Why can t we come to comfort a woman or a child crying on the side of the road out of pity?

Updated on society 2024-05-11
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think some people may be afraid of encountering unclean things, or afraid of getting into some trouble, so they see a child crying on the side of the road, and do not come forward to comfort them.

    It's a feeling of sympathy plus empathy, first crying in public, and not giving the party a long face, shows that the person concerned is so sad or sad that it is uncontrollable, so that he has to cry regardless of his image, and this sad negative emotion will arouse many people's sympathy.

    In particular, almost everyone has experienced crying, and they have cried in public when they were children, although the reason may be laughed at when they grow up, but the negative emotions of crying when the heart and liver tremble still leave a deep memorySo when you see people crying uncontrollably in front of everyone, it will also bring a kind of empathy to onlookers, because almost everyone has felt this emotion.

    Mencius said that everyone has compassion, and there are also sympathies, so the emotion of crying can easily arouse the audience's subconscious concern.

    Actually, I think people have a herd mentalityIf a person is seen crying, there will definitely be someone to comfort and comfort, and the one who resonates will sincerely hope that you can forget your unhappiness for a short time, and forget it temporarily in the warmth of comfort. And people who don't resonate, out of morality and a certain herd mentality, everyone comforts, and they don't act very well, so they symbolically comfort and comfort, anyway, there will be no loss, and they will not let others have it. Ah, you see, somebody is so sad, and you just look there without any sympathy, how can you come to such a conclusion.

    This is the cognitive heart, the beginning of people, the nature is good, there is nothing wrong with compassion, it is a kind of beauty, but you can't let a person with strong self-esteem feel that your help to him is a kind of pityThis mood also has a certain pertinence, not limited, not narrow.

    So I didn't go to comfort the women or children on the side of the road to watch themselves.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because the conventional wisdom is that they may be dangerous people, you can't comfort them.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think this will make a big change in the girl's state of mind, so don't do it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    They may have something of their own, and don't want others to comfort them.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This thing has something to do with their lives, and it may depend on you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is mainly because in this society now, your kindness will harm you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think we should have a loving heart, the oldest love sometimes our traditions.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think it's better to look at it in the past, maybe it's a problem.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The main thing is that you have to see if the child and the woman are really alone.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In fact, this is a superstitious statement, and there is no scientific basis to look at yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you see a woman or a child crying on the side of the road, don't go to comfort them out of pity, mainly because you are afraid of getting something unclean.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't have pity to come forward to comfort, because your wife can't want to stick to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you see a woman or a child crying on the side of the road, you should comfort them out of kindness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you see a woman or child crying on the side of the road, you should look around to see if it is a trap.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    These are all superstitions, there is no scientific basis and no scientific research, do not believe it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you see a woman or a child crying on the side of the road, don't come forward to comfort you out of pity, because it may not be human.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is a superstitious claim that is not credible and has no scientific basis. Because people think it's just bad stuff.

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