What s it like to have a friend who changes plans frequently?

Now that he has developed a habit, or has adapted to his personal lifestyle, we usually plan to do something before, and I don't absolutely care about what is planned, that is, it is enough to remember that there is such a thing, because before the matter is decided or before it is actually done, he is very likely to change his plan, and he has been with him for five or six years, well, I have known him for a long time, and I have already known him for this kind of character, so it is more about everything, and I will talk about it after it is determined, When this thing really starts to be done, then there is some preparation, but I will not take it to heart completely, or I will have a great expectation of him.

I am a very unassertive person, travel like to travel with friends with a plan, remember the May Day holiday with friends to go out to play, a month before he was planning, although the plan is many, but the change is fast, in the end did not go anywhere, at home for three days, I am also helpless to meet such a friend, at the beginning of the very long-awaited, and then the disappointment is also great.

I think that if you have a friend who often changes her plan, she will say what she wants to do, but suddenly she will stop doing it, and then change to another one, that is, the things you have prepared will not be usable, and it will be difficult to deal with, and then it will be more annoying after many times.

I think it's also good, because sometimes the plan can't keep up with the change, the original plan can't be implemented, and there is another plan, which is good. Everything you do has to be prepared for the second one.

But if you can't do what you promised others, sometimes you don't want to trust her anymore. I remember when I was in junior high school, I had a very good girlfriend, she always said what we were going to do on the weekend, we were going to ** before going to school, but when it was time to go to school, because her mother sent her. Even if I hadn't asked her, she wouldn't have told me to abandon me and leave first.

It's chilling to think about, so why can't you think about other people's feelings and other people's thoughts?

I think it's a painful experience to have a friend who often changes his mind, because every time something is agreed, there is no way to achieve it without planning in advance, my colleague is like this, every time he makes an appointment in advance and says that he is going to play, and then every time he misses the appointment, I don't want to ask her again.

Such friends are very susceptible to external factors, and generally speaking, they are relatively unassertive, so they must be clear about their position when getting along, and do not change their original intentions and positions because of the change of your friends, and you can also give more constructive suggestions to your friends.

What I'm thinking about is what kind of plan this plan is, if it's a friend's own life plan, if it's not about the plan with me, I don't think it matters, after all, it doesn't involve me, if it involves my plan, we make an appointment to play together, it's okay to change the plan temporarily, if you often change the plan when you have nothing to do, then, after a long time, you will naturally stay away from this friend.

Although many things in life are planned to keep up with the changes. But if you keep changing your plans, how can you do a good job?

When something is difficult, we can't leave it behind and ignore it, because it's an escape. If everything in life is treated like this, then you, the doctor, may be wasted, because you are not solving problems, but creating problems.

Every time I make an appointment with him, I will make a plan B by myself, because he will always change the itinerary at the last minute, haha, what should I do, I'm used to it, who made him my best friend, as long as it's not a big thing in principle, I don't care. But ordinary friends don't have this treatment, if it always changes, it is estimated that it will be difficult to date me in the future.