The troubles of a 14 year old junior high school student, I am a junior high school student. I m 14

Cut! What's the matter with friends!

I've been playing since I was in the 5th grade of elementary school!

All the friends around me have played it!

I'm not just as good at studying.

Now the first year of junior high school. Every exam is in the top 10 of the grade

The school is also a good kind.

This kind of thinking of yours is a common behavior and thought of most people in adolescence. It is the only way for a person to go. You can treat him as a good friend or buddy, or you can treat him as an older brother.

Maybe it would be better. After all, you are still young and don't know what you like and what you don't like, you just look at what is happening around you or people through some superficial phenomena. Your biggest problem is that you only look at one person one-sidedly.

There is no overall analysis of whether a person is worthy of your good or bad to him. If you really like him, extraordinary, pay more attention to some of his shortcomings. Perhaps, you might get out of the current predicament.

Your main thing now is to study. No matter what the purpose of learning, it should not be ignored, for the sake of your family, for your parents, for you personally and for the people you like, come on and study. Believe that you will be different.

The emotional aspect is not your problem.

Like is like, but learning is also learning, if you have the ability, first put learning first, and then in addition to learning, you can sometimes think about him, in this way, I think it should still be possible!

It doesn't matter, this is very normal, in fact, children are like this, there is a girl in our class who likes a boy, and she desperately wants to make that boy feel cute, so that his learning declines, so that it is not normal, when you study well, you will also find that the boy still admires you very much, this feeling is also very good.

I can't help but think about it, don't look at it, don't do it. Think for yourself, are you willing to do what is not good for you? The answer is yes, you don't. So what do you say you should do?

Everyone has their own dreams, and no one can deprive us of the right to dream, just don't be too obsessed with it, and handle the relationship with school.

Everyone has such a period, and I am the same, it is quite ridiculous to think about it after many years, I suggest that you don't pay too much attention to it, and go through this period rationally, and you will feel ridiculous later.

Seriously. There's no need to like a guy who doesn't love you.

Study hard and make progress every day. Give up on this boy!

Hey, let's study first, and then talk about it when you are successful in your studies.

Take the initiative to admit your mistakes and don't make mistakes again and again. Some mistakes can be redeemed with action, go and pay him back. Whether you forgive or not, you should apologize, listen to me, don't be confused, admit your mistakes in time is a good boy.

Give it back to him quietly, like in his drawer, and let him find out for himself.

You can't do something you regret for the rest of your life because of selfishness.

Be honest, sincerely put the phone to him, and apologize to him.

She hasn't found out now? If you don't find out, you can give her back the phone, and if you really want it, ask your mom to buy you this bad habit, no.

1.You go directly to your classmates and say that you took it, and apologize to your classmates.

2.This is a relatively bad way [I don't know what your classmate's personality is... You bring your phone to your classmates and say you picked it up.

If you're realistic, you go to the playground and run a few laps, and then pant and say to your classmates, "I just found your phone, and I'll give it to you right away."

3.You secretly put your phone in your classmate's desk...

Then quietly return it... It's not that you'll always have a sense of guilt, and your heart is worth more than just a phone, isn't it?

Sneak it back, it's okay, don't let him worry, and then just act as if nothing happened.

It doesn't matter, don't admit that no one knows you took it.

You have to go and give it back to him, and if you don't give it back, you won't feel good. I'm sure you're a good boy, and it's normal to be a little willful and rebellious at this age.

Now help you figure out how to get it back.

Try this: You wrap that thing, pick it up and give it to him, and say someone asked me to give you this, and I don't recognize who that person is. (The process is similar to express delivery, you can also use express delivery, spend a little money).

All kinds of methods, you yourself be smart, I don't know what kind of environment you are in, I don't know which way is good.

Now, let's come up with a second plan!

1. Tell your parents that you lost your mobile phone and return one to someone else.

Second, use your pressurized water money to pay back.

3. If you can't afford it now and don't want your parents to be angry, you don't say anything, no matter what, a mobile phone incident can show that you are an honest child, just don't do that next time. (I consider your self-esteem).

Pretend not to know, the more anxious you are, the more others can see it, and it's really not good to help him post a finding notice

If you're afraid, turn off your phone. Sneak it in his bag tomorrow.。。 That's it. If you're bold, say you're joking with her. You can also go to him now and tell him how your phone is dripped by you... Look at yourself.

Hello, this situation is actually a common occurrence in adolescence, but it is very harmful to the body, fortunately, you wake up early, and it is really rare to want to change your mind.

It is recommended that you read more tragic literary stories and books to experience the hard-won happiness of today, modern people have less material pressure, but the spirit has become empty, read more books, and slowly improve the spiritual level, those sexual desires will naturally be put aside, because at that time you may find the goal of life.

Your main task is to study, develop an interest in learning, and other healthy hobbies, and do it gradually, and don't rush it to avoid backfire. Remember, only knowledge is the last word. Break a leg!

Child, it's not your fault, everyone has this desire when they are young. People are always curious about the unknown. Due to the underdevelopment of sex education in China, you have a very strong desire to learn.

My advice to you is to find a thing you want to do, do it with your heart, and distract yourself. Another way is to find a girlfriend.

Watch TV series, put your energy in other places such as playing games, surfing the Internet, shopping, shopping, in short, think less, go to bed early and get up early, have a good rest, it's natural, don't think so much, everything will be fine.