My parents learned to talk about me, and I had an urge to die, what should I do?

Don't be angry yet, I think you probably know that everything your parents do is for your good, but their way of educating you is unacceptable, and you feel that they disrespect you very much, and they always use your identity as an elder to press you, which makes you very unacceptable. I can understand your feelings. So don't be angry first, know that your parents may be more angry than you, because they want to be hurt by you for your good, on the one hand, they are afraid of hurting you, and on the other hand, they are hurt by you, they will not be better than you, they may be more sad than you.

It was originally a family, the closest family, why is this happening? In fact, everyone doesn't want to be like this, everyone cares about each other very much, but they didn't expect it to be like this, in fact, everyone's original intention was not to become like this. Why not respect each other?

Why can't it be done? Have you ever put yourself in the other side's shoes, have you ever thought about it, your parents didn't, so did you? Have you played a role in this, have you made an effort, it is up to you to ask yourself, have you ever greeted your parents politely when you wake up in the morning?

Have you ever respected them? When you saw them when you came back, did you ever give them a greeting?? What do you do, have you done for them?

This family is for every member to contribute, have you made your own contribution? Your responsibility is to study, your grades are the purpose of your parents, it was your responsibility, have you done your part? ? Grades don't tell everything, but they also show whether you're working hard, right?

We have to do it, when we accuse others, we first find our own responsibility, first examine ourselves, in order to respect others and ourselves, did you do this through your parents? ? Your parents blame you, so why don't they respect you first? Why don't I care about you so much?

Did you start with yourself, did you lead by example? Is it too late to accuse? Why do we educate in this way?

Why can't we help you as a friend? Why do we have to quarrel? There are a lot of thoughts, but have you ever thought about the child's heart, will the child receive your affection if you do this?

This will only end up in a quarrel between both parties. What you've done will only be in vain. It's time to change yourself.

Child, you are a good boy This will always be like this in the hearts of your parents, so you have to put down your face, communicate well with your parents, tell them that quarreling is not what you want, it doesn't matter if you don't say it, start with respect, start with getting up in the morning, start with: "good morning". If you really want to be a responsible person, then let it go, there is no need to talk about face with your parents, and you will put down your face in society and outsiders in the future, why can't you put it down in front of your parents?

You can play a big role in this home, it depends on whether you want to do it or not. Thank you, please.

This is not true. Life is precious, we should cherish it, strive to overcome difficulties and challenges, and keep pursuing our dreams and goals. At the same time, we should also respect the opinions and expectations of our parents, and listen carefully to their suggestions and guidance in order to better realize our ideals and values.

If you're feeling stressed or emotionally unstable, try communicating with your parents to express your feelings and thoughts and let them know what you're feeling and needing inside. You can also seek help from a professional counsellor who can help you deal with negative emotions and improve your mental resilience.

In short, we should cherish life, face life positively, and improve ourselves and realize self-worth through continuous learning and growth.

How can there be parents who are not good for their children, every parent will spend their best for their children, they say that you want you to become better, I think my parents often chatter, I sometimes have the same thoughts as you, but I will always reflect on myself afterwards, the material is my mistake. Friends advise you, don't be too pessimistic, try to face your parents with an optimistic attitude, you will not be so miserable, after a long time, you will find that they are not so annoying. I hope you can think about everything, and I wish you a happy day.

During the summer vacation of '99, I didn't sleep all night

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I only remember that there was little moonlight, and I was the only one in the empty streets, and I thought about death at night, wandering like a ghost, and I met a person one night, and he was very tall and walked over from the opposite side very quickly, and I was frightened ......Motionless stood ......The sound of a train in my head was like a commotion, but before I could react, the person passed by, and the wind was ......Now I think that the man should be off the night shift or have an urgent matter, but unfortunately I met me in the middle of the pretending ghost, hehe, he should be frightened, Now I think about it a little weak, I'm sorry! Many years have passed, I got married, had children, bought a house, and honored my parents and in-laws, and I am glad that I am still alive ......It's good to be alive!

Dear copy, parents may be impulsive, control yourself, don't do those things that make your parents, let the relatives who love you sad for a lifetime, parents love you, baby, slow down your emotions, let your parents think for themselves, and you also think about your next life. If it is unfortunate that your parents are divorced, don't hate them, don't do something bad for revenge, your parents may have no love for each other, even if they force them, they will not be happy, will you make your dear parents sad? Try to be considerate and considerate of your parents!

It's okay, no matter what you will go through, you always have to go through, what should be lived is always alive, the road of life is still very long, this bit of ups and downs can't stand it, how to go through a long road? My parents divorced, and slowly you will get used to it, maybe, although I am not used to it now, but we should still live strongly.

When encountering this kind of thing, the decision of your parents is not something you can control, in fact, everyone knows very well that letting go may be the best choice, so that it will not hurt each other more deeply. But the child can't accept it, so he can only be strong, and then strong. Understand your family with an open mind.

If you are not afraid of death, what is there to fear? Learning is not as important as the body, adjust your mood, communicate more with your parents, although your parents want their children to become dragons, but more love. They can't see their children being wronged, and they will comfort you.

Don't do anything stupid! Don't be impulsive, it's all from your student days, take your grades lightly, learning is just enriching yourself, not everything, and it doesn't fully represent you. Make a few sincere friends in the good student days, and integrate more into the group, it will be better.

Cherish what is in front of you, and when you enter society, you will miss it very much.

You have to learn when you're under pressure, that's how everyone comes over! Life is also very stressful after entering society, so there is no way. Don't worry too much about studying, try to be happy, the impact of not learning well is not so serious!!

It's okay to play basketball to relax, or other sports are fine, don't overthink it.

When you are on vacation, go out and find a place to travel, relax and don't think about studying.

Blindfold, find a step to stand up, and imagine that you have a cliff in front of you, and then you have to jump down.

Go and run naked, it's up to you whether you die or not.

What is it that makes you have such extreme thoughts.

The best answer to this kind of problem is communication, you have to communicate with your mother appropriately according to the reason why your mother scolds you, because this kind of thing will happen once and a second time, don't let it develop. If you think about it carefully, if you are wrong, you have to apologize to your mother, if it is indeed your mother's mistake, you have to reason with her seriously, you can't be too anxious, and slowly maybe she will forgive you and understand you.

If it is because the landlord has a conflict with the stepfather, and the mother scolds you, there is indeed a suspicion that the mother is currying favor with the stepfather, and it is indeed unfair to you to do so. If the landlord really feels that the current new home has obvious rejection of you, it is better to go to grandma's house for a period of time, and of course grandma's house is fine. There are few stepfathers who will be very good to their stepson or stepdaughter, unless that person is lucky enough, otherwise, the attitude towards children is really different.

It is very important to adjust your mentality, your own mother scolds you maybe you have done something wrong, and on the other hand, if your mother is not principled towards you, can they still live a good life? They are noisy all day long, will your living environment be good? The only person in the world who loves you is your mother.

Understand her, maybe she also has a lot of hardships.

Don't think so, I'm happy for your mother, he has found a good home, and he has all the strength to choose happiness. Try to love her for your mother's sake.

At this time, you must not be impulsive, otherwise you may make your relatives hurt and your enemies happy!

Live well, live hard, not for others, for yourself, in order to prove yourself. You have to work harder and live more attentively, and prove to them that people can live wonderfully or decadently. Which will you choose?

What do you live for?

In short, do less things that you will regret in the future and more things that will make them worth remembering in the future! This shows that you have succeeded in life!

You are alone, think about the whole thing back and forth, what is it that makes your own mother scold you for your stepfather, have you done too much, or are you not wrong at all, your own mother just scolds you to please your stepfather? This matter has to be solved by yourself, if it is indeed your problem after thinking about it carefully, then your mother is concerned about you, but her method you can't accept, if it is the latter, the nature is different, the problem is in your mother, not in you, then you have to take good care of yourself, cherish your own life, cherish your body, only you love your own people, in order to get the love of others, what do you say?

In fact, having said that, stepfathers are not necessarily bad, of course, to say close, it still takes time, in fact, sometimes you can be a father and daughter, even if it is not biological, it is also a blessing from the previous life, compared with irresponsible fathers, some stepfathers even do better, and you need to pay more to get the approval of your children, understand each other.

Maybe your mom wants your family to be more harmonious, too.

Well, hey, sometimes you're good for you.

Ah, abuse, sue them.

It's a process of growing up, proving that you're starting to grow up and have your own mind. Want to do things your own way, and always have conflicts with your parents? In fact, your parents love you, you are very annoyed because your parents still love you as a child, so you are annoyed, so both parties need to adjust, I was the same before, if you don't make adjustments, the relationship will be even worse, parents since they studied Dr. Dong Jinyu's books and **, their thinking has completely changed, now they respect me very much, I love them very much, I hope you and your parents learn to learn, it will definitely help you!

Hey, I used to feel the same way, but now it's much better, the main thing is to understand your mother ideologically, even if she is wrong, don't get tired of it, otherwise your state will become more and more serious, don't be impatient, you will suffer a big loss.

You should be young now, in a rebellious period, and you can try to go out and live on your own for a while. After all, it's your mother, whatever you do is for your good, and when you grow up, you will understand not to do things that you will regret later.

There is no mother in the world who does not love yourself, you are also a contradiction now, how many people have seen no mother to know repentance, after all, she has also raised you for more than ten years, it is better to use this as a driving force, this society that looks at ability, develop well, and you will definitely have your own future.

You've got to think about it. Divorce is not good for anyone. Especially for children. It's only 9 months old, and it's a child from a single-parent family, how will the child develop in the future. But that's not to say that every single parent is bad.

Children are innocent, if you don't have children, leave ...The main thing is that you have different cultural backgrounds and don't have a common language. That's what these problems are.

If you die, you will also suffer, on the road of reincarnation.

All the people and things we encounter in this life are predestined in our previous lives;

All the people and things we encounter in the next life are predestined in this life.

I believe that your mother loves you, but there is a generation gap and different ideas.