Tell me, what is the reason for you to marry far away?

Parents are patriarchal, they don't think about their daughter's happiness, they just want their daughter to find a rich man, marry out to help their son, and will not drag down her parents. The rich man in their eyes is that there are several houses, a façade, and an industry in the family, and the future son-in-law had better obey his father-in-law and mother-in-law and act generously. They didn't think that their daughter had any capital to marry the so-called rich man.

Rich people will look for standard beauties, and their daughters are worthy. Hehe, just forced me to go on a blind date, the kind of man who is very rich, there are young people, there are men who are divorced with children, there are middle-aged and old men, and there is a 45-year-old man who wants to continue the string! Hehe, it's better that I went to another place by myself and got married.

I'm from Guangxi, most of us are going to give birth to boys, I don't like it, my sister-in-law gave birth to 4 daughters, and it is possible to have another child, I am afraid of marrying into such a family, so I chose to marry far away, married to Hubei, my husband and in-laws are very good to me, just let us have a few, there is no patriarchy here, except for going home farther, I didn't go back to my parents' house, I will be homesick, go back, 4 children at home, it's too noisy, I'm impatient to live for a few days!

Marrying far away is an unspeakable pain, and many women who marry far away, even if they say that they are living happily, are full of water, just because the ugliness of the family cannot be publicized, there is no way.

I regret marrying away, I regret marrying away, sometimes I really regret marrying far away for various reasons, think about it sometimes it's pitiful, there is no place to say if there is a grievance, I can only endure it myself, and cry if I can't stand it.

If you marry someone else, you will no longer be able to rely on the help of your parents and other relatives. The love of parents is selfless, and they are willing to help you in any way they can as long as they are alive.

Guangxi married Hunan, eight years, my husband was very good to me. The salary card is in charge of me, and it is almost obedient to me, and the person is married to the right person. But when I came to Hunan, I found that I had no friends and relatives, and I usually had nowhere to go, and as soon as my husband left the door, it had almost nothing to do with me.

There is no more small gathering with the little sisters, and I see my parents once or twice a year, and I owe them too much. The most emotional thing is why my husband is not from the next village.

I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years, and I think it's very suitable for each other, and his family treats me very well, but because I'm from another place and too far away from home, my parents cry and disagree, saying that I have no conscience, abandon them, and marry thousands of miles away.

I am also a daughter who married far away, I have 3 brothers and sisters, just one of my daughters, married from Hubei to Jiangxi, and I have 2 children, but I am so sad when I think of my distant marriage, why I didn't listen to my father at the beginning, alas, I know how bitter the bitter fruit I brewed.

A lot of the time, I ask myself, why did I choose to marry far away, people who marry far away know the pain of not being able to go home during the Spring Festival, and whenever you see someone go back to their parents' house in three or five days, you only have envy.

I was introduced by someone else, so I will never introduce someone to others in the future, because when I quarrel, I will think of the person I introduced, and if she hadn't introduced me to my husband, I wouldn't have known each other

What's so bad about marrying far away can leave the relatives who look down on you and leave that kind of sinful face. What a blessing it is to be able to start afresh in another place. Even if you are not happy, at least there is a new beginning.

If you work far away, you will naturally marry someone at the place of work, and then you will marry far away.

I feel that I will marry when I meet the right person, no matter how close or far I marry, I must first have a good mother's family and a good mother-in-law's family

Nine out of ten women who marry far away will regret it, and the remaining one is also deceiving herself and saying that she is happy, and she doesn't regret it.

What about marrying locally, what do you expect to rely on those relatives to help you? Or what to expect from parents? The original family is not happy, and what I want to escape is the environment without the temperature and cold war

Henan is ready to marry Dashan in Lixian County, Gansu, but my father and relatives do not agree that Gansu Dashan is not as good as Henan's development! My father said that if I marry far away, I will cut off the father-daughter relationship, and I will get married at the end of August, and I am now more than three months pregnant! I didn't even dare to inform my mother's family! Now there is a dilemma ......

I really dreamed just now that I was married, but he is not my current boyfriend, and he is very unfortunate, my current boyfriend is an uncle to me, and he is very good to me, he is from Sichuan. I'm from Guangxi, we've been together for almost a year, he's very hardworking, hard-working, and self-motivated

I didn't know anything at the beginning! When I was young, I had a sick brain and believed in love! I can't choose my own path! Kneel and kneel to finish.

Swallow the bitter fruit you brewed by yourself, who told you not to listen to your parents at the beginning!

I didn't marry far away, my parents and husband were around, and when I was looking for a partner, I decided not to marry far away, and my husband wasn't around, I couldn't stand it.

I can finally stay away from my mother who is full of negative energy!

Everyone wants to be able to have a happy life.

Building a happy family is one of the most important prerequisites for living a happy life. Therefore, if you pursue a happy and sweet love and marry the person you love the most, you can live a happy and fulfilling life. In the process of pursuing their sweet love and happy marriage, some people choose to marry far away.

The so-called long-distance marriage is to marry oneself far away, which is far away from one's hometown, at least not in the same city. In such a state, you will stay away from your parents' home and not see your parents and other relatives for a long time.

Whether they will make the choice of marrying far away, different people have different answers.

Specifically, there are several specific options for whether to marry far away:

1. In order to pursue a happy life, some people choose to marry far away.

The purpose of marrying far away is to start a family with the person you love.

Therefore, for some people, since they have found their soulmate, then marrying him is the ultimate goal, and at this time, marrying far away is a natural thing. Even if there are some practical difficulties, it will not affect these people to make the choice of marrying far away.

2. Because they are reluctant to leave their parents and hometown, some people don't want to marry far away.

Some people are very dependent on their parents and are reluctant to leave their hometown.

For these people, it is difficult to accept the living conditions of leaving their hometown and parents, so these people basically do not choose to marry far away, but choose their soulmates in or near their hometown.

3. For couples who truly love each other, for the sake of love, of course, they will choose to marry far away.

For two people who really love each other and decide to get married, if both parties are in different cities, the woman will inevitably marry far away.

Therefore, as long as the man and woman truly love each other, then, of course, the woman will choose to marry far away, marry him, and form a happy family.

4. Distant marriage needs to fully consider various practical difficulties in life.

Marrying far away means living in another city away from home.

The environment of that city is completely different from my hometown, and my living habits are also different, and I will face a new life there. Therefore, when you are faced with the choice of whether to marry far away, you need to carefully analyze all aspects of the situation, clarify whether there are factors that affect your life, consider whether you can solve these problems, and then make a final decision on whether to marry far away. In this way, the problem can be solved rationally.

According to the above analysis, long-distance marriage is the choice to pursue happy love and a happy marriage, but for the problem of long-distance marriage, you must also conduct a calm analysis and make rational judgments, so that you can truly get a happy life.

The reason why I married away was that I was too naïve and idealized my marriage and the relationship between the two. In fact, selling life is not like this, and I have to make adjustments myself, and I divorced after 25 years of persistence in Zhongyun Shed, and returned to the original place to live a reliable life.

Tell me, what is the reason for you to marry far away?

I chose to marry far away because of my mother, because my mother loves money like life, and if she doesn't marry far away, she will calculate it. Originally, I hadn't considered the question of marrying far away or not, but after witnessing a friend's marital tragedy, I suddenly woke up. I envy that friend because she is married close to home, and her mother loves money like life, so her married life has been unstable, and her mother can't wait to keep all the money of her brother and mother-in-law's family for herself, and she asks for money almost every day.

My friend couldn't escape, and her in-laws' family couldn't move because of her mother's calculations, so everything went on, and in the end, not only my friend couldn't stand it, but her husband and her in-laws couldn't stand it, and realized that they didn't want to continue without being calculated by her mother, so they just broke off the relationship with her, so they divorced.

Marriage is a major event related to a girl's happiness in her life, and the bad thing about marriage lies in the boy's character, cultivation, and knowledge. As long as you find someone who loves you, you can accept it whether he is at the end of the earth or on the other side of the world.

He has grown up and has the ability to live independently, and does not need to live under the protection of his parents. Distant marriage can concentrate all energy and time on running one's own small family, rather than using one's maiden home as a refuge against conflicts.

Some young girls are young and vigorous, and when there is a little family crisis, they are not just faced with communication and discussion, patience and tolerance, but willful, and go back to their mother's house to blackmail boys, so that the attitude of solving the marriage can only make the problem worse and worse.

Girls who marry far away will take home as their own pursuit goal, and the boy's hope is their own hope, and they can solve all problems by themselves, so they can exercise their independence and endurance more quickly, and integrate into the family faster, so they not only support distant marriage, but also accept distant marriage with great regret.

Distant marriage. As for the word distant marriage, it was only after ten years of married life in Tanzhen that I gradually realized the true meaning behind these two words. Compared with the literal understanding, the deeper meaning is that the role play as a woman, wife, and mother all play different meanings.

I was still a girl in the flower season who came to this city, and I was very ignorant of the future, and I was so small in this flowery metropolis that I was in the core, and my life was the experience of different periods that created my current self.

I have been accustomed to loneliness since I was a child, and it is appropriate to describe me as having enough to feed the whole family and not be hungry, and I never thought that a person like me could get married and have children, and also live a married life like a besieged city.

I don't know what marriage is, how to be a mother, no one has taught me, I haven't taught it in textbooks, and I have seen a lot of chicken soup only to find that it is all on my own to digest and change.

After I experienced the pain of marriage, helplessness, and countless times of wanting to give up, I realized that it takes courage to marry far away, and I saw a text, please love the girl who marries far away, because she gave up her family to come to the city where there is only you. It's a very heavy topic, I envy that I can go home to have my mother's cooking, and I can talk to my father about work, such a simple daily life is very difficult for me to achieve.

It is also through married life that I know how important it is to have similar interests, like-mindedness, and a good heart, and it is the most helpless choice to look down on everything. It's possible that the other party thinks the same as me. Have you ever felt this way?

I once wanted to feel after leaving.