Emotional problems, expert advice! For emotional problems, please consult the seniors!

Personally, I think you're in too much of a hurry.

Feelings can't be rushed.

If you are in a hurry, you may become true love.

If you are in a hurry, it is the so-called misstep into a thousand years of hatred.

I still feel like you're still sticking to your and her positions.

Take your time, first of all, it depends on your personal thoughts, do you want to develop with her, or do you just want to have that kind of relationship with her and end the relationship, if so, then don't harm others as soon as possible, if you really like her, take your time, you have only known each other for less than 1 month and kissed very quickly.

It is indeed painful to truly love someone but not get it. To be able to maintain that love after six years of no contact, first of all, on behalf of that boy and all the men in the world, I would like to express my deep respect and sincere blessings to you, because in this drunken society, there are so few infatuated girls like you.

Now, you only have two choices: 1 Do everything possible to contact the boy to see if he has found true love, if he already has a significant other, don't bother him, forget him; If he is still single, you should muster up the courage to confess to him, if he is also interested in you, then congratulations, you should break off with your ex-boyfriend at this time, because no man will accept that his girlfriend and ex-boyfriend are disconnected. 2. Find a boyfriend you like first and be sincere to him, which will also help you forget that boy.

Two choices, it's up to you, some problems, especially emotional problems, it's really difficult for others to help you with anything. But what I want to tell you is that there are some things, if there is any hope of redemption, we should do everything we can to redeem them, and since they are irretrievable, let him pass. Life is like walking, if you always look back and look at the road behind, then the road ahead will not be good, you will fall, which can only increase the troubles, or look forward and take the road ahead.

Although you didn't write a few words, I seem to have speculated on the source of your pain. 1. Because you are not decisive and hesitant to deal with things, you missed the opportunity in front of you, and you broke off the connection with your ex-boyfriend in the back. Emotional problems should be decided immediately, and hesitation can only bring longer pain.

2. You made that boy too good. In fact, there is not much difference between men in the world, that is, nine out of ten men are bad as you women say, and the only difference is only height and the difference between rich and poor. Human beings have this psychological trait, that is, they don't get things to think that they are the best, and if one day you do get that guy, maybe you will be disappointed.

That's all I have to write, how to choose, you can only rely on yourself. I hope you get rid of your pain soon.

Because he is the Animus in your heart, the male figure you feel you like. Therefore, he will always appear in your dreams, and it is because he is perfected in your constant thoughts. Eventually, you become more and more overwhelmed by the image.

Psychologically speaking, that is, if you miss someone for a long time, you will think that he is perfect, become the type that you are most willing to accept in your heart, or the object of your own worship, and regard him as the embodiment of most of the male images that appear in your dreams, so you think that you are dreaming of him, but in fact, you are just dreaming of men, but he is the male image defined in your heart, so it feels like you always dream of him. There is no need to be painful, just treat him as a model with a fixed pattern.

First, the person you have a crush on, you haven't confessed to him, and then you haven't met or contacted him for 6 years, and you're still dreaming of him.

Second, your ex-boyfriend is in contact with you.

What are you suffering?

Are you still thinking about your crush right now? Or still don't like your ex-boyfriend, and he's still in touch with you? You are now single.

Actually, it's not a big deal, relax a little, think about what you really want, and don't let yourself regret it.

If you can often reach the person you have a crush, it means that you never wanted to forget him, because you never really forget, or you have fewer friends of the opposite sex around you and can't find the one you love the most, so you leave your heart back to him! Especially after falling out of love, it is easiest to think of the original person, not the current one. What happened to your ex-boyfriend contacting you?

Are you faced with two choices?

In fact, you just want to make friends with him, it may be that you are too good to others, she feels a little flattered and insecure, and when you communicate with her, you emphasize that because you are friends, it is normal for you to be good to her, exclude the possibility of love, and do not want to affect her normal life, hehe'Hope it helps.

There are several possibilities, one is that she has a boyfriend, and she feels sorry for you and sorry for her boyfriend. There is also a possibility that she may not like you, and she thinks she can't afford to give her the kindness you give her. The other is that she has something unspeakable and can't be with you.

The last thing is that she may have watched too much love ** and regarded herself as the person in it.

Is it someone who has a partner, or is it just that you like her?