What should be obtained and what should not be obtained in life 15

In life, you should get what you deserve, and don't get what you shouldn't.

Life can be said to be very long, or it can be said to be very short.

The ancients had a saying: "Man is inherently dead, or heavier than Mount Tai, or lighter than a feather." In my eyes, it is also meaningful: what I have done in the short decades of my life is either like a feather or like Mount Tai.

If I say, it can only be theoretically talked about on paper, not reality. In life, we should go through and go through hardships to have "practice is the only criterion for testing truth".

Going back to the first sentence I wrote at the beginning, this sentence is my most genuine thought when I see the problem. What you deserve is what you deserve (here it means to get something for nothing) and work hard to get it, just as "you can't have both fish and bear's paws". So which one do you choose?

The gains and losses of life are in your own hands, because your life is your own, and others are unwilling to help you and complete your life on your behalf. Life is spelled out by oneself, not how it should be, if everything in the world is destined to have and should not have been gained and lost, then what life do we want! Is it just so muddy, cowering and resigned to fate?!

My life is up to me!

Ahem......Hmmm......A little indignant ......

Back to the theme ......

To get back to the point, according to my wishes, what I should get is what belongs to me naturally, and I have to work hard to get it, no matter how hard it is. Because that's what I deserve. What I shouldn't get is what I don't belong to, so why should I need it? Flashed people early!

If you really want to explain the "what" that should be obtained and what should not be obtained......This range is very wide, and it is difficult to unify and generalize, please forgive the kittens for not being able to do anything in this regard.

This deserved "what" may be a dream, maybe it is a result or a turning point, maybe it is your family, your ...... originThe undeserved "something" may be a sin, or it may be a depravity.

What belongs to you deserves it.

What doesn't belong to you doesn't deserve it.

There are many things that cannot be obtained by deliberately pursuing.

There is a give-and-take.

Want to get. It depends on how much you can give.

is lost.

There are many things in the world that are difficult for us to obtain, such as: time, mood, personal conscience, etc.

Maybe we can change ourselves, but we can't change the deep-rooted thinking of others, we can work hard to get results, but we can't lose in the passage of time.

We have paid, we can get it, and we must see clearly that some do not necessarily have to be obtained, as long as we cherish it, it is the best.

What is the most precious thing in life? It is "not obtained" and "lost".

It is often said that what cannot be obtained is the most precious. Yes, because we can't get it, we dream of it, we dream of it, and we pursue it all our lives. Even if it is like a moth to a fire, even if it is like a castle in the sky, even if it is like a lazy man looking up and waiting for a pie to fall from the sky, even if it is like a desert walker running and rushing into a mirage.

Because if we can't get it, we will be lost, we will despair, and we will have heart-rending pain. This feeling will be deeply imprinted in our memory, lingering, and will always trap our thoughts, affect our lives, and disturb our sleep. We can't forget what we can't get, so we decide that it's the most precious.

It is precious to not get and have lost, but this is not the most precious, the most precious thing in the world should be to grasp the happiness in your hands now, and cherish the people in front of you. Zen Master Rixiu once said: There are only three days in life - yesterday, today and tomorrow.

Those who live in yesterday are confused, those who live in tomorrow wait, and only those who live today are the most solid.

Yes, it is better to lose than yesterday, and not to gain it is better than tomorrow. The precious yesterday has been lost and will not be returned; The tomorrow that has not been obtained has not yet come, and it cannot be grasped. We should cherish today's life and spend every minute and moment of today.

Cherish what you have, even if you don't realize how important and precious it is right now; Even if it is ordinary like a grass, ordinary like a glass of water, ordinary like a grain of dust floating in the wind. Because only if you cherish it, you will not suffer from losing it in the future, and there will be no time to dwell on what you can't get.

If you have time, go home often and spend more time with your family. Don't wait until "the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the son wants to be filial and the relatives are not there" to regret, to suffer, to cry heartbreakingly.

Grasp the happiness in your hands now, and cherish the people in front of you! Because that's what the world is most precious about.

The meaning of life.

It's not about getting something.

Or lose something.

And in their own experience.

The result is bringing.

Just momentary excitement or frustration.

The process brings you.

is the most precious experience in life.

Beautiful life.

It's not just about the moment you reach your goal.

It's about the process of chasing your dreams.

The dream became a reality.

It's gratifying, of course.

Even if it doesn't work out.

As long as you have worked hard and struggled for it, you can have no regrets.

People have nothing to do with life and nothing to take with them when they die.

I don't think life really gets the so-called material things!

In the vast sea of people, rushing by, the only thing you get is love!

The first is the love of relatives - family affection, then the love of friends - the hidden love of friendship, and finally the love of lovers - love.

When you fail, when you are confused, when you are depressed, don't forget the people around you! They are the ones who give you encouragement and comfort, and they are the ones who give you the courage to stand up again. When you often don't notice or ignore them, all you need is a quick judgment!

Friends, don't work hard to pursue material pleasures, don't favor the wealth of others anymore, with family and friends, you are already the richest person!

Glory, love, dreams, hangover.

Perhaps we have thought about what we have to lose as much as we gain it. Because all gains come at a cost; But at the same time, if we look closely, we will also find that --- we also get a corresponding reward in chance, and this may be something that we often overlook, which is better than the goal we sought. Perhaps, gains and losses were originally a pair of inseparable twin brothers.

When we only see what we get and don't see it, blind joy will make us not cherish what we get. And when we only see things and sometimes we don't see them, complaining can cause us to lose many good things, and at the same time make loss meaningless ......