How to develop good habits, how to develop good habits?

Children's development and education Our children have become the protagonists of the family because of the influence of the domestic environment, one by one, the sun, and the development of self-respecting, selfish, irresponsible children, adolescent rebellion and so on. In fact, children are good children, but it is our parents' fault that we have raised them to be like this. The child is born to this like a white white paper, all aspects of his cultivation are sketched by us as parents in the early stage of his appearance, you paint him black is black is black, painted red is red, pink is powder, the child's cultivation and education must be between 1 12 years old, after this period everything is late, otherwise there will be times when you regret it.

1 12-year-old child don't think he doesn't understand anything, in fact, your attitude can directly affect his various habits, you are unhappy, you lose your temper he can see, feel it, during this period you want to do what can do what can not do and other aspects of the rules and treatment, you must tell him to teach, resolutely put an end to doting and unprincipled, when appropriate, you can use a loving corporal punishment to him, let him remember! There are also children during this period, it is strongly not recommended that children be taken care of by both parents, because most of them are very doting on their children to buy what they want to eat and play, which directly reflects the unprincipled treatment of children. To tell you about personal experience, when my child was 2 years old, I didn't buy a house and lived with my parents, and once the child's mother took her out to eat sorbet, and vomited, because the whole family reached a consensus on this matter, try not to buy these things for the child.

Later, the unit issued a cooling fee, sent some sorbet, I put it in the refrigerator, because it was too hot to give the child to eat one, after eating I didn't give it to her, the child just cried, crying for a while, my father came to ask what to cry I told him the reason, because there was a consensus that the father was very reluctant to go away without saying anything, and after a while the child was still crying, the father couldn't bear it and came again, yelled at me: If you want to eat, give her another one to eat!! = =！

I'm speechless to talk about feelings after the age of 12. The child has reached this age, the basic living habits and other aspects have been formed, the child in this period is in the lonely period and the rebellious period, at this time the child you can no longer talk to them about the rules and the truth, even if you can't listen to it, so that the more you manage, the more you do it, you must often communicate with the child more and communicate more, listen carefully to the child, timely sort out, deal with the various problems encountered by the child in adolescence, etc., because you handed over the good habits to him when you were young, Basically, the child will not deviate from there. There is a big drawback in China's education method, that is, they spoil their children from an early age, and when they grow up, they can't manage it, but they can't manage it, but in fact, it is just the opposite.

I learned it myself, absolutely original!!

Pay more attention to the details of life, pay attention to learning from people with good habits, observe more, keep the good habits of others in mind, and always remind yourself to do the same or have a standard of good habits in your heart. Remind yourself to do so from time to time. It's not hard to form habits, the key is to depend on your own will.

Generally, to develop a habit, you only need to stick to it for 21 days, and it will naturally become your habit from the beginning of intention.

1. Insist on running in the morning every day. First of all, it can exercise the body and strengthen the physique, and secondly, it can make the character stronger and more persevering. 2. Reading every day, you can take time to read for half an hour or an hour every day, and you can also extend a little time to read if you have time, which can enrich people's minds, and also make people more temperamental, more open-minded, and have higher spiritual pursuits.

There is poetry and books in the belly! Reading 3, raising flowers and taking care of flowers every day will make people more gentle, more patient, and self-cultivation. 4. Raise a pet and take care of it every day, Naiwang will make people more loving and patient, learn how to take care of and understand others, and be a warm heart.

5. Frequent travel can make people relaxed, no longer anxious, cheerful and broad-minded. In fact, there are many small habits in life that can make people become more and more prosperous, such as quitting smoking and drinking, such as doing public welfare, such as listening to ** and so on. A good life is all around us.

First of all, be open to bad habits.

Second, take it step by step.

Finally, you can't give up.