My boyfriend said that I had a strong personality, love to compare, and vanity

Updated on psychology 2024-05-16
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Pay more attention to your usual words and deeds, especially don't complain, I think a man without you would like a resentful woman. Care more about your family, do something that moves your boyfriend, improve your quality and temperament, and let him change his opinion of you. Wishing you happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Typical no-nonsense type. The bomb has been planted in the hearts of their families. It is not inevitable to see from this.

    The love of the female protagonist for the male protagonist. But as a man. I'm not ashamed of this male protagonist.

    Didn't you already find out when you were together? But are you not capable of telling? Why wait until I'm getting married to pick on the prick when I'm pregnant.

    This marriageIs there still happiness to speak of?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Think about whether you're really like that, and change it. For the baby, for the family, and for You. Don't be too squeamish and learn to share his worries.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since the two of them have chosen to be together, they must tolerate everything about each other, understand each other, and make concessions to each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Boyfriend has a strong sense of vanity, I advise you to break up, such men like to pretend outside, horizontal at home, and their self-esteem is still very strong, and they don't let people say it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your boyfriend has a lot of vanity, so you can talk to him and tell him that it's not right, and see if he can correct it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You have to communicate with him first, tell him that you don't like him like this very much, let him correct such shortcomings, and if he is still unwilling to change, then break up with him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You should communicate with your boyfriend and ask him not to do this in the future, and if he can't do it, you should break up with him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Tell him well, it's not good to be too vanity, it's not okay to cheat for the sake of superficial scenery, it's still necessary to seek truth from facts, and down-to-earth efforts are the best.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should find a suitable opportunity to talk to your boyfriend and tell him that this is not right. If it doesn't work, just break up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your boyfriend has a strong sense of vanity, which requires your patience, you need to persuade him patiently first, then point out some of the effects of vanity, and encourage him to correct it, and if it still doesn't work, consider breaking up.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Communicate more with your boyfriend, it's not good if your vanity is too strong, see if he can correct it, if he can't correct it, then it is recommended that you end the relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You should sit down with your boyfriend and talk to him, let him know about this problem, and be patient with him, so that he will change.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    can't get used to him, let him not be too vain, if he doesn't listen, break up, it's better for a man to be pragmatic and responsible.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In the face of vanity, our boyfriend should give him the corresponding financial power, don't expose his shortcomings in front of others, and don't make a big noise in front of others, respect his privacy, and don't be unkind to him, leave him a little space, let him be more free and relaxed, and the two can get along longer.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When you meet such a boyfriend, I think you should tell him that his consumption concept is very inappropriate, and you should also tell him that he should be down-to-earth as a person, so that he will be respected by people, and his vanity will also affect his own development.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Let him get in touch with real life, and let him experience the hard work of his parents, strong vanity will not bring substantial changes to his life, but will only make his heart more empty.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you are very concerned about your boyfriend's vanity, you can take the initiative to communicate with your boyfriend and solve the problem is the best choice.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You should make him face the reality by doing something, or talk to him well, or you can make him suffer through some things, and he may wake up.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can give some corrections and warnings, it is best to let him suffer some losses, and he will wake up and slowly change himself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When vanity kidnaps the girl's heart. Comparison is like a virus in the mind. I can't control this kind of mind.

    And the girl must have forgotten the goal of having a boyfriend. This kind of girl's thinking is still at the conceptual level. It's a definite underdog mentality.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You are stronger than anyone else. Most girls have the same vanity, while boys don't.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The world is so big, there are no wonders, there are heavens outside the sky, and there are people outside the people. There are as many as 1.4 billion people in China, and there are all kinds of people.

    Vanity is a psychological state of human beings, whether ancient or modern, Chinese and foreign, whether men, women or children, rich and poor, rich and low, all have self-esteem, if self-esteem is distorted, it is vanity. It is an excessive expression of self-esteem, a character defect in the pursuit of false appearances, and an abnormal social-emotional and psychological state that people exhibit in order to achieve honor and attract universal attention.

    Vanity is manifested in behavior, mainly blind comparison, great joy, excessive emphasis on other people's evaluation, too strong desire for self-expression, strong jealousy, etc.

    So what you say may not be a problem, but one thing worth correcting, that is, vanity is not only the preserve of girls, but also for men.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When a girl is looking for a boyfriend, she must be a boy she likes and admires! The so-called lover's eyes are out of Xi Shi! My boyfriend doesn't like it, is it still called a lover? It means that there is not enough love! Not deep enough!

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