How to get along with people who are self righteous and arrogant and do not listen to the persuasion

Otherwise, if you listen to him for everything, you can get along.

But if you do that, people will think that you are just stammering him all the time.

To deal with this kind of person, not to mention getting along with each other, it is very difficult to get along.

It is recommended not to bird this kind of person directly.

Additional description: My child is 16 years old this year, and he used to be very well-behaved and obedient when he was a child, but some time ago, I was busy with work and neglected him, because I didn't care much about him, he was fooling around outside, and he contracted a bunch of bad problems. Now I always ask me for money to go to KTV with his so-called friends, or to play games, and if I don't give it, I secretly take money while I'm not paying attention.

My child's school teacher often talked to me, saying that he had been very rebellious recently, secretly playing with his mobile phone in class, his grades plummeted, and he often skipped class, telling me to take care of my child. But I'm preaching to him now, he didn't hear it, he always contradicted me, sometimes he would quarrel with me if he talked too much, and I also beat him, but it didn't work! I'm really tired now, I really don't know how to teach him!

I'm a real failure as a parent! Are there any parents who are in a similar situation to me? I want to learn how you educate your children!!

Mr. Zhang. Master of Education.

In fact, the child's mother does not need to be too anxious in this situation, your child is in a growth stage, many parents will feel tricky, the child will have rebellion, early love, school boredom and other problems, most of which are caused by the parents' doting and neglect of family education, and do not do the right guidance with the growth of the child. In addition, as a child's mother, don't beat and scold your child, it is easy to have the opposite effect.

I suggest that the child's mother consult a professional family education teacher to understand the reasons and psychology of the child becoming like this, professional people do professional things, only with the right methods and guidance skills, will be of better help to the child. I know a professional home education teacher, his method of educating children is very professional, you can go to him to learn, this is his WeChat: hgj266 (if your child has rebellious, tired of school, lack of concentration, learning decline and other growth problems, you can add the teacher WeChat ask).

Landlord. I'm here to send you good news, I got the ideal sensible child, I really appreciate the teacher's guidance, and thank you Instructor Wang for the recommendation. I added the teacher's WeChat message on the same day and told the teacher about my child's situation.

The teacher patiently pointed out the mistakes I made in my child's education, and I agreed and regretted it, but I was still at a loss. Later, the teacher made an education plan according to my family situation and the child's situation, and at the same time, there were professional teachers who followed up and guided me to teach me how to solve these problems.

As soon as I have a question, I ask the teacher on WeChat, and educate the child little by little according to the teacher's method, and the child has changed significantly: he is willing to take the initiative to communicate with me, and he is no longer angry with me, and the child is willing to go to school! The child's school teacher said that the child has made great progress recently, and now he is listening carefully in class and completing his homework.

I gradually realized that all kinds of problems of children are due to the lack of education awareness of our parents, some education is simply wrong, if we rely on simple preaching and scolding to educate children, children will only be farther away from us, children are growing up, we must also learn how to be parents, keep up with the growth of children!

Anything is attached to him, and there is no dispute.

What is your purpose? Words to describe him are derogatory. If you want to be friends, the only way is to make friends! Cheats for you: the more inferior you are, the more flamboyant!

This type of person has one thing in common, and it comes from.

In fact, their inner hearts are not as strong as their appearances, so they make a self-righteous posture to confuse the public. Get along with them to be courteous and righteous, neither humble nor arrogant. Let them digest and experience the rest.

Of course, everyone wants to be with someone who is comfortable. But they also need love and communication. Getting along with others is an art, as long as you lower yourself by three points and look at others by one point, you can reflect your high emotional intelligence.

It's more difficult to get along with, the best way is to hold him and make him happy, and worry that he is happy, but you don't have to say what it actually is, because such people are usually more vain, and if you do it with him, he may be more angry, and the relationship is very bad.

If this person is your leader, you have to become better! When you're tall, you don't think he's arrogant!

Whatever he says, either don't say it or go along with it, try not to cause a quarrel.

And why get along with this kind of person.

Do what you want to do, and don't pay too much attention to him.

Since it is a family bai person, you have to care, you record where it is self-righteous, save a little more, dao, and then write the correct view.

Back to the point, find a full.

Answer: When the whole family is there, recite all the things you have written,,, kill him at once,,, and then give him hope to regain his confidence, and everyone will encourage him again, and tell him not to be arrogant again.

Why do you want to get along with such people again?

This kind of person generally ignores him, and when he suffers a blow or defeat one day, he himself will not be so arrogant. Hope!

In fact, this is also very simple, if you meet a person who is arrogant, you can ignore him and have less contact.

Such people are often the most empty people, people love to listen to good things, you follow him, maybe he will think you are a good person.

Hello, such a person, first satisfy his desire for attention and a sense of existence, agree with and affirm his ideas, and show that you are listening carefully to his opinions. 2.This step should be based on your knowledge of your own point of view, the other party cannot know everything, you only need to talk about the main issue.

3.If he still insists on not changing. You should try to work with him as little as possible, don't go deep into friendships, and avoid deeper contacts.

Ignore him and say nothing in response.

I think there are two situations, one is that he is a real big man, he can pick and carry his shoulders, and he has money and talent, answer.

With strong ability and competitiveness, this kind of man is a real big man, this kind of person is rare in a hundred years, you can rest assured to be a little woman! Please trust him absolutely! But if it's the kind of poor little man who can't pick his shoulders and can't lift his hands, has no money, no ability and no ambition, just relying on bullying women to grow his prestige, he will hurry up and do as far as he can, he will bully women as a means to build self-esteem, and the psychology is quite dark, you run quickly.

If you have to stay with him for some other reason, then you have to wear a mask, and you must be polite to him on the surface, lest he give you little shoes. But he really bullied you, you must use some kind of resolute way to express your position, let him know that you are not easy to bully This kind of person ** exists, and it is a matter of time before it happens, you must practice a thick enough skin and strong enough hardness to deal with him.

Self-righteous to not everyone is like this, successful men should be more likely to have a strong sense of achievement, will feel quite powerful because of success, will be a little proud and proud, but not arrogant, depending on who it is, some people will be arrogant, self-righteous, everything can not be too one-sided, modest or there are many people.

Successful men don't do that, as long as the nouveau riche does.

Go directly to her and ask her why she is doing that to you If you really can't do it, you can break off your friendship with her This kind of person doesn't want to be friends What if she has money, does she earn it, and she has the ability to spend the money she earns to show off in front of others What kind of interest is it to spend your parents' money to show off in front of others.