Should you be friends with your former crush?

I think since it's a crush, you can still be friends, after all, he doesn't know that you like you, and you haven't pierced that layer of window paper yet, so there are not so many scruples between each other, and it won't be too embarrassing to meet, so I think there are multiple ways to be friends, and you should be friends or friends!

I don't think so. Because they have all had crushes on each other, there will always be feelings, even if they or the other party have their own objects, but they always have expectations for the previous crush.

If you don't control it well, you will really break up other people's feelings, and your own friends will be lost. Since we have all had a crush, let's put this relationship aside, we will always meet the best, and we must sincerely bless others, we must not be people who are different from the outside. I hope I don't become the type of person I hated at the beginning.

Everything must have a certain degree, what kind of things to do and what not to do, I believe that everyone's heart is very clear.

Hello, if it's me, I don't want to be friends with her, because I don't lack friends, what I lack is a girlfriend I love deeply, as the object of my crush, and also the person I have fantasized about holding hands with him and entering the marriage hall countless times, if I want to be friends with him, then my heart will be unstable all the time!

For myself, I will never be able to be friends with the person I like, that feeling will be very awkward, and I will feel uncomfortable when I get along, and I will try my best to suppress myself even though I like each other. If you can't be a couple, it's better to be like a stranger. I really can't understand that people who are willing to be friends with their crush for life, doesn't it make you feel bad about getting along with each other?

How would you feel if the other person had a significant other? It's really painful.

I think there is nothing that a former crush can't be friends with, if the two people are not together, but they don't find faults, friends can still do it, because after all, there are many friends and many roads. And the two of them understand each other better, so I think being friends is the best choice.

It depends on whether you open up and stop him as a crush, but as a real friend, I think for me, I will, because the person I once had a crush must have a lot of shining points on him, which fascinates me and appreciates it, and it is very fortunate to be able to make friends with such a person.

I think that when it comes to the person you once had a crush, depending on the situation, if both of you are married and have your own families, then don't contact them too much, because that will affect the stability of both families. So in this case, you shouldn't be friends, just the most familiar strangers! If you're not married yet, and you don't have a partner yet, then you can be friends.

It depends on the situation, I think if you don't have a crush on her anymore, then I think of course you can be friends, maybe you can be best friends, but if you still like her, then forget it, after all, you still love her, it's unrealistic to be friends, you still can't help but want to be together.

I'm a relatively cheerful person, if we don't fall in love now, then we can still be friends with our crush, and confess at the right time, but if we have a girlfriend now, then we should cut off contact with our crush and cherish our current girlfriend.

I don't think it should be.,I think it's okay to be friends.,You also have a good impression of people.,Or you wouldn't have had a crush on him before.,And he didn't recruit you to provoke you.,How about making a friend?,Maybe you're a little happy in your heart.。

With a partner then you'd better try to forget about him and wait until he breaks up with that person before liking him, the only thing you can do now is to bless him, because you like him, you definitely want him to be happy, right? All I can tell you now is what you can do to pursue him if he breaks up with that person. If only he doesn't like that person anymore.

If you really like him, you should try to be friends with him first, and then slowly care about him in all aspects, but not too much, otherwise he will have a sense of distance from you and feel that he owes you a lot, so that he will try his best to get rid of you and return everything you gave him. So be sure to keep a proper distance. Be hot and cold to him.

Then after a long time, if you are acquainted, you can first make a very high request to him, the kind that he cannot achieve if it is too high, pay attention to not ask him to associate with you, to make other requirements, do not involve emotions, and then he will refuse. Then he will feel guilty, and then you will make a lower demand. It's better not to be too greedy.

And then because he rejected you before. If you refuse again this time, it will be a little too ruthless. Then the odds of agreeing to you this time will be a bit high.

If you don't say yes, and you continue to make a lower request than the one you just made, then he will definitely agree to you. If he still won't say yes, then you can start to give up, because no matter how hard you try in the future, he will just be indifferent. If I promise you, then you can slowly promote the relationship with him in the next things, in fact, this is enough, you don't need to be too pretentious, it's okay.

Well, go for it. Good luck!

But if you find that the person you like has a partner, you need to face it rationally, because since you know that the other party has a girlfriend, then you should clearly know not to act impulsively, restrain your words and deeds, and don't let your emotions affect their emotional development.

Crush is humble, obscure, and may not be able to have a good outcome, like a whale starved of oxygen in the deep sea of 6,400 meters, never tired of it! If the boy you like has a girlfriend, then don't ruin the boy's relationship, loving someone doesn't have to have each other, hoping that the other party is happy is the deepest love, in fact, being an ordinary friend, but can communicate better.

The person you like has an object, but you always want to give yourself an answer to get out, then you can find an opportunity to confess to the other party, but be sober, whether the confession is successful or not, you choose to let go. Give yourself a reason to let go, let yourself die, and at the same time let the other person know what he thinks, and let himself say goodbye to the past! Not interfering in the feelings of others is moral and the best blessing to others!

If you have a crush on someone, the best thing to do is to choose to stay away, or completely forget from your heart, because people already have a love object, if you continue to have a crush, you will not have any benefit to yourself, and it will fall deeper and deeper, which will cause harm, and may affect your feelings and future, there is really no need for that, or be rational. Although love is free, and crush is also your own behavior, you must also have a bottom line, and you must have your own ideas, and don't do things that hurt yourself.

If they love each other very much, and the crush doesn't like you, you shouldn't bother them, sometimes loving someone doesn't have to get the other party, sending good wishes is also a manifestation of love.

If you feel that you don't have a chance, then let go as soon as possible, stop losses in time, take back your feelings, and find someone who suits you.

If you feel that you still have a chance to be willing to be, then like him silently, do what you have to do, hide this feeling for him in your heart, and wait for the opportunity.

If the crush has a partner, then you should wish him happiness during the period of his existence and don't get involved in his life, but if he breaks up with the partner later, you can decide whether to pursue him or not, which is the best way to get along with your crush.

The person you have a crush on has a partner, what you can do is to let go of this relationship as soon as possible, let yourself come out, and don't be sad anymore.

Since you have a crush on each other, then whether the other party has a partner or not has nothing to do with you, so you just need to bury this love in your heart, and if you really like each other, you should show it.

Obviously, if this happens, try not to have any contact with the other party, of course, don't tell the other party if you have a crush on the other party, otherwise it is a kind of third-party interference, which is a very immoral behavior.

What can you do, crush crush, then continue to have a crush, don't express it, just bless people silently, do you still have to disassemble people, don't you work hard to grasp it, who is to blame, think about it yourself.

I think your crush has a partner, you should give up and don't destroy other people's families, there is no grass in the world, work hard to improve your ability, and true love will have me.

Bless each other Don't break up each other with your own lust for profit The best blessing is that he is good and I am good.

If you can't do silent blessings, you can silently pursue them, and since others already have an object, you can't be a third party.

The person you have a crush on already has a partner, which means that you really should let go. Explain that you have missed it. Sometimes it's easy to miss a crush if you don't confess it.

Then you should keep a certain distance from him or her.

Of course you have to fight for it.

You can't treat yourself badly.

If you work hard, you won't regret it.

From that moment on, it felt like he was no longer his own, and he couldn't even think about it; will let go, and then will definitely be unwilling, and slowly turn into obsession; I feel like something I've liked for a long time and suddenly someone else has it.

Let this crush rot in the stomach.

The person I have a crush on has a partner, and I should give it up because.

The person you have a crush on has a partner, and in this case, you have to let go, because you didn't fight for it, and you missed this marriage, which means that you have no fate.

Summary. Hello, I am Ms. Xiao Zhu, an emotional counselor, and I am very happy to serve you, and I hope to help you.

Hello, I am Ms. Xiao Zhu, an emotional counselor, and I am very happy to serve you, and I hope to help you.

It's also good to be friends with someone who has a crush on you, because at least he understands you, and it's hard to find a close friend in this world, so cherish it.

But if you do this, it is easy to give hope to the other person, and it will make the other person despair, so pay attention to yourself and his care and positioning in this relationship.

I messaged him and he replied.

Can you tell me what kind of person he is and his situation? For example, how long and to what extent I have had a crush on you.

I have a crush on him.

How long have you had a crush? What has been done for him? Does he know you have a crush on him? Does he have a preference for you?

It's been five years. I have a feeling he shouldn't know.

I have a normal relationship with him.

Why don't you make your heart known to him? Maybe he's waiting for your heart.

It's a friend at the moment, and I told him about it.

The pursuit of others requires a long period of cultivation, feelings are the need for both sides to attract each other, you have been in love and pay for so long is also very tired, can you tell all the bits and pieces that happened to you Teacher Xiao Zhu, I can give you a comprehensive analysis, find that you are not attracted to each other's neatness, give you a plan, I hope you can harvest full of love, right your persistence and dedication.

Zou Nianci sang in "How Are You So Stupid That You Don't Know If I Like It":Circles and dots, all defenses collapse in front of you, why do you turn a blind eye.

In fact, your crush is quite obvious, and the reason why it hasn't been punctured is because others don't like you.

I like you. "Why traditional Chinese characters? "Because it's not a general like. ”

The boy is very smart, it's not that he doesn't understand, he just doesn't love you.

Girls are very smart, she is just willing to be unsmart in love.

I asked you what song you like to listen to, and you told me that you were so stupid that I liked you and I didn't know it, and I told you that it was good to like you, and we were all cautiously testing each other, but neither of us dared to take the initiative to take that step.

When you asked me "do you like me", I felt that my heart stopped at that moment, and after thinking about it for a long time, I replied "No, maybe I just want someone to accompany me", I suppressed all the likes I like you in my heart, but I have you in my eyes, how stupid you are so stupid that I like you I don't know ah.

Don't dare to move forward, can't express, and don't like the ending, you can't show it completely and without reservation, and even because you know that there is no result, you will behave cautiously because of the other party's dislike, and even let the other party think you don't like it.

It's better not to be friends with your crush. After being a friend for a long time, it is easy to wipe away the little courage that you have left in your heart to confess, and become more nervous and cautious, afraid of piercing the fragile relationship that has been maintained with great difficulty, and there will really be nothing between you ......Actually, you forgot: you started from scratch.

I hope that one day, the person I like will also say softly, "I like you".