It s been a year, and I still can t forget my first love! What to do!!

Updated on psychology 2024-05-11
51 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If she likes you, she won't break up with you, you go to her, maybe she is already in love with someone else, I advise you to tell her that you still like her very much, and see how she reacts. If she still doesn't like you, you're going to have to die. Because barely there will be no good results.

    Hopefully she'll know you're genuine. I wish you happiness!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hehe, do what you want to do, even if you are rejected, you have no regrets.

    I was more comfortable after all, I told him.

    Hehe, be happy.

    Bless you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    And I really want to tell you that people who are destined to be together will be together at the ends of the earth, because love is the earth and the earth is round

    Get it right

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't do what you regret and be brave!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your life circle is too small, that's why it's like this, try to make more friends, whether it's a man or a woman, and after a long time, you will find that she is not your only one.

    Where is there no square grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower?

    Friend, you're a lot like me before me.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As long as two people love each other, they can still be together in the end.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Go and confess, after working hard, there will be no regrets.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First love is beautiful, it can only be hidden in the deepest part of the heart, there is nothing to be nostalgic about, it has become a thing of the past. Cherish the fate now, the first love may not be suitable for marriage, live every day now!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's normal to can't forget, in a person's life, the most unforgettable thing is the first love, even if you are married or not married, although you love the current one very much, but you will often think of the first love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First love is beautiful and unforgettable, if you can't forget it, then rest assured, just know it, you are now married, then you must maintain your current feelings.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The face of the person does not know where to go, and the peach blossoms are still smiling in the spring breeze.

    The first love is beautiful, it has become the past, and it is normal for people to have nostalgia, and occasionally recall the beauty of the beginning in the depths of memory. Since you are married, you must cherish your current fate, don't look at the flowers, and look back at the previous flower, the more beautiful it is.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is a sentence in Eason Chan's lyrics: What you can't get is always in turmoil! But what you can't get is often not related to you. And what you get is what you are destined for. You should cherish the people in front of you, and let the past pass!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Life is a long journey, we must learn to walk happily, no matter how far and difficult the road is, it will be happy and flavorful, because we enrich our lives and make life stronger in the journey.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's useless to remember your first love if you don't tie the knot, just don't know each other. Some people just exist in their hearts, such as deceased relatives, lovers who broke up, friends who have not been contacted, and it is normal to not be able to forget, but don't always fantasize, live the life in front of you, think about that person can live his life without worrying, why do you have to remember, there is no need to be stupid.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When you are married, hide your first love in the bottom of your heart, and treat it as a good memory, but it is better not to affect your current family life, and I believe that time will reduce the strong feeling of the present.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    He was my first love and I wasn't his first! The friendship that was simple at the beginning is now not found! He's married, I can't forget him, he's long forgotten about me!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is a very normal phenomenon, after all, the first impression is the most memorable, and I am just like you, that girl will always come to mind, unforgettable.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Everyone has been young and frivolous, but love is not everything, and beautiful love is not as good as a person who can love you and grow old with you for life. First love is a corner of the heart, but it can be used as a beautiful but not perfect dream.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Normal, everyone is like this, after all, it was a beautiful experience, and there is no need to forget, anyway, it will not affect the current life, anyway, it is now separated from the first love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Everyone has their first love, and it's a very good memory that no one can tarnish. But secondly, is the first love in your heart really as perfect as you imagined? Maybe it's just because time has left your memory in his best moments, and in the constant thoughts, he has become more perfect.

    In fact, now what you are thinking about is no longer that person, but your reluctance to give up on youth and the past. You also have a current partner, presumably you love him, so don't dwell too much on the past, more importantly, the present and the future, are the people around you who need to be protected.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is very good, and it shows that there is a deep connection with the past self. The memories of the past are like dreams, although they are beautiful, but if you chase them, it will be like the moon in the water, it is difficult to have good results, and it also destroys the beauty of the memories.

    It's not impossible, but you need to measure your current life, and if you don't want to lose everything you have, let the dream continue as a dream.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This shows that you are a kind person who does not like the new and hates the old, and a sentient and righteous person who is "in Cao Ying's heart in Han". For a loving person, first love is beautiful and unforgettable. Maybe your current marriage is also out of helplessness, but life is often unsatisfactory and not as you wish.

    You can hide your first love deep in your heart as a good memory.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Whether you are a woman or a man, no one can forget your first love, and if you want to continue your current life, you must forget him (her) in the bottom of your heart.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The first love is unforgettable, since you are married, you have to put this past relationship in a corner of your heart, don't care about the eternity, only care about what you once had, live in the present, please cherish the person in front of you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Generally speaking, it must be the best to marry you, it is normal for two people who love each other not to be together again, love will only appear on TV and **, and there are very few in reality, so young people please cherish the person who is with you Because he She believes in you and gives herself to you, love him She doesn't have to get him her, because love is selfless.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    To keep your sanity, you already have a responsibility to keep your first love in your heart, so that you can reminisce when you are lonely and lonely, when you are sad and sad.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you can't let it go, it's okay to put it in your heart, it's impossible to forget, it can only be relieved, and when you get married, cherish what you have, you can't forget it, and you can't go back, it's good to experience it, and it's really happy.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This is normal. Because in everyone's heart, first love is the most beautiful, whenever I think of it, it always gives people warmth and sweetness. Let people never forget it, let it be cherished in the depths of the heart forever!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Again, it's not a problem, it's human nature, don't take these things seriously, respect this memory, leave some place for irrelevant people, and don't let these memories affect each other's lives.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hello, good thing, nostalgic for the past, one does white moonshine, the other is cinnabar mole, this truth, the same as men.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    First love is beautiful, hide it in your heart! Let's face it! The most important thing for people is to live in the moment, cherish the people in front of them, be happy for themselves, and be happy for their relatives!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    That's the only way to do it, otherwise what? There is no fault in life, only the time is wasted, and the things that are forgotten, but the person who cares about the most has become a knot in the heart that cannot be untied.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Time is the best water of forgetfulness. Cherish what you love now, and you will eventually achieve positive results. Remember not to hurt the people who love you. Wishing you happiness.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Emotional matters cannot be forced, and no one can control their inner feelings, so at this time, you should change direction, shift your attention, and do something you like to do.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    In this case, you should put aside the emotional matters and do something other meaningful, you can set a new goal for yourself and work towards it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    In this case, there is no need to turn around emotionally, but you should put your energy on work, work hard, work hard, make life more fulfilling, and emotional things will take their course.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Since you are already in the window period of love, I think it is better to calm down, think about how to carry out the next relationship first, calm down first!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    At this time, you should adjust your mindset and resolutely forget the past. The past is in the past, and if you keep immersing yourself in the past, it is not conducive to future development.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I think this phenomenon is not surprising, people who value feelings will not easily forget the emotions they have given; Feelings are a strange thing, you may invest in other things, and after a long time, you will forget about it....But feelings are different, even if they have only had feelings for other people for a second, they can make you remember them for a lifetime; Those who have long forgotten what they say are nothing more than two possibilities, one is disguise, and he can't bear to mention the past that may be painful for him; The second is....This person has never loved with his heart at all, and of course, there is no way to talk about memories.

    So, in this way, we can't forget that first love is actually a very common thing; Loved, hated, cried, laughed, remembered his somewhat cunning description, remembered her tender greetings, these bits and pieces that once ruthlessly dominated and occupied all your time all day long, how can you easily forget?

    What to do!! Need to know what to do? What if I really know, as far as I am concerned, maybe it is better not to know; From time to time, in the dead of night, I think about my once silly self, think about how I racked my brains for one of her looks, worked hard for her words, and stayed up all night for one of her smiles...When I think of this, I smile or cry silently...Hehe, isn't that great?

    Maybe in the future, we will all have a home and a family of our own, but who has no past? That youthful memory is the greatest treasure, no matter what we experience or encounter, it will always occupy a place in the softest place in our hearts. I want to forget about it....Do you really have the skills?

    The old love is just like rose water, dripping on Luo Yi to the fragrance of death.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    The simple point is that the memory cannot be touched.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Let me tell you about my experience!

    I'm the same as you, I like a girl, since the third year of junior high school, after 6 years, intermittent contact, last year she contacted me, when I was happy, she told me that she had a boyfriend, I hit hard, she is also my first love, which is undoubtedly a fatal wound for a man with heavy feelings. So I decided to leave her world after hearing the news.

    But it wasn't until Christmas Eve the day before yesterday that she texted me again, starting to congratulate me on Christmas Eve and Merry Christmas, but her real purpose was to tell me that she had quit her job and that she had decided to go back and get married. After hearing the news, I had a complete breakdown once. Because the woman who was supposed to belong to him is about to get married, but the groom is not himself, this kind of feeling can only be experienced by men who encounter the same situation.

    Maybe your situation is different, but the time is the same, and you have liked your first love for 6 years. Hope your results are better than mine.

    I'm not trying to break your cold water, I just want to remind you, don't make the same mistake as me, the woman I used to wait for and believe in has given me "unexpected surprises" again and again, and I don't want you to be the same as me.

    So if you choose to fight, then you should find her as soon as possible and ask her everything about it. If there's a chance to redeem it, don't let it go, it's too late for me to redeem it.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You'd better stop looking for it, in fact, sometimes, people subjectively let themselves think that I still love her, love her very much. But in reality, emotions have gone terrified over time. Maybe you're not loving her, and even if you do, it's not that strong.

    And, even if you find her, what's the use, there has been a six-year gap between you, six years of missing, and you can't go back to the past

    Therefore, I suggest that you stop deliberately looking for her, slowly live a good life, and if you have a better girl, you can try.

    In addition, when you meet again many years later, you will find that at that time, you were really too young and naïve.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Why hasn't she contacted you for six years? Have you ever wondered about this?

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Friend! It's an affectionate buddy! I'm just like you! But I choose to keep waiting and looking! I'm going to keep the promise I made to her!

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's been six years, and there is nothing she can't let go, maybe she is married and has children, take a long-term view, pay attention to the people around her, maybe someone cares about you very much.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    There will always be a chance to see each other again, but I guess you won't feel it when you actually see her!!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Look for it, if you can't find her, then, give up, no one is worth your time, 6 years is really too much. Some things are not really good results when you get the result, and leaving sometimes means eternal separation.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    No, can't give up. Love is chasing, how can you have her whereabouts if you don't look for it. If you give up, it means that your love can't withstand the wind and rain, and it also means that you haven't loved each other before!

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Hey, poor child, forget about her!!

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Time will tell!

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by along the way, and every relationship and experience is a mark left by life, no matter what the memory is

    Whether it is good or painful, it has already happened. ­

    What is love,

    Tears know. ­

    A lot of the time,

    The past is something you can't miss.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable. ­

    While you are crying over missing the sun, you will also miss the stars.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, although I can't be with you, but when you have good memories,

    I believe that I will always keep the good memories of the Russians in my heart, happiness and unhappiness are in my heart, and I will wait until time is slow

    The past is the past and let him pass

    It's just an eternal passerby on the road of love, leaving pain, and leaving alone

    Coming in a hurry, going in a hurry, can't be saved, can't be saved, can only face it alone with a cold heart, face the past, face yourself.

    In the future, there is no chance to correct mistakes, and what is lost can no longer be recovered, this is fate

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