After paying for her, I failed, my heart was cold, how to recover

Falling in love is a two-party affair, you do too much, she doesn't like you, what's the use, some are just your wishful thinking. Yes, it's wishful thinking!

Don't think that doing a lot for her, she will be moved by you and dislike you is a fact; You're just moved by yourself, touched by some outsiders, and it's completely useless. Are you willing to do so much for her, do you want to be rewarded for what you do?

You like her, it's just your own business, it's none of her's business.

On the other hand, it's true for a person. It's even more right to be a good person, don't wear out your good nature because of this incident. And chasing a girl doesn't mean that if you're good to her, she will have feelings for you, you need a way.

In addition, don't let some things affect your normal interactions with other people at any time.

Finally, believe in time, time can change everything. After a year at most, you'll notice that everything has changed.

It's hard to talk about feelings, but she knows you like her and fights with other men in front of you.

I have the feeling that this girl can't do it.

Not all girls are like that, don't put all your attention on her, maybe there's another one next to you watching over you.

Look out there, there will be better opportunities waiting for you!

Sometimes giving is not necessarily rewarding, I wish you happiness!!

You haven't been in love before, right, so you give up on yourself, eat a trench and grow a wisdom, there is still a long way to go, why does she have to be with you, you are good to her, she is yours? You replace the protagonist of your story with someone else, and you can understand it yourself, maybe your heart will be better, and the relationship is not so simple, because people's minds are very complicated, everyone has everyone's thoughts, why impose your ideas on others, and you will understand later, she has what she loves, since you like her so much, why bless it, you are a man, and if you hate her, then I can only say that you don't really love her, you just want to possess her, and there is a big difference between love and possession.

Men, just love inch by inch, three days of freshness, look, it seems to be a different person. In this era, they are afraid of being hurt and are unwilling to pay.

Some people say that because of a sad relationship, they can only make up for it through another relationship. Although I am not very in favor of this approach, it is a direction to consider. It's better to find something to forget about the relationship and not think about it all day.

Shift your mind to something else!

Listen to it and sit down with your friends. There are more sensible and gentle and beautiful girls who want to be sensible, failure is nothing, the important thing is that you do what a man should do, at least you have the courage to confess, and there are better girls waiting for you, thinking like this may make you feel better.

Put your mind in place, feel this society with your heart, everyone has been hurt, you are not the first and not the last.

- I wish you a happy new year. All wishes come true.

Time is the medicine for all pain, junior high school is still focused on academics, what beautiful girls don't have in college, as long as you are talented. Now you're more uncomfortable when you meet better girls in college.

Tetris teaches us: mistakes made accumulate and successes disappear; Plants vs. Zombies tells us that we need to adjust our state often to cope with different challenges; Angry Birds tells us:

Sometimes sink the body and mind in order to fly higher; Go-kart racing tells us: never feel that there is too much time to waste; Fruit Ninja tells us: Fruits and bombs are together, opportunities and challenges coexist.

Maybe he doesn't want to, or don't make this friend, just suggest! Satisfied.

First of all, she doesn't like you. That's for sure, I mean now.

Secondly, the girl is very strong. Looks like it's harder to master. However, I think her heart should be very kind and soft.

This kind of person needs to be carefully cared for.

It only shows that you are not what she wants, so she will be dissatisfied with you and will be picky about small details.

In fact, the main reason is that your personality is incompatible, she is too calculating, and you are too tolerant.

Maybe she was hurt in the past.

She's overly sensitive.

Maybe this is the ethereal fate.

Someone who understands you will love you the way you need to. Someone who doesn't understand you will love you the way he needs to. Therefore, the person who understands you often gets twice the result with half the effort, he loves freely, and you are happy.

People who don't understand you often get twice the result with half the effort, he loves hard, and you have to endure hardship. In the world of two people, understanding is more difficult to do than love.

This is a very reasonable statement, and you can experience it and maybe learn something.

Since they are together, when there should be problems, the two of them can communicate and talk, put what they think is right and what is wrong on the table, and don't think about it by themselves.

Sometimes what you think is good for her may not be what she thinks is true.

Maybe you're also a person who doesn't see things from someone else's point of view.

Maybe you're not a good fit together.

Your personality should be at odds, you are a bit machismo, you should find a little girl type; She's very strong and has a lot of self-esteem, which you can't take care of.

To see what type of man she admires, and then you lean towards that type.

Actually, I don't believe that a relationship that has just started can be based on deep feelings, maybe you will be a little unacceptable, but sorry, I think this is true, you may like your girlfriend very much, but not necessarily to the point of love, your girlfriend should be a person with a lot of self-esteem, a little self-centered.

She said that she is a slow heater in terms of feelings, and she should start to enter the warm-up period after half a month, and if it is still not much different from before, then maybe she is not deep enough for you.

At the beginning of a relationship, in addition to the honeymoon period, there is also a run-in period, since you like him, try to tolerate her, maybe ask her out to talk.

Sometimes it's not good for anyone to hold on to one thing, so it's better to spread it out and say it, so as not to turn the horns of the bull blindly.

It's only half a month, and the slow-heat type has to be touched a little bit, and once I fall in love with you, I will love you thoroughly, and you have to have confidence in yourself.

Hehe!! Maybe it's because your personalities don't match. You can't say who is right and who is wrong about feelings, because feelings are really difficult to grasp...

You can have a good talk with your girlfriend,,Since you can be your girlfriend,,Then she still loves you,So you change the way and talk to her,,I'm sure it will be solved soon... I wish you all happiness ...

Different personalities, difficult to communicate. If you really can't do it, just over.

The incident you said is definitely not the real reason, maybe it was the fuse, she just took the opportunity to vent, you should think about what you did before, instead of dwelling on this one thing. She may be a sensitive person, and you have to try to get to know her. Love her not only in the way you think it is good, but in the way she can accept.

Both sides calmed down. Think about it, whether it's her reason or your personal reason, whether the two sides have different outlooks on life and values, or whether she doesn't like you at all. And whether you really like her.

Love is a matter of two people, and it really can't get along. Divide it. lest both of them be injured when they are done.

There is no grass at the end of the world. I wish you to find your true love as soon as possible.

Feelings are a matter of two people at any time, and when you encounter this kind of thing, you have to be more tolerant. Your girlfriend is a slow burner because you're not good enough. Money is not everything, it is more about paying your attention, don't always think about changing yourself.

That will make him very fake to you, and he must not have very strong feelings for you. You have your actions to move her, but be sure to pay attention to the way you speak, the tone of your voice, etc. Don't always think about waiting for a return.

Since you love her very much, then you must be ready to give sincerely. I chased my girlfriend for a whole year. It doesn't matter if it's thundering, raining, or snowflakes, day in and day out.

But in the end, he reaped his love for me. You have to persevere, people are emotional creatures. Therefore, only by persevering to the end can we gain something.

I'm sure she'll be tempted to be herself.

My inner business opportunity is to earn popularity with small profits! It's just small profits but quick turnover!

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3. The demand --- everyone needs it, and it is easy to consume repeatedly.

4. Investment --- don't have a lot of money, you can't make a big profit with a big one, try to make a big profit with a small 5 profits--- profit is more than 20%.

6. The competition is small--- the market share is very large, and there is basically no one to divide a big piece of cake, so it depends on whether you can go under the knife.

7. Core competitiveness--- you have the ability and technology that others do not have, and the products you manufacture.

No one will tell you the real business opportunity, you can only explore it yourself, here is for your reference.

In fact, the questionnaire is in our hearts, as long as we have the heart to help them, even if we don't have to write the questionnaire on the surface, your actions can also hand in a satisfactory test paper!

I donated the questionnaire and finished it.