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Cherish the people in front of you. Let it pass in the past, and now it's just a little reluctant to leave the old one, in fact, the problem that can't be solved by arguing so many times before means that it can't be run-in, and if she finds a better man than you, she won't come back to you, that's the truth. Don't do anything stupid.
The thing about guilt should be the guilt of not starting a new relationship, and you have to be responsible for your new lover at the beginning, because this is the life that is responsible for yourself.
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The ex has broken up and the child has been beaten, so you shouldn't look back, otherwise you'll only hurt the girl now. And in terms of realistic analysis, you are compatible with the current character, this is the most important thing, the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change, can you guarantee that you and your ex will not quarrel after getting back together, your temper is difficult to change. Responsible is to be responsible for the people around you who are good to you, you have to cherish to be responsible, rather than ignoring the happiness around you to pursue the distance, people are a little like that, always feel that what you can't get is the best, the beauty of the distance, maybe your girlfriend also regrets it because of this, but if you really live together, it may not be good.
If you want to find a future partner, I advise you to be cautious.
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Only you weigh it yourself, I think love is important, but you have factors that need to be responsible for your ex, so it's up to you.
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Choose the incumbent, because love lasts forever. It's good to be responsible, but there is no love anymore, and it is painful and hurtful to be together for a long time, and the harm is greater
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Duty is just as important as love, but in your case, neither applies. Because you've broken up, and there are trade-offs in life.
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It's also responsible for my current girlfriend.。。 Now that we've broken up, move on with your current life.
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The premise of responsibility is shared by both parties, and it has been knocked out, so why mention it in the past, you should know which one is what you want....
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It is inevitable that there will be many episodes in a person's life, don't deliberately look at a thing, everything will go naturally, laugh at what Xiao Shenyang said in the rivers and lakes, sticky, and annoying. You should understand,
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As a man, the responsibility is great! But don't force yourself, or you won't be able to afford it!
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Now that you've broken up, there's no need to have any contact, and you already have a girlfriend.
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What is your own heart? Whichever you love? Don't regret it when the time comes.
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The question of which is more important, love or responsibility, bothers many people. Not only two people who love each other will have love and responsibility, but also have responsibility for their relatives, falling in love is a matter of two people, but if you get married and live together, it is not so simple. Husband and wife are responsible for each other, for their parents, and even more so for their own actions.
If you decide to get married and choose to get married, you must strive to be responsible for your choices and actions.
We often encounter some similar situations, but what to do, the solution is not the same for everyone. Your question is very simple, you ask your own heart, do you love him, and if you can, sometimes you can talk to him about these words and see what he thinks. Marriage is not child's play, since they came together at the beginning, then it means that you have a good impression of him, even if there is no love at all.
Now you are living in painful memories, you are thinking about your ex-boyfriend all the time, but you still worry about your husband's mood and worry about hurting him, which fully shows that you have feelings for him. If there is really no emotion, then it can only be said that you are too kind, and because of this, even if you divorce him, do you think you will be happy? Will you be happier?
Ask yourself, you must not, because you have a shadow in your heart, you have always hurt a person who seems innocent to you, even if you get together with the person you love in the future, then your heart will not be at peace. Would you still do the same with the results that were already predictable?
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The words love and responsibility are always in our lives. In my understanding, there are similarities and differences between the two. Love is a feeling in people's hearts, it may or may not have action, which means that people with love may or may not take responsibility for love.
Responsibility is a kind of responsibility, expressed with more actions, it seems that some responsibilities are out of love, and some responsibilities are not necessarily, for example, a man or woman has no feelings of love for each other, but is unwilling to hurt the other party and the family, and is still willing to accept the fact of forming a family, and continue to take responsibility for this choice. It seems to me that although there is no feeling of love for the other person, the thoughts and actions of "not wanting to hurt the other person" contain a kind of love between people.
There are many people who believe that the most important thing in life is love, and people should be brave enough to pursue what they love in their hearts. Therefore, there must be people who refute my above point of view, since there is no feeling of love, why should you be aggrieved to settle for each other and marriage, isn't this a kind of self-kidnapping? Moreover, you say that the thoughts and actions of "not wanting to hurt the other person" contain love between people, but is it a kind of love to pity and sympathize with others?
Isn't pity and sympathy a condescending emotion? Although there is no shortage of people in the world who think that pity and sympathy are undesirable ways to treat others, because it is full of unequal meaning, but I think that everything is in moderation, pity and sympathy are also, for example, when you see a beggar, you pity him, sympathize with him, and quickly give him some help within your ability in distress and love, as far as you are concerned, you feel sorry for him because you are kind, and you have no intention of looking down on or despising him, is this kind of pity and sympathy not love? But if you have a condescending attitude towards him and treat him with the attitude of giving alms and food, then your help and giving to him may not be sincere, most of them are forced to do so, that is to say, there is probably no pity and sympathy for these feelings.
From this point of view, the feelings of pity and sympathy should be affirmed, regardless of whether the result is satisfactory or not, but the starting point is that love is good. Think about it, will you pity and sympathize with someone you don't look down on and hate to the bone? I don't think so.
So even though there is no strong feeling of love between me and the other person, it may be just a feeling I have now, and the feeling means that the feeling itself may be wrong, so we have a word called "illusion". Feeling that there is no love does not mean that there is no love in reality, a person is still reluctant to make the other person sad and sad, which in itself shows that the person cares about the other person's feelings very much, and has taken action for this, showing how much this person cares about the other party.
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Responsibility is part of love, and it can't be talked about separately, in fact, splitting the leg is that there is no love, just maintaining this broken relationship, and giving people a false impression that it is still very good.
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Instinctively, love and responsibility are important. Love alone without responsibility is nothing. There is responsibility but there is no love, and living together is also a pain.
Personally, if I were a woman, I would choose to let go. To let him go is to let go of yourself.
He doesn't love you anymore, it's just a responsibility to you. Even if you are barely together now, you may leave in the future.
Learning to let go is the best option.
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I think love is more important than responsibility, you love someone will be with her for a lifetime to give her happiness, if two people are together only responsibility, then the plain life will wear out all the enthusiasm, and finally you will feel disgusted when you look at each other, do not love so you can't give each other the expectation of love, this is to live up and hurt.
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Love is to be responsible for the other person; However, love is no longer there, and it is no longer interesting to be responsible for the other person.
Therefore, if you can be together, you can be together; If something like splitting happens, just disperse, you are no longer qualified to be responsible for the other party, you no longer belong to the other party, you better let the other party go.
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Truth be told, another such issue is interrelated. In fact, love and responsibility are equally important. With love comes giving, and you should take on such a responsibility accordingly.
Anyway, with responsibility, you need to love and care for your loved ones. That's the interconnected problem. Indispensable.
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It's not a question of love or responsibility. He has already split his legs, which means that his love for you is gone. At this time, you should be decisive and break up with him.
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I don't think this man wants to break up, it's not that he loves this woman. Just want to have two loves at the same time. He is simply an irresponsible person.
He actually loves himself more. As a woman, I feel that I should choose to break up. It's better to find a love that belongs to you.
Sharing a man with someone else is the most disgusting.
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Of course, love is more important, because of love so you will feel your own responsibility, love someone will take the initiative to take responsibility, no love responsibility is just based on some responsibilities without any foundation, at any time is likely to disappear.
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Love is secondary, the most important thing is responsibility, as a man, the pillar of a family must have a sense of responsibility is the most important.
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Love is a feeling in the heart of a person, he may or may not have action, but responsibility must have action, but the two are similar, both are important.
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In love, it should still be important responsibility, if the person you love only has love for you, and has no sense of responsibility, then there is a fart, if you meet something, the person who loves you doesn't care about you, whether you live or die, then what's the use of love.
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Love and responsibility are important. Without love, do you have the responsibility to give? Only when you love, will you have the responsibility to work hard for love from your heart.
At the same time, if you stick to the responsibility for love, you will have responsible love! Therefore, love and responsibility are two indispensable and heavy obligations.
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Love and duty are not opposites, they are not contradictory. Only with love can he have this sense of responsibility; There is no love, there is no affection, and there is no responsibility to take on anything.
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As long as you are a man, it's better to give up! If it's just for the sake of responsibility together, after a while, there will be other problems in the future.
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Is love or responsibility important? I think that if a person loves someone, he must have a sense of responsibility, if he has no sense of responsibility, even if he loves someone, he will split his legs in the future, so responsibility is more important than love.
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I feel that responsibility is more important, because if you choose a relationship, you have to be responsible for him. This responsibility and responsibility is a value that reflects a person's life. And a kind of yearning for his beauty.
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Although love is important, I think responsibility is more important, and if people live without a sense of responsibility in the world, I don't think they are worthy of being a human being.
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I will choose to let go, is a marriage without love still called marriage? I hope he doesn't continue to cheat on his girlfriend, it's unfair to him. She also has the right to choose.
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Is love or responsibility important? I think responsibility is important, everything must be responsible, as long as he is a responsible person, he will definitely have love.
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The end of love is responsibility, and both are indispensable.
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Personally, I think responsibility is more important, if you don't even want to take responsibility, then there is no real love between two people.
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Of course, responsibility is more important than love, a mature and stable person understands the importance of responsibility, even if he loves it in his heart, he will first pay his own responsibility.
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Is love important or responsibility important, I think of course love is important, because since there is no love, why? Do I want love or responsibility, I think of course love is important, because since there is no love, why? I'm responsible.
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Responsibility and love are more important in marriage than affirmation of responsibility, because only with a sense of responsibility can you get along with others, can you take care of the family, and can play some role in sharing family affairs.
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In marriage, a sense of responsibility and love need to exist, love is the foundation of marriage, a marriage without love has no meaning, the possibility of two people being together is also very small, the sense of responsibility is also very important, the sense of responsibility is the foundation of marriage and love, and a marriage without a sense of responsibility cannot last.
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Responsibility is more important in marriage. It is because of love that marriage is formed. Because of responsibility, marriage can be more stable.
A sense of responsibility can make both spouses work harder to create a better life. Because of a sense of responsibility, he will abide by morality and keep the bottom line of marriage. Because of the sense of responsibility, they will help each other, and love will turn into family affection in the help and accompany them to old age.
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I think the sense of responsibility will be more important, love will disappear, but if the sense of responsibility still exists, then the marriage will not change, but if the sense of responsibility disappears, the marriage will fall apart, so the sense of responsibility will be more important than love.
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Hello: The sense of responsibility is more important in marriage, because love can be changed at any time, and the sense of responsibility will always exist, this is the character of people, it is very difficult to change, only the sense of responsibility can be relied on!
So responsibility is even more important in marriage! Hope it helps, hope, thank you!
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