Emotional distress, communication problems? Now I often talk to GF coldly

The main reason is that you have few opportunities to meet, and you lack common topics and common hobbies, so you can't communicate together.

You will never be like this at the beginning, because the relationship is short, but now that it is slowly a long time, problems will appear, so I personally think you are suitable for being good friends!

Think about it, be realistic! Friend!

It can only be said that your girlfriend doesn't understand people very well. Maybe it's still small! She doesn't know that you're tired from going to work every day.

Just talk to each other about what you miss. After all, you only rely on ** to communicate. It's impossible to say no play every day.

Try not giving it to her for a long time** If she is in a hurry, it means that she loves you.

If she doesn't react, you break up.

It's good for everyone to be in a long-distance relationship, it's tiring, it's tiring.

It's because if you're not together, there's a lot less to talk about.

Let it be.

My boyfriend is 12 years older than me, but he cares about me and we have a good personality. Try to respect her wishes, sticking too tightly will make people feel uncomfortable, everyone needs to have their own space. You still have to care more about her and be good to her, and she will feel it, and in turn be good to you.

Do a good job, it's time to talk about something practical after talking about love, and prove to her that you can marry her after graduation.

The result of a long-distance relationship.

1 breakup. 2. One party gives up what he or she has now for the other party and goes to work and live in his or her city.

It's unrealistic to fall in love between the two places, talk to each other well, the distance between you is beautiful, even if you solve the problem this time, you will be like this in a few days, if you really can't really love each other without each other, give up something for each other!

No, it may be that you have been together for a long time, so the relationship is not as hot as before, and you all have to get used to this change. A long-distance relationship is indeed much harder than a relationship between two people, and I deeply understand this, you are a man, so you may have to do more and work harder. Seeing you asking this question, I believe you still love her, and if you get too close, then call less ** and send more messages.

Also, you'll have to try to get closer to her. After all, the ** relationship can't last long. Visit her more often when you have time.

Since you have said some situations in the question supplement, it means that you have also made efforts, not just for you alone, any relationship is on both sides, I think it must be because you are not together, the topic must be much less, in general you have problems, you need to communicate with her, serious communication, if you think this relationship is worth it, then you need to talk to her in person, so that she will feel that you are sincere, and it is also a sign of responsibility for yourself, after all** It is not a substitute for face-to-face conversation.

Hit ** every few days.

Don't be every day, I used to be too. The results are not good.

One situation: the escalation of love becomes family affection.

At that time, he didn't give you so many sweet words, but just a kind of bland and even boring understanding him, maybe the pressure of work and life is too much.

In two cases, he was originally a selfish person, and he didn't show it before, but now he has shown it after a long time.

If this kind of person is a person, it is better to consider leaving, thinking that there is still a long way to go, and if you want to keep this relationship, communicate more, or take the method of snubbing him, if he cares about you, he will know.

Take your time and understand each other better.

You have to talk about it well, after all, after such a long relationship, you won't say that it will be gone. He may be a little inconsiderate and wants to be more of himself.

But you have to take into account his psychology, if you go to graduate school and work with him, will he have a sense of psychological difference? A man has to face a lot of things at work, and it can be very tiring. Because he has a heavy burden on his shoulders.

Besides, if two people are not together for a long time, the relationship will fade, so you have to work together to find the root cause and maintain your relationship together.

Just like when people are sick, love will too.

Sympathize with it first.,For this kind of person.,It should be a little simpler.。。。 Regardless of whether he agrees or not, he broke up.

This kind of talent is not worth liking anymore.

Also, what's the use of memories? People can't rely on memories to live a lifetime of feelings, it's all a momentary thing.

Personal opinion: he doesn't love you!

Isn't there anyone so busy now that they don't even have a ** time??

You can consider not sticking to this relationship, when he doesn't want to break up, because it's not easy for this relationship to last for 5 years, so he doesn't want to break up for a while!

I'm already working, and I have a girlfriend, but I like to tell my girlfriend about the joys and sorrows of my work every day, because the two of us love each other and share happiness together!!

Maybe he thinks that your relationship is a certainty, so it is better to create a few small misunderstandings for him, so that he is nervous and worried about you. The next time I call him, I casually mention that a guy has been asking about you lately, etc.。。 But don't go too far, or it will backfire...

See how it looks. After all, your relationship is very deep, and love needs two people to manage it together, and he doesn't have this consciousness to find a way to attract his attention. Don't break up lightly.

If you're feeling too tired, why not take a break and ask yourself what's wrong? Find the crux of the problem, and if you still can't think of it after a long time, then separate for a while. Distance is the driving force behind emotional problems.

Sincerity for sincerity. Hope you do better.

Five years is not a long time, it is not a short time, you know and love each other in college, you have given the most precious and youthful five years of your life to a person who is not even willing to fight with you?

Do you think you still love him, you might as well communicate well, this kind of thing is better to solve it as soon as possible, otherwise you will be cranky, and you will be more tired.

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I also think he doesn't love anymore.

If he met another girl at his place of work now, he would probably be with someone else.

The problem with yours is that you don't trust your "him" anymore, you're suspicious, so you're nervous, you're going to think about it, you're going to get tired!

Think for yourself. What kind of man he was; How much do you know about him; Don't think about what he's doing!

I just want to possess it

Sometimes I feel that way

There's a reason for the character, right?、I don't want others to have him、

The relationship between different places is difficult to maintain, give up, it will be a relief for you.

My friend and I are in a similar situation to you, and I have quarreled several times, so maybe it has a lot to do with personality issues! Like my personality is very different, I can't help it, and like most people, I like to send ** messages often, but he's different, so it's hard for me to understand. If we hadn't been together for so long, I would have thought he was playing with me!

Long-distance love.

It's hard to maintain.

I really want to be with him and have a future.

Confidence in yourself and in him.

My boyfriend is also a child from a single-parent family.

But I don't think he's inconsiderate to me.

Feelings are a woman's life, and I don't care if it's a man's fatal wound to a woman.

But beware: there are two very extreme types of men, one is silent and the other is verbal. If a silent man knows how to express his love with actions, this is also a very beautiful thing.

But if there is no language and no action, it is necessary to consider more about the relationship between the two. I don't recommend mentioning the word breakup casually, that can only be the path that can only be chosen to the point of irreparability in the end.

How can there be no feelings after so many years together. But sometimes, especially when a man treats you as his partner or relative, he will ignore your existence. He thinks that you are his relative, and his relatives will not care whether they have chatted with you today, such a small thing, he thinks you should support him and understand him.

You will help him selflessly in whatever he does, without anything in return. It can't be said that he doesn't love you anymore, only that he is used to treating you as a part of himself and not bothering about you. Love is just family affection in the end, and love is beautiful.

But marriage is very realistic. Take a little more time to communicate with him and let him understand that you also need his care and love. Don't let him feel like you're independent.

He absolutely loves himself above all! At least now you care more about him.

Don't make yourself so sad, try to show your excellent self in your colleagues and classmates at the moment, there will be a boy who is more suitable for you to find you and take care of you When the time comes, let him regret it.

Selfish people cannot follow; Listen to your mom and you're right.

Since both of them have no intention of carefully maintaining this relationship, let's end it early!

I think you should just tell him what you think now, and we should talk about it together. I used to feel this way, and slowly I will have no feelings, because you will feel that you don't need him anymore. So try talking to him again! Bless you.

Sometimes, the quiet listeners breathe each other as a kind of happiness.

Haha, interesting.

Take points, in fact, if you don't have anything to say, just tell a joke, hehe.

Don't fight every day... It's going to annoy him! I'm also a person from the past. It's because I call him every day. He thought I was too annoying. So it's divided.

It's normal...

I can lift a morning with him**.

But I can't say a few words.

He was willing to do that.

Ask her if she has encountered a problem today (studying or working, because I don't know if you are employed), and if she says no, she will talk about herself, such as a conflict with a colleague (classmate), or a joke with each other or something.

Falling in love is about getting to know each other, and understanding is the beginning of life bit by bit. Or talk about the interesting things that happened to you before, or some things ...... your leaders (teachers).There are so many topics

We're quite similar.

It is recommended that you change your cheerfulness. Talking a lot of gf

I was the same with my former girlfriend.

It's good now.

If you really love, there will naturally be a thread in your heart, and you will not suffer from gains and losses. Each other understands in their hearts, so why should they talk too much?

A thousand words are all in the words, "What's the use of saying too much and not seeing, say that she is interested, and when you say it with some praise, she will be happy".

Think about several topics before you talk to her. If you're afraid of forgetting, write it down in your notebook

Haha it's nothing, because there's nothing to say about it, and there are too few fun things that happen in a day

You can hit ** again every once in a while

Actually, it's normal... I don't know what to say sometimes.

For example, what did you have fun about today? Ask her what she is doing

Don't fight ** every day, otherwise this kind of cold field will create an illusion for the other party, thinking that there is no emotion between you.

Do you still love her?

If you don't love it, let it go.

If you are still in love, make it clear to her,,, talk to her well, talk to her about your doubts, don't be afraid that the relationship will break down, if she still loves you, your relationship will definitely go to another level after talking, if she doesn't love you anymore, even if you haven't talked to her, she will break up with you one day.

Kenneng is a little tired of you during this time, it's best to buy something special or surprise her, but don't pester her, it will make her more disgusted with you and more stiff.

Find a woman who is more beautiful than her and pretend to be your girlfriend to try, if she reacts, then congratulations, there is still salvation, if she is indifferent, count it, a manly husband, why not have a wife?

It's very vague, keep trying, to be honest, she doesn't love you at all and doesn't like you.

You're not her ideal choice, it's just that there is no better fit for you right now!

There are two possibilities: 1. You are just used to heal, she is out of love, and you are used by her to heal;

2. You still can't meet the requirements she wants

When nothing happens, take the initiative to talk to her.

If it's because two people have an opinion and don't speak, then you should coax her If it's because I feel that I have nothing to say, this problem is a bit serious, and it's easy to break up after a long time, and it is recommended that you lean together to watch TV series If men feel bored, women like the kind Lou She is gentle, or take her out to see the stars, hug her, look at her eyes, and tell her that you like her This kind of time can increase the relationship between two people.

Bless you all.

Is it because they quarreled and didn't talk, or are they together and now have nothing to say? If it's the first case, talk about solving things, if it's the second case, think about whether you don't want to say it or don't know what to say, the best topic is to care about your girlfriend and ask about her life, mood, family, work and study.