My girlfriend resists physical contact, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Oh my God, you're a good girl, but it's supposed to be sweet to be on a leash

    Are you too young? If so, then there is probably such a mentality. Because you will always feel that this relationship is a little unsightly, so the psychology is awkward.

    Are you really awkward? When my boyfriend pulls me, I feel very nervous, goosebumps, afraid to look at him, my heart is pounding, if your symptoms are similar to mine, then, believe me, it's not that you don't like this, on the contrary, it's because you feel it.

    Don't you have a lot of contact with boys? In this case, it is possible to be afraid of physical contact, but as long as you take it slowly, I believe you can overcome it.

    Since you like your boyfriend very much, but you are afraid that he will touch you, then let you touch him, try to take the initiative to hold his hand, this is a little sweet, and his frustration will be much less, and slowly you will gradually get used to him. Let's spend more time with him, and it will improve a lot if we are together a lot.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You should pay attention to what is wrong between you, especially if she occasionally says something that does not match the preamble, or some topics that she will suddenly say, these topics are implicitly revealing her inner thoughts, maybe because you have ignored too much, her current situation should be on the verge of separating from you, and with a little external force, your relationship may be in crisis. I suggest you pay attention.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. Hello, I am your Xiaoming senior sister is happy to serve you, I have received your question, I will reply to you in time after reading, after asking, because there are too many lists, it will be in turn, it will not be not, please be patient!

    Hello, I am Hongchang your Xiaoming senior sister is very happy to serve you, your question I have received, after reading will reply to you in a timely manner, after asking, because there are too many lists, there will be arguments in turn, no, please be patient!

    If your girlfriend is very resistant to you touching him, then the two of you can't be together, because he resists you touching Minzao, it means that he doesn't love you, he doesn't really want to be with you, so he just doesn't love you, you can't be together, because if you love someone, he won't pretend to refuse you to touch him, and sometimes he will take the initiative to kiss you and hug you, so since you don't love it, it's impossible to be together.

    Dear, hello, I have sent you the answer to the question, I hope you can be satisfied, I really hope we can help you, I am happy to help you, I hope ours can help you, I wish you a happy life! The good man Liang has a peaceful life! Thank you

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, you need to understand the reason for your girlfriend's aversion to physical contact. Some women may be sensitive or averse to physical contact due to previous experiences, personalities, lifestyle habits, etc. If your girlfriend has an aversion to physical contact, you need to minimize the contact in advance to avoid making her feel uncomfortable.

    At the same time, you can gradually get your girlfriend used to physical contact, but you need to pay attention to the following:

    1.Physical contact is made at a slow pace and in a gradual increasing manner. Don't rush and give your girlfriend plenty of time and space to gradually adapt and relax.

    2.Respect your girlfriend's feelings. If your girlfriend is reluctant to touch, don't force it, otherwise it may cause greater discomfort or even an argument.

    3.Choose the right occasion. Physical contact is also important, and you should try to choose an environment where your girlfriend feels safe and relaxed.

    4.Pay attention to your girlfriend's reaction. If your girlfriend has discomfort or pain during contact, you should stop contact immediately to ensure your girlfriend's health and safety. Be cautious of potatoes.

    The most important thing is to respect your girlfriend's feelings and needs, communicate and negotiate together to solve problems. A healthy and harmonious love relationship can only be established with mutual respect and understanding.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You're sure she's already your girlfriend.

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