I am 14 years old, a first year junior high school student, and a girl confesses to me, I am conflic

The impact will definitely be there, if you confess successfully, the two of you can learn from each other, and learning from the good must be a good influence, and vice versa! If the confession fails, you have to adjust your mentality, after all, it's still the first year of junior high school... Adjust the correct mentality, it's nothing to fall in love in junior high school, who hasn't been young yet, right?

It should affect learning, it is the age of adolescence, and it is easy to love very deeply, after the confession, you can first be a good friend, after a long time, it may feel light, don't really promise others how to do it, you like it silently, just like it silently, 14 years old has no result, if there will be results, it also depends on whether you can be admitted to a school in the future, whether you have a heart, there is fate, the most important thing is to study hard.

What can you talk about in love at this age, it's not impossible to fall in love, you have to have a degree, that is, you can control the rhythm, you can't stick together every day, I also talked about it in the first year of junior high school, but it's best to do your homework while talking, as long as you don't fall behind, break up in the third year of junior high school (it's okay not to divide, but you have to study hard), and it's OK to study hard.

Yes, this age is the hazy period of youth, which is normal. However, the key depends on how to deal with it, at this age you should still focus on learning, as the saying goes, what to do at what age. You say yes, right?

You can be friends but don't fall in love, no matter what, it will affect learning, because once it is defined, you will think about the problem from a different starting point.

No. In the fifth grade, he began to fall in love and went to a key high school. Cultivating sentiments.

Empathy will affect a little bit of learning, and if you don't like it, say no.

No, dear, you have a vigorous first love.

Men and women don't necessarily fall in love together, they can be good friends who study hard together.

If there is a girl, you will not soak it, and if you have a girl, you will soak it for the heavens.

Hello dear, 1, the best confession is not confession;

2. Try to be friends first, and then walk into his life, or accompany him in the place where he studies (works);

3. Observe his habits, preferences, hobbies, and what kind of personality and temperament he likes;

4, and then help him as much as possible, starting from little by little, to love sincerely, without asking for anything in return;

5. When he has you in his study (work) life, you wait for the opportunity to solve his emotional problems (joy, anger, sorrow, etc.);

6. Good love needs to boil frogs in warm water;

7. When he depends on you for everything, he is not your person;

8, a casual confession is done, and a confession is only useful if you also know that he likes you.

2.In fact, a boy really likes a girl, he will definitely not change easily, if you really don't have feelings for him, then reject him more clearly, what you say "we are not suitable" is actually very troublesome, you just say "don't like" on the line.

3.If it's a friend, then you also have to make him understand that you just don't like him, and it's not that you don't treat him as a friend anymore, otherwise it will bother him even more.

4.He confessed to you, which means that his liking is not a day or two, and he is rejected all of a sudden, and he needs time to adjust himself, you must not be annoyed by his attachment, this is very normal, maybe one day you will also experience it, give him some time to adjust.