Do you have any essays on the topic of distance ?

Maybe it's because we don't need too much nagging from our parents when we grow up, maybe our parents are so busy that they forget to talk to us, maybe it's work, study, and entertainment that occupy most of our time, so we are no longer familiar with the word "communication".

Once upon a time, my parents used to listen to my heart; But nowadays, my parents only pay attention when they listen to my reports. And after the debriefing, either Dad's mobile phone called, or Mom's pager began to vibrate. I lost my temper over this, but my parents only left a helpless expression in my heart and hurried to do what they had to do.

I really want them to listen to me talk about those funny and childish things like I did when I was a kid, and I want to get back the innocent feeling of my parents touching my head and talking about it. But for me, it's just a longing, a heart-to-heart longing. I always felt the urge to vomit, but looking at their tired expressions and looking at their haggard faces, I had to swallow back the words that came to my lips.

Although I can't really understand them, I know that what they need at this time is a warm cup of tea or a basin of foot water, so the words of the stomach slowly sink into the bottom of my heart, and the desire to communicate with them cannot be realized.

On my 15th birthday, my parents said "Happy Birthday", and even without any gifts, I knew they were looking for communication with me. I remember the other day I had a cough all night, and there was nothing but hot soup stewed by my grandmother and a few words of comfort. I knew that my parents were busy, so I didn't complain more, just silently didn't say a word.

And when I woke up from a nap, I saw my father caressing my forehead with his big hands, and my mother also holding my hot hands with her soft hands, I felt both surprised and excited, and my father's mud and my mother's smell of oil and smoke made me feel their love for me again. It was then that the wordless communication allowed us all to tell each other's desires.

This is the distance that slowly develops from your parents as you grow up.

What are the manifestations of distance?

material disparities; The gap in military and scientific and technological strength.

Learning, cultural accomplishment and other spiritual levels are different.

Spatial distance, age difference.

What are the causes of distance?

Is the knowledge and use of resources adequate and comprehensive?

Are you diligent in your studies?

Are you using the right transportation and communication tools? At the same time, is there enough affection to cross the so-called distance and achieve the desired result?