When did you really realize that you have to live for yourself?

I was beaten by my father in junior high school, so I was ready to run away from home the next day, and then after walking outside for more than two hours, I thought a lot and went home the same way ......

Nothing is taken for granted......Even the selfless efforts of parents have to be reciprocated.

No matter what you do, what you encounter, it must be related to yourself, even if you keep saying that you are living for others or something, you want to live for others, in the final analysis, you still live for yourself, no matter what you do, you live for yourself (:

When I was in college, I really realized that life must be lived for myself, because after going to college, I understood a lot of truths, that time was the first time I was truly independent, and it was also the first time I felt the warmth and coldness of human feelings, at this time I realized that life is your own, you have to live for yourself, not for your parents, for friends.

In the past, I liked to consider the feelings of the people around me in almost everything, whether it was a big or small thing, and after a long time, I found that even if I thought about others so much, others would not thank me, but felt that it was a matter of course, and I would feel very tired and tired, and I felt that my life was to live for others. Now I think this sentence is very reasonable, life must be lived for yourself, and you can only think about others when you live happily, so that life is meaningful.

I feel like I've lived my life because of my family. But when I went to high school slowly, getting closer and closer to the college entrance examination, I found more and more that no matter whether people succeed or fail in this life, when they really taste that joy, only I can experience it personally. So no matter what you become, it's your own gains, or all the reasons why you haven't worked hard.

We don't have any reason to blame our families, what background we are given, or what we are really doing to keep us learning. In fact, at the end of the day, we are all just trying to live a better life for ourselves. Therefore, after that college entrance examination, I felt that what I wanted to live in the future, what I wanted, I had to have a clear goal, and I didn't want to live an unclear life for the rest of my life.

Or what kind of responsibility should I have for myself. I have to be clear and give myself a clear direction.

After graduation, when you look for a job after graduation, you will find that it is too difficult to find a job, and you may not be satisfied with finding a job. At this time, I realized that I must live for myself, not in the shadow of others, and must live my own life.

I said that after a year of college, I really realized that life must be lived for myself, because in the future life, only rely on oneself to struggle, parents give temporary, we can not rely on parents alone, only the future created by ourselves is really in our own hands, so we must live for ourselves, struggle for ourselves.

It should be when I was in college, I have been studying very hard before high school, I want to get into a good school, go out of the mountains, and I have been exposed to too few new things since I was a child, and after entering college, my vision has become wider and I have been exposed to more things, and at that time I really realized that life must be lived for myself.

Once when I was traveling with a group, I found that there were a lot of excellent people around me, because they knew a lot about things, so I felt that I had to learn something for myself, so that I could know more and be happier.

When I was experiencing difficulties, confusion, and helplessness, there was no one around me to help, at that time I set goals for myself, planning, and hoped that I could live for myself, not every time I listened to work because of what others said, so I wanted to live for myself, and I wanted to work hard for myself!

After joining the work, when I was busy working hard for my ideals and dreams every day, I knew that sometimes a person really has to live for himself, only he can control his own destiny, only he can reflect his own value, and sometimes we have to work hard to complete these things.

When I experienced the low point of my life, I really realized that life must be lived for yourself, because this is your own life, no one will live for you and no one will really help, you can only save yourself, you yourself let you live a better life, don't live for others, do what you like, life is so short.

For this question, I think so, there is a saying that it is better to die than to live, life is very important for each of us, life belongs to us only once, the process of prolonging life, maybe there will be some suffering, but as long as you live, life is more meaningful, my choice is of course to prolong life.

First of all, being alive is a victory. Each of us wants to live a little longer so that you can achieve a lot of dreams and do what you love. To enjoy all the good that life has to offer us.

There is only one necessary condition for all this – to be alive. So as long as there is hope, we have no reason to give up on life.

Secondly, the pain is only temporary, and after surviving the painful time, you can enjoy a better life. It is impossible for people not to get sick in this life, it must be very painful in the disease, so we should actively go to the ** when we are sick, now that the medical means are so developed, many diseases can be transplanted, and they can be transplanted, so don't give up the hope of your life because of temporary illness.

Third, you must give yourself confidence that everything will be better if you insist on it. Some people may have an unbearable feeling when they encounter illness, and the people themselves are suffering from sin, and only giving up is liberation. I think this kind of thinking is very negative, and at all times we must face everything with a positive attitude and have an optimistic and cheerful attitude, which will help me overcome the pain and return myself to a healthy body.

The process of alleviating the pain, the process of bringing you hope, only by experiencing this pain, prolonging our life, making life more quality and more dignified. So don't give up at any time.

Hello. I have thought about the question of "the meaning of life", and I believe that many people have thought about it.

Regarding life, I don't like mediocrity and over-the-top "people" generally struggle to do the work of a place and survival, I want to be "different". The life I want is a life with a soul, and the basic satisfaction of material things is only a by-product of the pursuit of the soul, it is not essential, it does not need too much, it is not too little. The belief that a meaningful life comes with the production of basic material satisfactions.

Socrates once went to the streets of ancient Greece and saw a wide variety of goods and said, "There are so many things here that I don't need." Alain de Botton, in The Anxiety of Identity, argues that we are now better off than we were in the old days, but that we were at least happy and would not be "anxious" about unfulfilled "desires". (Written from my memory, please refer to the relevant information for details).

When a person dies, the status and identity he pursues are gone, and what may be left is the influence he brings to others. Maybe it's for a loved one, a friend, a lover. But I don't think these influences have any meaning, and the real ones should be the social significance of things like Einstein.

It is true that the "meaning of life" that each person pursues is related to his or her own personality and values, so different people may have different understandings. I think my understanding of this is heavily influenced by the reputation of my character, and the imposition of some rationality on the basis of sensibility.

Everyone thinks differently, the "meaning of life" is different, and it can be changed by circumstances. Therefore, I think that the "meaning of life" should be conceived and dialectically perfected.

If you find it difficult to find the "meaning of life", you can first look at the biographies of people you are interested in, or Zaoyan speeches, etc. Strive to find and constantly improve and persevere.

Hope it helps.