Eager parents to teach their children the content of the Tang Seng version

Smart parents educate their children and never force them, but choose empathy and symbiosis Many parents envy other people's children so well, and they take the exam again and again.

1. Nothing is left behind. In fact, we should also know that behind these excellent children, there is a big difference between the education style of their parents and that of ordinary parents.

The child of my best friend's family was admitted to Tsinghua University last year, which made everyone around me feel very envious. But when she was educating her best friend, she actually said such a sentence: manage when you should manage it, don't care when you shouldn't manage it, and let the child decide for himself.

Indeed, this is also the case, everything is according to her own heart's thoughts from childhood to adulthood. In such a situation, the lack of initiative of parents to pay attention to their children will gradually increase. Therefore, her children do not need their parents to worry too much about all aspects of homework and making friends.

In life, we also want others to understand us. For children, they also want their parents to understand their environment and what they really think in their hearts.

1) Communicate with your child on an equal footing

In the process of getting along with children, we must be clear that excessive oppression, excessive suppression, and excessive arrangement will only make children extremely angry, angry, resistant, and break the jar.

Only by communicating with children on an equal footing and understanding the true thoughts of children can we be qualified and able to educate children. If we just follow what we think in our hearts, we can't make any judgments about our children's behavior.

2) Guide the child appropriately

What we said above about thinking from the child's point of view is not only to listen to all the arrangements of the child, but to know how to let go and guide appropriately in the process of getting along with the child. When children deviate from principle, it is more necessary for parents to bring them back to the right path.

3) Reflect on whether it is for the good of the child

When we want to pay for our children, why not think about whether it is really good for our children to do so?

After careful consideration, if you find that what you are doing does have a good impact on your child, then you will do it without hesitation. If there is any deviation, we try to follow the child's opinion rather than make a random decision.

The growth of children themselves is not as simple as we think, especially in the process of getting along with parents and children, there may be more and more problems.

Tang monk-style preaching "is like wearing a mantra for children, which often causes children's disgust and leads to failure to achieve the purpose of preaching."

It's a very headache experience, and it's also very ineffective, because the child won't really listen, so parents must change this way of teaching.

The child is very uncomfortable listening to the ears, and feels that the parents are unusually nagging, and this kind of fragmented thoughts make the child lose patience and become very irritable, or just turn a deaf ear, and listen very little, and what the parents say is equivalent to saying it in vain.

The impact on the child is quite large, and it will make the child very irritable, feeling that the parents are chattering all the time, but they don't understand what their thoughts are.

It really has a great negative impact on children, and to a certain extent, it will not only make children disgusted with you, but also be in a particularly depressed state, which is very bad.

Parents "Tang monk" preaching, so that it is easy for children to have a rebellious mentality, which is not conducive to the growth and development of children, on the road of children's growth, we need to educate and imperceptibly educate children from all aspects.

1, especially for children in the rebellious period, the constant nagging of parents will make the children more and more irritable.

2. Over time, even the parents can't listen to what they say, which will also aggravate the child's rebellious psychology and make the rebellious period longer.

3. Serious cases may even affect the child's subsequent personality.

It should be said that it is very big, and children are very tired of their parents' talk about the church, and they may have the idea of running away from home.

Parents' Tang monk education often plays a negative role in children, it will make children form a rebellious psychology, it is best to make sense of the truth, children understand everything.