If you want to pursue a girl, is it better for a boy to pay for a meal?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-17
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes, if your girlfriend is unique, you will also choose the AA system. Otherwise, you will have to pay the bill, then the girl will think that you are personable, not a stingy boy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Of course, it's usually a man's payment for eating with a girl, whether it's an ordinary friend, a lover, or so on. This is our custom in China.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Does this need to be asked?

    Except that you have no money.

    But if you don't have money, don't invite people to dinner.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're talking nonsense, it's better to read the gentleman's code first

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You have to pay for such a small amount of food, and you can buy electronics, clothes, and cosmetics for the rest, but it's best to sponsor a little.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can't ask someone to eat and then let someone pay the bill. Of course, if she takes the initiative to ask you, you can deal with it depending on the situation, if she insists on paying, you don't have to grab a meal for half a day, but look at the landlord asked, it's not like a person who rushes to pay, hehe, if she invites you, it will give you a chance to invite back, which is not bad. Like me, I usually don't grab it with others.,Just hand over the money first.。。

    Man,Be bold at the checkout.,Especially when you're sure you want to chase a certain girl.,Of course,The ** of the meal also has to be able to bear it with your own wallet.,If not, forget it.。。

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If a man is willing to spend money, he can only say that he can chase most of the girls, not all the girls. Because some girls still want to be beautiful and talented, and they are just a reference for money, so they are not willing to spend money to catch up with all the girls. Let's analyze this problem.

    Analysis 1: Men spend money to chase girls and spend money to chase girls, this is the most basic test in the minds of girls, if you want to chase a girl, you even need to think about the question of spending money, then you have been excluded by this girl, because girls like generous men, especially to themselves.

    So spending money chasing girls is not a multiple-choice question, but an application questionAnd it's not that you spend money to have an effect, money has to be spent, and it has to be spent on key points, so that the money spent has an effect, and it is also one of the main points of spending money to chase girls

    Analysis 2: Girls think about money Many girls value money very much, but many girls don't value money so much, girls who value money, it doesn't matter what you look like, whether you have knowledge or not, whether you have the ability or not, as long as you have money, such girls have a clear purpose and are only interested in your money.

    Girls who don't value money have requirements for many of them, some for appearance, some for knowledge, and some for ......In short, there are all kinds of requirements

    Analysis 3: Is it right to spend money chasing girls? For the correct pursuit of girls, you need to have an in-depth understanding of the object you want to chase, when you understand this girl, you will know what type of girl she is, whether she is greedy for money or has requirements for other aspects, if it is for things other than money, it is good to do what she likes.

    But if the girl has some hardware requirements such as appearance and height, it will be a different matterTherefore, when thinking about the problem outside of the hardware conditions, you must understand what kind of thinking your target girl is, so that you can chase the girl correctly

    Summary of the problem is a misunderstanding that a man who is willing to spend money can catch up with a girl, in factSpending money is only one aspect, more of an aspect is that you have to know something about your target girl, if you don't know each other, no amount of money spent is in vain.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This is not necessarily, men must not only be willing to spend money, but also do what they like, and the money must be spent in the hearts of women.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, there are many girls who care more about a boy's attitude, so you must be sincere when chasing girls, not if you have money.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Not really, and there are many girls who are more yearning for love, and these girls are not particularly material, so money cannot satisfy them.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If it's a guy who asks you to spend money, I don't think it's appropriate.

    Before becoming a boyfriend and girlfriend, the principle is that whoever proposes to meet will pay, and in the pursuit, the boy can pay to the girl according to the standard of a friend, but it will be particularly fake to ask the girl in the way of a friend. Because once a girl chooses to be with a boy, she will have a huge contribution (pregnancy and childbirth) in the later stages of the relationship, so before the relationship, the boy needs to pay more, which is a natural thing throughout the ages.

    A woman, when she is pursued by a person of the opposite sex, the condition of judging is value. Are you confident enough, calm enough, and calm enough? A girl's criterion is whether you are equal to or higher than me. The pursuit of failure is due to insufficient value.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    We all know that men and women in love give to each other. There are many different forms of expression in this giving. Among them, in terms of finance, many girls want their boyfriends to be willing to spend money for her.

    There are many people who support this, and there are many people who oppose it, so I will tell you my views on Li Xiaoji today.

    First of all, getting your boyfriend to pay for it is really a way to test whether he is genuinely paying for you. Because only the person who is willing to spend money for you can truly reflect his love and concern for you. And if he won't spend money for you, then you can tell if he values the relationship between you.

    Therefore, girls are squeamish in love, don't be afraid to let your boyfriend spend money

    When the same thing disturbs, there are many benefits for the boyfriend to spend money on his girlfriend. First of all, it can make the girl feel the happiness of being loved, which can enhance the relationship between the two. Secondly, the boyfriend's payment can also boost the man's self-confidence and make him feel that he is capable of taking care of his girlfriend's needs.

    The most important thing is that the boyfriend is willing to spend money for his girlfriend, which also means that he has a sense of responsibility and maturity, which is a virtue that many girls value.

    Of course, some people will think that girls should be self-reliant and should not rely on their boyfriends' money. But I don't think this is true, because men and women give in different ways, and everyone can experience different feelings from it. If a girl wants to experience what it feels like for her boyfriend to be willing to pay for herself, then let the man be willing to spend it!

    So, that's my opinion on "should I let my boyfriend pay for it". I hope you can find your own happiness in love, and at the same time, you should be careful not to rely too much on each other!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Girls generally shouldn't give money to boys, and boys must work hard to earn money to support their families, which can make life sweeter and happier.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. Bottom line: because she loves this man.

    But why does love mean it costs a lot of money? Going deeper, there are reasons for character.

    There is nothing wrong with expressing their love with gifts, but some women spend it to the point that they can't live anymore, and their men are often scumbags to them, and they can't help but give.

    Or maybe you don't have such deep feelings, but you don't want to spend money on it.

    Going deeper, there are reasons for character. There is nothing wrong with expressing their love with gifts, but some women spend it to the point that they can't live anymore, and their men are often scumbags to them, and they can't help but give. Or maybe you don't have such deep feelings, but you don't want to spend money on it.

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