The boyfriend is still thinking about his former girlfriend. I felt ashamed

Updated on psychology 2024-05-01
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I've had the same experience as you, and I've asked a lot of people, are boys nostalgic??? But until now there is no definite answer, I can understand your helplessness, your pain, let you let go of this relationship, let go of him is impossible, your current situation is inseparable from him, but he is very unwilling He still misses his former girlfriend, right, boys are like this, whether it is to a former girlfriend, or a strange woman who has just met, it is an attitude, they all want to get close, there will be extravagant hopes, as long as they find the opportunity, but since he is with you, you don't have to guess what he thinks, Whether he loves you or not, because these questions can never be said, cherish the happiness now, as for what he thinks psychologically, don't take it too seriously, this will only make him more miserable, let it be, scatter when you should disperse, if you have a happy day, that's what you should think about, okay.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    After reading your story carefully, you can understand your feelings.

    1.Tell him you want to get married. (See how he reacts).

    2.Abandon. This kind of relationship makes you very tired, it is better to find someone who loves you wholeheartedly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Being a man is inextricably linked.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Right question, you should treat her better than the man did to her.

    Don't talk about her previous questions against her. If you continue to pursue the past, she may slowly lose her heart to you, and transfer her heart to the previous man or other men.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hey, you actually mind that I can understand your feelings, but you fell out with your girlfriend, so I don't understand. As for it? Who hasn't had a past, as long as I'm with you now, what's the point of the rest?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you don't mind, love him, just accept everything he used to have, because he loves you very much, don't hurt him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since you love him, don't mind the past, just live the future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    His past doesn't have you, and what you want to know is what he wants to forget. If you keep mentioning it, then you always turn his ex-girlfriend out of his head and make him have to think about it. Are you willing to do so?

    You should be thinking about your present and future, so that he can feel good about you and forget about your ex completely.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you love someone, you shouldn't mind his past, only care about the present with you! Because you weren't in his world in the past!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you mind, then you don't really love him, mushroom Liang, you haven't heard of not taking office in front of your current boyfriend or girlfriend, which may stiffen the relationship between the two, love him and love him all What do you care about what he did before Who did you love Now he is your drop Love how you want to love Why care so much about the past? Is that right?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let him pass in the past. Now you love each other. Cherish the people in front of you. Don't wait until you lose it to regret it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Let him pass the past! Don't care anymore, love him and love everything about him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Everyone has a past, don't ask if you love him, his past has nothing to do with you, what is relevant to you is the present and the future, and if you love him, you have to believe in him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't mind, it's all in the past, as long as it's only good for you now and in the future

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The past has become history, if you really love each other, you should cherish the present and the future, if he is willing to tell you that it is better, if you don't mean to say it, don't force it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It shouldn't be, you have to cherish it now, after all, there are not many people who love you, he is just one, but the next one may not be as good as him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The past is over, and living well now is your ability.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You shouldn't mind his past, you should think about your future, and it's important to love each other.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Didn't he tell you about the past, so forget it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Knowing too much is not good for you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't ask, the past is over.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you like it, let's be together, no matter what you did before.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Arrogantly said, I'm embarrassed to say that I can't even look down on your ex-girlfriends, my ex-boyfriends.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Then you have to be better than the previous one.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's called an old love unforgettable. If you want him to forget about his ex-boyfriend and love you with all his heart. Then you have to love, care and care for him with your sincere heart.

    Be considerate and take care of him at all times. When he is in trouble, take the initiative to help and support him. In short, warm him with the zeal with which you love him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because her ex-boyfriend may be her first love, people tend to be the most impressed with their first love, of course, if you are better than her ex-boyfriend, I believe she will definitely forget the past and you started.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    First love, hey. The beginning of all evil is the legendary first love.

    Your girlfriend truly loves you.

    But that puts you to worry about cuckolding.

    Because while I love you, I also have another man in my heart.

    Age will make people mature and be responsible.

    Since you love each other so much, you should believe it.

    Don't always have conflicts because of this, it will affect the relationship.

    You can ask your girlfriend to cut off all contact with that man as a premise for not breaking up, so as to avoid your worries.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If the man really leaves you, then it is not worth you to cherish him, and they are all living together, just because the ex-girlfriend wants to redeem it, she is tempted, then he is not ready to start a relationship with you at all. That kind of man is not reliable. But you also have to look at your boyfriend's opinion, if it's true, the man is a brute.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You should learn to understand! Hope you understand!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Do you like her person or just her body? You have to ask yourself this question, what I see between the lines of your words is only desire, no pity!

    If you really love someone, you will pay attention to her little bits, you will pay attention to her preferences, temper, and even change yourself for her; But ask yourself, what did you do for her, did you do what she needed, or was it just what you thought she needed?!

    The feelings are mutual, it is impossible for only one person to give, you want to get all of her, ask yourself, are you qualified? Why does she miss the people of the past, is it because you are not good enough for her or have you never cared about her heart? Are you good enough?

    People are like this, always subconsciously ask and forget to give first, but people are lovely, because we can always reflect in time, so, lovely people, you should also think about it, when you do what you should do, what you can do and what you can do, your life and your life will change a lot!

    I hope there will be a real change in your relationship, and I hope these words will bring you real help, of course, what to do, you can't be smart and don't know, don't you?!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    People who really love each other can't be friends when they break up, and since they are still in touch, it means that they are disconnected, which is very dangerous.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think women should be kind to themselves, you yourself are not good to yourself, how can others be good to you, I personally think that if you pay, you must know that the other party must know, you are good to him, sometimes you need to express it in words to feel it, if you pay and let him know your pay, he is still not good to you, just let it go. Find a better man.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    As a woman, you shouldn't be very good to your boyfriend in love, because a man is cheap, and the better you are to him, the more he doesn't know how to cherish it. The more you ignore him, the more he will cling to you like an octopus.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    People are like this, they are good to themselves, they take it for granted, the more time passes, the more they become habits, to put it in layman's terms, people are cheap, there are masochistic tendencies, and they are good to him, but they don't feel challenging.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    My situation is the opposite of yours, if he loves you enough, he will be better to you, and he says this to show that he feels guilty because he likes you as much as you like him.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Your kindness makes him feel guilty. Ask him what he wants you to do to him.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Keep it up and be good to him.

    At the same time, you should enhance your personal charm.

    Start with your outward look!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Let him choose as he pleases.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you're good to a dog, he'll wag his tail.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you think it's right, keep doing it.

    Have basic judgment skills!

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Girls, don't put your posture so low, it's necessary to be coquettish and willful occasionally.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    flew him, a good girl is still worried about getting married?!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Brother, let me tell you a personal experience I used to be a soldier On Singles' Day in which year of recovery, I gave a girl a ** Happy Singles' Day to celebrate each other She is my first love Time flies as fast as ever Less than two months I recovered and went home The lonely night was really uncomfortable I couldn't sleep So I dialed the familiar number again Talk about life Talk about understanding Finally, I also know that she has no object in my heart Inexplicably happy It's a pity that the good times don't last long I have insomnia again It's only past eleven o'clock I thought about it and dialed that ** again.

    A man picked it up.

    Really, I don't know what I thought at the time, whether I was deceived or not, whether I saw her change, my heart was empty, and I really couldn't sleep.

    I'm not trying to save up here, but I'm just talking about my past, a sad past, or hoping that someone can tell me how I'm going to deal with this past, thank you.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's not that you still love her, you just feel unwilling. Since it was divided in the first place, there must be a reason. Even if you don't divide it, sooner or later, you feel unbalanced when people have a new boyfriend, after all, girlfriends are not objects, this kind of mentality will be there.

    Wouldn't everyone be happy if you found a new girlfriend that you thought would be more suitable? The past will not come back.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It's normal, after all, they used to be lovers before! Since you have broken up, bless it, the key is to know how to cherish it in the future!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It is said that women will be jealous, but in fact, men are more jealous than women!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Because you're still a little bit kind of sorry for her.

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