In the countryside, what relatives do you meet that makes your heart cold?

If I had to say that one of my relatives would make me feel the most cold, it would be when I was in the countrysideWhen I meet relatives who have been estranged since they became wealthy, it chills me.

Because after some relatives have money, they will feel that you and it are already two people of different classes. Your vision and schedule are no longer of the same level, so they won't want to be related to you. themI only want to get along with people who are on the same level as them.

Therefore, even if you are his relative, because you have different economic levels, he will not associate with you even if you are related by blood. If you don't associate with your relatives because they are not that rich, it will make people think that you are very snobbish. Over time, it will also make people feel that you are a relative and make people feel very cold.

In addition, another reason why some relatives stay away from their relatives after they become rich is that they are afraid that their relatives will ask them to borrow money. Because they feel that their relatives will not repay the money after they borrow it, so they will not interact with their relatives directly.

But when their relatives are really in trouble, they will not lend a helping hand when they need money urgently. What is unexpected is that they will hide far away, for fear that their relatives will come to the door to ask for money.

This kind of relatives who do not help their relatives when they encounter difficulties and watch their relatives helpless in the face of difficulties is also very chilling. Therefore, in fact, when a person feels cold to his relatives, it is just a move by the other party.

Sow discord behind your back, face to face and one behind your back, say all the good things when you borrow money, and immediately have another face when you repay the money.

Behind the scenes, she provokes our relationship with other people, and pretends to be a good person, even if you see her, she can pretend to be very concerned about greetings, but once you are behind your back, she will start to smear you.

The kind of relatives who don't care about how my life is usually done, and they usually don't have much contact, and they ask me how much money I can make every month as soon as they come up, which is very annoying.

My grandparents opened a small shop, and there were always some relatives who paid on credit, but they didn't give it later, hundreds, thousands, and felt that even the elderly were bullied, and they didn't look like relatives at all.

Of course, there is one case where there is interest. It involves dividing property, or borrowing money to repay money, because there are too many falling outs.

Because we moved to the city relatively early, we didn't go back to the countryside much, and then when I went back to the countryside for the Chinese New Year last year, I met a relative who was telling right and wrong and said bad things about me in front of others behind my back.

They talk badly about me behind my back, that I don't do anything at home all day, that I'm lazy, that my grades are not good, or something like that, and that I have a boyfriend in society.

There is a kind of elbow turn, and some relatives do not come to help you, but will step on you and follow others to speak ill of you. It's really uncomfortable.

I have met relatives who are kidnapped by family affection and kidnapped by morality, they feel that they have something to do with you, and you can help with anything you have a little ability, and if you don't help, they will say that you have no conscience. This kind of relative makes me chill and sad the most.

The most chilling relative I have ever seen is that my friend's father is sick and needs money urgently, and he is close, obviously rich, but he doesn't borrow.

The most chilling family relationship I have encountered is when I was sick, they did not have anyone to take care of me, and no one took money to share my medical expenses.

The most chilling thing is that my dad thinks I'm thin and doesn't take me out for fear of losing face. And my uncle is very realistic, he doesn't even want brotherhood for money, and he is very powerful.

I've come across that, even as a child, they were always hypocritical, and when my family was in trouble, they avoided it.

Since I was a child, I have said bad things about me in front of my family, making right and wrong out of nothing, and obviously there are no things that can give you a whole flower, when I was young, I went out with a few friends and was met by her, and it reached the ears of my parents that I was pulling and pulling with men outside and taking money from men.

It is the kind of person who does not take the initiative to contribute when supporting his parents, but is particularly active when it comes to dividing property. It makes me feel particularly unbearable.

The most bizarre relatives I have met are that they are really willing to be greedy, even the slightest bit of cheapness, they are willing to take advantage of it.

I met a relative who was very unfriendly, never spoke to people with a smile, and kept swearing.

The former is that my grandfather died, and they only cared about dividing the property, and they still looked like it was originally mine, but they never paid.

In the first year of junior high school, my grandmother was diagnosed with a suspected tumor, and my uncle proposed that the whole family take a group photo.

That day in the photo studio, my grandmother said that she couldn't let go of these grandchildren, so she called the grandchildren one by one, and gave each of them a red envelope after explaining them respectively, saying that she was afraid that she would not see the juniors get married, so she sent her blessings to everyone in advance, and opened them when she got married. Then he said to his uncle with relief: "I have also arranged the affairs of these dolls for my grandchildren, and I have no regrets even if I leave."

None of my six grandchildren are married, and I am the fourth in age, two grandchildren, two grandchildren, and two granddaughters.

But it's a pity that in such a beautiful picture, among the people who were told and blessed, without me, in the beautiful friendship between grandparents and grandchildren, I was selectively forgotten.

After only a few years of her mother's first marriage, her first husband died, and her grandmother insisted that her mother be widowed. So when my mother decided to marry my father, my grandmother decided to break off the mother-daughter relationship. In order to get the approval of his mother's family, no matter how busy he was with his work, no matter how tired his grandmother was, his father was the first to arrive.

Over the years, I have done a lot of money and efforts, but my grandmother has always hated this son-in-law, and even with me, my own grandson, I am not very treated.

Over the years, my grandmother has never taken me to eat anything, never bought me anything, and even when I was six years old, I was naughty and broke my hand, and I never came to a **, I have been lying to myself, maybe my grandmother is too old to take care of me.

It wasn't until that day in the photo studio, standing next to my five cousins, that I really understood what it meant to turn a blind eye.

I left without hesitation, behind my mother who was desperately calling out to me and my father who was silent, and I was always alone in the family portrait of three generations of grandparents. But maybe in my grandmother's eyes, everyone is already together, or maybe she thinks there are more outsiders.

When I found out that I was injured outside, and my family was uncomfortable and blamed me, I knew that this was not my harbor either.

When I was in school, my family asked me to read books every day for exams, and I was not allowed to go anywhere except to read books.

It makes me feel cold when my family doesn't believe me. At some point, my family suspects me of doing something I shouldn't have done because of the instigation of others, and it's really cold, can't there be more trust between family members!?

When I was faced with difficulties and needed to be solved, I disdained me, I could only choose to resist myself, they only cared about whether you would bring money and benefits.

When you need comfort, when you need help, they will only sneer and gloat at you, and this kind of family makes my heart feel cold.

I quarreled with my boyfriend, and when I went back, my parents persuaded me to go back no matter what, and I talked to him, and my heart was really cold at that moment.

I went door to door to borrow money from my relatives, but no one was willing to help me.

Knowing that he can't earn much money from his work, he often asks himself for money to play, and eats and drinks with a group of old people.

When I was sick, I needed to be cared for and accompanied by my family, but I was locked up at home alone, and I ordered takeout by myself when I wanted to eat. I don't feel like I'm biological.

The biggest reason for a cold heart is nothing more than that you think that the person closest to you says or does something that hurts you. From that moment on, I no longer considered him my closest person.

In the past, when my father was still around, I thought that my relatives were very good and very good to our family, but after my father died, I suddenly found that "people go to tea and cool", and even began to bully us.

Normally, after my father left, my grandfather should have been very sad and excessive, but he also did something that really made me very angry, and until now I feel that how can parents in the world be like this.

At my father's funeral, my grandfather just cried bitterly on the front foot and said that you, an unfilial son, why did you walk in front of your father? But after some of the cries, when he left the courtyard of our house, he began to hum the opera and left our house. In fact, I really can't tell if it's because his mentality is too good, or if he is indifferent to his father at all.

I didn't understand it very much, and when I think about it now, I feel that I have a hatred for my grandfather<>

During the first year of my father's death, my grandfather walked to our house humming a little song and said to my mother, "Come, let's take a family photo," and my tears flowed down my eyes. At this time, my feelings for my grandfather are really sublimated to the point where I want to go up and slap him, my father is no longer there, what kind of family portrait to take, can I call a family photo without my father?

Mom has high blood pressure himself, he was so angry with his mother that he fainted, I saw that my mother had fainted, and I was also afraid of losing my mother, I yelled at my grandfather directly, please get out of our house, you are not welcome in our house.

Later, my grandfather told my uncle about it, and my uncle came to my house and said that I was not filial, and that I should not treat my grandfather with that attitude.

In the past, I often saw some old people disrespecting the old in some reports, but when it really happened to me, I suddenly felt that my grandfather was my dearest relative, how could he treat our family like this? I've never figured it out, and I still can't.

Every time I think about his behavior, it hurts very much in my heart, and I feel that my grandfather is not worthy of such a good father as me.

I think that when it comes to interests, relatives will do things that make you chill.

For example, recently came to my house one week, and then a cat came into my house, and the cat scratched my relative, in fact, no one thought of it, we didn't think of it, but my relative, just said that my cat scratched him, so he went to get an injection, and then he was very righteous, and gave my mother the injection list or something, and asked my mother to give him money.

It's chilling, but at the same time I'm speechless, after all, the cat isn't mine.

There is also a relative, that is, when he asks you for help, you. I've been helping him, but when you have something to find him, he immediately blocks you, the kind that is really blocked, and he doesn't contact him at all.

Sometimes when you get along with these relatives, you will feel that human nature is really not worth testing at all, and when it comes to the issue of interests, some people will treat you as a stranger without blinking.

After my father died, all my relatives on my father's side cut off relations with us for fear of being dragged down, my mother took my 6-year-old brother and 3-year-old me, and a younger brother who was about to be born to live a difficult life, more than 40 years have passed, our brothers and sisters have lived a good life, they (they) come to recognize their relatives again, and their hearts are cold, how can they recognize them (them).

When I was a child, my aunt had a dinner party, and my group of relatives went. I was scolded by my uncle for eating an extra chicken leg because I was ignorant, and I cried aggrieved at the time, and then left. Later, my uncle didn't admit it, saying that he didn't say anything, and my cousin and cousin obviously saw my uncle scolding me, but they all helped my uncle commit perjury, and even my aunt insisted that my uncle didn't scold me at all, saying that I wronged my uncle.

Let me talk about one, my grandfather has five brothers, my grandfather is the third, very young to our county's largest rich family as a long-term worker to earn money for other brothers to study, after the liberation of my grandfather and my fourth grandfather, my fourth grandfather became the secretary of the brigade, one year our family built a house, my fourth grandfather led their people to cut down my grandfather's tree, my grandfather asked them to theorize, my fourth grandfather said, the age is wrong, and their family will pay us compensation. The next day they cut down their own tree again, and my grandfather asked them why they didn't believe what they said, and they said, I just don't want your son to build a house, your family should be poor, and beat my grandfather, and now it's okay, and three of their six children died in two years.

My husband and his niece stayed at my house for half a month, and they were offended. Her parents said that there was something wrong with the child. However, I insisted on watching TV every night and not sleeping, and my husband said that she wanted this and that for three days.

As a result, the parents didn't know what their daughter said, something was wrong. I don't care, anyway, we live our own lives and love us. So, good people can't be.

Don't deal with those who don't know how to be grateful.