How do you think about the behavior of elders who do not listen to the advice of their family member

Many elders are used to giving orders, always in the position of leader, and if you ask him to listen to you, he will feel that his authority is being challenged, even if it is for his own face, he will definitely get this thing done.

Once a person is old, he will be like a child, very stubborn, easily provoked, you don't let him do it, he has to do it.

Everyone is responsible for their own choices, and if you say that the other party doesn't listen, then he can't blame you afterwards.

In my opinion, such an elder is like a very willful child, which makes people feel very helpless, but they can't manage it.

Like my uncle, when he was young, he was really an alcoholic. Every time I get drunk with others, I crawl home, and every time I fall with a bloody face.

All the people should persuade him to stop drinking, and one day his body will be drunk. But he just insisted on going his own way, and he couldn't listen to anyone's words.

Later, his body really collapsed, but he was still like a child, and he always asked me to secretly give him a sip or two, which really made me angry and helpless.

It's quite brave, if it is without interfering with the interests of others. If one's behavior interferes with the interests and freedom of others, others persuade them, and they insist on going their own way, which is selfishness. It's good to have your own ideas and stick to your choices. But it depends.

This one is very helpless. For example, my father liked to smoke and drink. I always drink alcohol before every meal, smoke in my spare time, and lose my energy if I don't smoke.

Persuade him to quit smoking, and he will be annoyed after a few strokes. directly scolded and said that I was in my sixties, what happened to smoking a cigarette and drinking a little wine, and I still care about it. Later, due to physical discomfort, he went to the hospital for an examination, and secretly told the doctor to strictly prohibit smoking and alcohol.

It seems that when the older generation insists on going their own way, it still needs to be skillfully dealt with to be effective.

We often say that the old children and the old children are the old people after getting old, there will be some special children's behavior, this time we have to understand the elderly, because their ideas are very different from ours, at this time we must take the initiative to communicate with them, let us know their thoughts and help them better.

My mother-in-law suffered a lot when she was young, and her life was also very frugal, but now that she is older, she has some bad living habits, such as eating a lot of food, but eating very few vegetables, stir-frying vegetables for several days, and feeling that vegetables are more expensive than rice! She has stomach problems again, but she doesn't listen to any persuasion, and she still insists on going her own way! I really hope she can change, after all, those habits have a health impact!

The elders think that he has rich social experience, he has walked more roads than you have crossed the bridge, she always says this, he doesn't believe that what you say is right, she always stubbornly thinks that what she chooses, she has a judgment vision, absolutely can't be wrong, it is absolutely impossible to suffer, and the elders in the family basically report this idea. But it is difficult to suddenly define or change this thing, because the elders in the family do have richer social experience than ours, but sometimes they can't see the essence of some things, it can be said that the authorities are obsessed, what we can do is to raise its vision by a degree, he can naturally see the whole picture of things, or if you have patience, you tell him from the beginning, what is going on with this thing he has experienced, and he can naturally know that although he is an elder, he is very stubborn, But he has the ability to make normal judgments, and if he thinks what you say makes sense, he will naturally listen to your opinion.

My dad is that kind of person.

At the beginning, I told him not to invest anything, but it turned out to be good, he didn't listen to us, got all the money into investment, and didn't need money for a while. I have to borrow it from others in a low voice, alas, ......

Although there is a saying that ginger is still old and spicy, I think it is better to discuss it with your family when you encounter a big event.

"Newborn calves are not afraid of tigers", so it is inevitable to suffer, as for those of us in the middle, if we don't listen to the advice of others, then the social lesson is really "wonderful" for us. As the saying goes, "good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June".

Many times, you don't need to be reminded by the people around you, and even come over to advise for your better, you are also aware of your own character flaws, and the character flaws that have been accompanied by you are like your own shadow many times, staying by your side for a long time, and subtly forming a habit, it is really not a word or two of advice that can get rid of it.

The ancients said: The country is easy to change, the temperament is difficult to change, and the personality and temper of people are basically born from the genetic blood genes of their parents.

Everyone has a weakness of character, and it is purely normal that on a certain occasion and something is not completely said and done. The concept of people is to always want to change others, but ignore their own shortcomings, people's thoughts are stubborn, and there are very few people who can think that they are bad, this is arrogant human nature. When I can listen to the advice of others, I have reached the point where I hit the south wall without a road, and the so-called coffin does not cry, and at this point, I may listen to the persuasion.

Don't be surprised, everyone is the same, don't impose your ideas and thinking on others, people are individual souls, only self-management has the final say, and they are their own masters.

For this kind of person with poor self-control, there is really no good way, even his family, it takes a lot of skill to deal with it. Of course, the easiest way is to let his family stare at him, which is a little cruel, but it does work.

Being more rebellious, arrogant, and good-looking, always wanting to do something that others don't think of, and wanting to be recognized, such a psychology is unhealthy and should be reflected.

The kind of person who is self-centered, who overestimates his own value in his own heart, who feels that he is impeccable in all aspects, and even thinks that he accounts for a large proportion of his own affairs in the world, will never listen to the advice of the contrary. He will feel how perfect he is, and he will need others to point fingers, prevaricate you with various excuses, and even argue more than you. For this kind of person, saying too much will do more harm than good, so simply let him hit the wall, let him suffer, let him touch the mold, eat a trench and grow a wisdom, in the future he will always change the rules, he will be able to understand the true meaning of "loyalty is good for action".

If the person who persuades you is a person you agree with and appreciate, then you will not ignore his suggestion, on the contrary, that person you feel inferior to you in your heart or do not understand or understand you, you will have resistance.

Everyone has a certain phenomenon of rejection of others. Sometimes you know that you are not right, but when others point it out, you will feel repulsed.

There is no way, often helpless in the communication with parents, it is simply helpless, there may be three different views, the idea is not at the same level at all, you want to convince them that it is simply whimsical, and they are very stubborn, they don't listen to what you say anymore, either endure it, or simply ignore it, I don't know what else to do?

Liu Bei, a powerful military figure like Cao Cao, has to listen to the opinions of the military advisor, and a rich boss like Ma Yun has to cooperate with his subordinates to conquer the country. Don't you understand the truth of loyalty? Tell him.

This kind of person is not saved, to put it bluntly, he is not suitable for business.

You have to think carefully about whether or not to continue

Change your self-centered thinking.

Do the math if you can hold on.

Hello! The old man is indeed very stubborn sometimes. But we can't talk about him all the time, because he won't necessarily listen to you, and he will even be disgusted by your advice.

Don't be angry at this time, since he doesn't wear gloves, you can help him pull the brake off or some other measure if you know it.

This is also an opportunity for you to be filial!

May you live a happy life!

You quietly pull the gate off, and the old man takes it and pushes it back on.

First let him calm down and ask him to sit down for a cup of tea. Then explain patiently to him, but don't talk nonsense, pick the key points and advise. The tone should be gentle and calm, so that he can listen to it.

I think you should euphemistically say that after all, he is an elder, and Saddle is slow to let him accept .........

Induce ,,, or find elders of elders.

You don't understand the adult world, you can't use your mind to consider his thoughts, whether he loses money or anything else, he must have his intentions.

Talk to him, it's best to be tactful, he's your father, and his bad temper is also because of this family, be considerate, he has suffered countless hardships outside.

Let him go, and when he comes to his senses and talks to him for a day, how can he dominate the elders as a child.

Tell your mother to take care of the money, don't use it for him, what does he want to buy and ask your mother to buy it for him.

Communicate with him more, if you still insist on going your own way, then you can only endure it

I can only endure it, and I can ignore him when I grow up.

Who does your dad get along with, you go to him and ask him to explain it to your dad.

Every life is an independent individual, the older generation of people think in the era of his birth, the great changes in society do not allow outdated people, do their best, adjust their thinking, keep up with the pace of the times, and manage themselves is the king, and there is no need to argue with the older generation or even the older two generations, they have been eliminated by the times.

You can learn your habits or do your work, and if there is anything else he can interfere with, the punishment must be with the consent of the parents.

It's hard, my dad is like this, that's only less communication, and you don't want to change him.

persuade him to continue like this, sooner or later, he will become a scum of society and will not succeed in his career.

Let him follow the little things, and stop him from the big things.

Ignore him, snub him, and persuade him if he is a good man.

Everyone has their own way of life, learning to respect, understand and tolerate.

When you are old, you should be dignified and do things for the curve.

I didn't know how to turn back after suffering hardship.

For there is a father there is a son, and so am I.

Persuade him, tell him to understand, what's going on.

Did your dad teach him all his life?

Not much, the elderly are to be tolerant.