buy a small house by yourself and live a sweet life.

Meaning, his heart aches for your heartache, and he sheds tears for your heartache.

Maybe you have gone through that bad experience, but he heard that because he loved you, his heart ached for what happened to you, and his heart hurt that you didn't have him by your side at that time.

The feeling at that time is not a lifetime commitment.

Forget about this man's cherishing it.